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Hello. I'm here first day and want ask to comment my story especially men)))).you will help me very much. I met with a man from Austria on another website...we quickly started chatting in Skype, we talked via camera...I saw him two wonderful children...I knew it all work schedule, where and by whom it works...he answered all my questions about him...wrote SMS...many spoke of honesty, trust, respect, and that he is not one of those men who play feelings...told about me to his friends...in a word, I saw no reason not to trust him...we almost immediately agreed to meet, have agreed on our vacation and he told me the date and time he will come...but when he went to the Embassy for a visa for a week before the appointed date was surprised that need an invitation or hotel reservation. According to him several years ago he was in Russia and received a visa through an Agency without issues for three days...more nothing wrote, moreover, that everithing will be good - we will be togather...his last message you are one of the three most important people in my life (except for children), I love you... and all... my prayers anything answer is silence, I called on the phone - is not answered...then went off-line.

I don't understand how can throw these words as "you're everything to me" - and leave without explanation. He can simply say - I changed my mind. Once I had so many words about mutual respect... I just cant to understend...

thanks to all who respond

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Fernando, 38 y.o.

Mexico

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07.01.14 22:42

Hi Svetlana! First of all i want to say that love isnt complicate, we human being do it that way. Theres not a truly answer regarding this situation, ive passed thru similar situation with women, and always with a different end but one thing i do now for sure is what love is and love is about honesty. And thats what you need to believe, keep going, im sure youre a good hearted woman and youll find a man who deserves you.

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Mariya

08.01.14 16:34

привет Светлана ...хочу Вам ответить
У меня несколько иное мнение на данную тему ,я уже писала ,но повторю еще раз...
итак ,что я думаю по этому поводу...
Если мужчина не отвечает , молчит ,прекращает общение --- это не просто так .
Они ДРУГИЕ ...не такие ,как мы ...мы разные ,и думаем по разному .
То ,что нам кажется обычным ,безобидным и даже шуткой , --- может обидеть и
резко изменить его отношение к женщине...Я много общалась с иностранцами ...
Они ничего не скажут,а если и скажут ,то не настоящую причину разрыва...
Они слушают ,наблюдают и делают выводы ...и, если что-то на их взгляд не так,
молча уходят .
Поэтому нужно быть внимательной ,постоянно следить за тем ЧТО ты говоришь.
Если он заподозрит , например,что женщина говорит неправду --- у нее сразу пропадает шанс...
они не понимают намеков и хитрости,и не любят этого .
Я говорю вообще,не имею ввиду именно Ваш случай .
Но думаю ,если он резко замолчал , то Вы совершили какую-то ошибку.

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Удачи Вам !

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