Although I am new to this site; the many profiles I have visited have been very interesting. I will read through them completely. I find beautiful women with whom I meet their age requirments, weight, height and everything else and then it shows that they want to live where it is constantly warm. That is fine, but from what I remember about those climates; the men who live there are already going to be able to have the money to find the woman they want or the men aren't generally going to be able to support a woman from another country. Again, not in all cases but a lot of cases. The next thing is that I may see the statement that the woman has not been contacted for a long time. Here is this beautiful woman and her profile is wonderful. Again, I may fit everything she asks for so I contact her. I am fine with not being contacted back, but what are the expectations we have for each other that if we are here for the same reason that we wouldn't contact each other?
I have written several women, a couple who have responded and have said they would like to get to know me and ask to learn more. So I write them and tell them a little more. Now there is nothing bizarre about what I write, nothing that would make me sound like someone to be afraid of; yet I never hear back. Even when we meet someone face to face we know that we need to give someone a little time to get to know each other, at least I would hope. Now we are on-line and we aren't quite sure of who the other person is. Wouldn't we want to give each other a little more time? Again, I am ok with no responses but if there is something that we don't feel is right let the other person know.
There are more examples but the short version of the story is where are our expectations when we are on-line? Don't put all men into one category, and men don't put all women into one category. Ladies, if a western hemisphere man asks you to skype early on, not all are wanting something sexual. A lot of us are wanting to verify that the person we are seeing in the pictures are indeed you. There are to many scam stories that we need verification. A lot of us also find your language beautiful and if you do speak english and we don't speak your language, what better way to start helping each other learn. It is also a better way to develop a relationship if there is one there. Over skype you can hear each other laugh and see each other smile. You can't do that here. So not all motives are bad.
It's just a thought. Oh, one last thing. If you say you are a happy individual and like to smile; make sure you have those pictures on your site, and we should do the same as well.
Have a wonderful day.
Scott
<p>Although I am new to this site; the many profiles I have visited have been very interesting. I will read through them completely. I find beautiful women with whom I meet their age <span class="spellchecker-word-highlight">requirments</span>, weight, height and everything else and then it shows that they want to live where it is constantly warm. That is fine, but from what I remember about those climates; the men who live there are already going to be able to have the money to find the woman they want or the men aren't generally going to be able to support a woman from another country. Again, not in all cases but a lot of cases. The next thing is that I may see the statement that the woman has not been contacted for a long time. Here is this beautiful woman and her profile is wonderful. Again, I may fit everything she asks for so I contact her. I am fine with not being contacted back, but what are the expectations we have for each other that if we are here for the same reason that we wouldn't contact each other?</p>
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<p>I have written several women, a couple who have responded and have said they would like to get to know me and ask to learn more. So I write them and tell them a little more. Now there is nothing bizarre about what I write, nothing that would make me sound like someone to be afraid of; yet I never hear back. Even when we meet someone face to face we know that we need to give someone a little time to get to know each other, at least I would hope. Now we are on-line and we aren't quite sure of who the other person is. Wouldn't we want to give each other a little more time? Again, I am <span class="spellchecker-word-highlight">ok</span> with no responses but if there is something that we don't feel is right let the other person know.</p>
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<p>There are more examples but the short version of the story is where are our expectations when we are on-line? Don't put all men into one category, and men don't put all women into one category. Ladies, if a western hemisphere man asks you to <span class="spellchecker-word-highlight">skype</span> early on, not all are wanting something sexual. A lot of us are wanting to verify that the person we are seeing in the pictures are indeed you. There are to many scam stories that we need verification. A lot of us also find your language beautiful and if you do speak <span class="spellchecker-word-highlight">english</span> and we don't speak your language, what better way to start helping each other learn. It is also a better way to develop a relationship if there is one there. Over <span class="spellchecker-word-highlight">skype</span> you can hear each other laugh and see each other smile. You can't do that here. So not all motives are bad.</p>
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<p>It's just a thought. Oh, one last thing. If you say you are a happy individual and like to smile; make sure you have those pictures on your site, and we should do the same as well.</p>
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<p>Have a wonderful day.</p>
<p>Scott</p>
