You say you want a 'Strong' man

Help me to understand please ladies, what do you mean when you say you want a ‘Strong’ man. What defines ‘strong’? It is a requirement I see over and over again from Slavic women. Do you mean rich? Do you mean successful? Or do you mean able to make decisions? Do you only want him to make decisions in the house? In the bed? Over the household finances? Or to decide everything? To me, a western man and a Christian, someone who takes control, makes all the decisions and determines all is not a man, but is a bully. He is controlling and is emotionally abusive. For me the relationship should be about equality, it should be about sharing and it should be about compromise and understanding (and Love of course). Maybe I am wrong and this is why I fail constantly? Or do you really mean you want a rich successful man? because I am not sure only such a man will make you truly happy. And it would be better to say so from the beginning rather than use this ambiguous term ‘strong’. So I am interested to hear different opinions from the women, if you are willing to help.