Would ypu REALLY move and leave your old life behind?
Hello friends,
For a few months I have been back online after a break and something struck me a couple of days ago that I think deserves discussion. For the purpose of the discussion let's say that a man meets a good woman and all is well and good in La La land. She has a good career and a life and family..and has every life attachment a person could have. She signs up on this site and really has a positive outlook about finding her life partner. She does find him...and they are happy in La La land until the topic of a REAL LOVE come up. LEAVING her dog in quarantine for up to 2 months, and leaving behind her office work and job are now VERY real issues! Her family will not be able to come right away and neither will she be able to go home. She will be waiting for a travel permit or her green card to come so travel is impossible.
What if she owns a flat or a car and now all of those things will be left behind except her clothes and maybe a laptop and of course her make-up.
All of the glamour of this website and the joyous rituals of getting new letters or new Skype contacts goes away and now the ''man of your dreams" has arrived and is waiting to marry you in his country..the USA maybe. Its all real now...you must leave your career behind and go to the USA with no real direction except marriage. In my experience with women from the former Soviet states they are very smart and beautiful and strong willed. They want to work and contribute...they want to have their own money and their own world(inside your world of course). They will see this change as losing some of their identity m. They may unwillingly let this tension have an effect on your relationship and soon all of these bright dreams and big life goals hit a speed bump in the road....IT'S CALLED REALITY and I hope if you read this then you are ready and prepared for these huge changes. You can comment on my opinions and please let me know of your experiences.
Thx for reading this and best wishes on your search for a soul mate!
<p>Hello friends,</p><p> For a few months I have been back online after a break and something struck me a couple of days ago that I think deserves discussion. For the purpose of the discussion let's say that a man meets a good woman and all is well and good in La La land. She has a good career and a life and family..and has every life attachment a person could have. She signs up on this site and really has a positive outlook about finding her life partner. She does find him...and they are happy in La La land until the topic of a REAL LOVE come up. LEAVING her dog in quarantine for up to 2 months, and leaving behind her office work and job are now VERY real issues! Her family will not be able to come right away and neither will she be able to go home. She will be waiting for a travel permit or her green card to come so travel is impossible. </p><p> </p><p>What if she owns a flat or a car and now all of those things will be left behind except her clothes and maybe a laptop and of course her make-up. </p><p> </p><p>All of the glamour of this website and the joyous rituals of getting new letters or new Skype contacts goes away and now the ''man of your dreams" has arrived and is waiting to marry you in his country..the USA maybe. Its all real now...you must leave your career behind and go to the USA with no real direction except marriage. In my experience with women from the former Soviet states they are very smart and beautiful and strong willed. They want to work and contribute...they want to have their own money and their own world(inside your world of course). They will see this change as losing some of their identity m. They may unwillingly let this tension have an effect on your relationship and soon all of these bright dreams and big life goals hit a speed bump in the road....IT'S CALLED REALITY and I hope if you read this then you are ready and prepared for these huge changes. You can comment on my opinions and please let me know of your experiences. </p><p>Thx for reading this and best wishes on your search for a soul mate!</p>
