Two questions

For both male and female members, nothing serious I am just interested in discussion and viewpoints: 1. on here are you hunter or prey? or a bit of each? 2. what is your response when you receive a wink or message from somebody that you are not interested in or somebody who is clearly not suitable for you? Actually 3 questions: 3. what the hell is the point of a wink? We are all adults on here, if you cannot say something to the person you want to contact, then why do you want to contact them?