Hello! I'm reading the forum and I'm interested .. I have a question .. everyone aspire immediately, from the first steps to build the "right relationship". Very seriously analyze words and deeds, and look very deeply )) In my opinion this is strange. In a real life, we are all much easier, more fun and more tolerant to the actions of men and women. I accept - that this is a specific feature of this place. But! I think we all are in a hurry. We hasten to get acquainted with the purpose of "serious relations", we force each other to make decisions to be or not to be, categorically find out the very personal moments for to "know exactly". This is all beyond reality a little bit.. such a special aggressiveness and haste is comical )) Sorry, this is just my opinion. I understand all the reasons to do so. But maybe a little relax, stop running and catching up, and do only what's nice. If someone on your wave - ah, that is super, this is mega bingo. If not - just do not catch up, do not teach and do not judge .. Give your soul only harmony and happiness, get away from anxiety and irritation .. I think the idea of marriage is secondary. This is as a consequence of harmony, not vice versa)) best wishes, Nola
Hello! I'm reading the forum and I'm interested .. I have a question .. everyone aspire immediately, from the first steps to build the "right relationship". Very seriously analyze words and deeds, and look very deeply )) In my opinion this is strange. In a real life, we are all much easier, more fun and more tolerant to the actions of men and women. I accept - that this is a specific feature of this place. But! I think we all are in a hurry. We hasten to get acquainted with the purpose of "serious relations", we force each other to make decisions to be or not to be, categorically find out the very personal moments for to "know exactly". This is all beyond reality a little bit.. such a special aggressiveness and haste is comical )) Sorry, this is just my opinion. I understand all the reasons to do so. But maybe a little relax, stop running and catching up, and do only what's nice. If someone on your wave - ah, that is super, this is mega bingo. If not - just do not catch up, do not teach and do not judge .. Give your soul only harmony and happiness, get away from anxiety and irritation .. I think the idea of marriage is secondary. This is as a consequence of harmony, not vice versa)) best wishes, Nola
