I know each woman is different, but I am tired of an American mentality

привет! I could use a different perspective and advice. First I'll give you a little background about myself. I am a 26 year old successful man with a kind heart. I am very outgoing and I enjoy meeting new people all the time. I seem to be attracted to the worst women. My friend's wife, who is Russian, told me it was only an American trait in women. She said Russian women have stronger values. (Kinda why I joined this site to see the difference). I hit a point in my life where I wish to "slow down". I know the single life is not for me anymore. Women have all these traits they look for in men. I don't have any traits I look for in a woman. I enjoy the unknown. Is this because I don't know what I want? Is this because I have enjoyed being single for too long? Do we set goals way too high? I just want one connection that is meant to last and show her how a man is supposed to treat a woman. Or is love really lust? Are we meant to love multiple people through out our life time in this day and age. Going back to before, should I not look for a woman and let her find me? I'm not used to a woman approaching a man. The choices I have made before led me to only ending the relationship for lack of values and meaning. I know each woman is different, but I am tired of an American mentality. Women in my culture expect to be treated like a princess with out having to do anything. I have an issue with this. I was raised to treat people with respect when given respect. Love is not one person in servitude. I thought it was two people collectively giving all of themselves to each other in hopes of a beautiful life. Am I mistaken, or does our generation not possess these qualities anymore? If so, I will not worry and continue to live happily single. Thank you for taking the time to read this. Additional insight would be greatly appreciated.