The first real meeting

Hello, ladies

At point of curiosity mixed with some real emotions there is one question that bugging me last days. It is related to the first real meeting and which one is the most suitable way. I realize that there are many factors that should be consider in order to planning such event, but at other side when we starting evaluation of every factor it may appears that the real meeting is close to never. I can't hide that I met a special woman here and I promise to myself that I should meet her before trying to find someone else, but unfortunately our meeting was postponed due various reasons. She became unemployed at time when I was at work without a possibility to take a holiday, when I was on holiday she has started a work within trial period and it isn't possible yet to think about travelling. At other side we talking on Skype once a week because of 4-hours time difference, but we know how we looking   So, if you put yourself on the place which factors you consider as most important for a real meeting and when a lady is ready emotionally for such step? I'm trying to think about all details, but who knows - may be I miss something important. Thanks in advance!