An Austrian going to a bad city like Ufa, one of the most polluted of the world? Why he hace to come to you? Is he married?
I told you Austria is one of the most beautiful and clean country of the world! You have to go and see, not this man!

why do you think that Ufa one of the most polluted of the world? Have you ever been here? Your answer is ridiculous for me... but thank you)))

And no, he is not married, and it was his decision to come here.
there are many different places in the world and all are beautiful in their own way. In the slums of India is a special beauty too...for those who can see😉

Just let ihm go, dont think anymore about him, its just a Player in Internet dating who costs you Energy. There are Lot of, men and women. You can't take them serious. Just block and goodbye.

Lascia perdere! Ha cambiato idea!

Already foget!))

Добрый день! я совсем недавно пережила то же самое, до сих пор душа болит! Я думала только со мной такое могло произойти! Так я поверила в любовь, большую и настоящую! Тоже должен был приехать, но пропал человек! Ни слуху ни духу!
Я уже плакала хоть бы живой был) искала его всюду))) где только могла - тщетно... как в воду канул.
Я тоже не могла долго понять, да и до сих пор не могу... почему так жестоко? зачем?
не понимаю...
я полностью прощаю его и с любовью отпускаю)
Прежние мечты не сбылись, но я рада, что они у меня были)

Ну и молодец что сказала прощай. Ну это же своего рода интернет игра. Не нужно сразу пускать себе в душу. Очень мне тебя жаль, но не все такие мужчины игроки-сказочники. Есть и нормальные мужчины, ищи дальше. Это у тебя появляется жизненный опыт.Отнесись к этому по философски, легче станет. тут если всем верить что сразу объясняется в любви, что приедет и т.п, то сил душевных никаких не хватит.

Уважаемая Светлана. Может я чего-то не знаю, извините. Но австрийцам не надо ни какой визы. Они в Украину просто с заграничным паспортом приезжают и все. А в Россию, что другие порядки. Надо было Вам в Украине где- то встретиться. Или он трус

Ирина, спасибо за сочувствие, у меня уже все хорошо  )

Да это уже и неважно)))

Good rule to follow: Don't listen to what the say; watch what they do. That will tell you the truth every time 😉

Yes, you're absolutely right. thank you )))

Besides, if he failed to show up for a date; he is the clear loser!!!!! 😉))

This, in opposite happened to me. I traveled to Siberia, expected a kiss at the airport and.......surprise. I am still married and have a child. The child, great, the marriage, nyet! I respect marriage always....

Andy, its much worse than my situation...I'm sorry.My best wishes to you))))

Я Вам сочувствую что такой обман...

Это у конкретного мужчины было для связки слов. Пропал на время?Да общался и встречался с кем-то. примите как данность. там не сложилось - появился снова.Ну ТАКИЕ ОНИ.

у слов нет цены . Либо бесценны, либо пусты.

Carlo! What in the world are you thinking!!? Have you looked at this girl's profile and seen her pictures!? Look at her! She's gorgeous! Who in their right mind would even think about atmospheric conditions in her city!? She's incredible, well-mannered and sweet!!! Any man should be happy to wear a gas mask to go meet her if they thought there was a problem!!! This guy was the loser in this deal!! Sveta, my dear, ignore Carlo's comment, he's not seeing the big picture here! Bad air??? Bad air??? Really! Bad air??? Carlo, time for that yearly eye checkup!  ))

My dear Svetlana, this story is sad, but to every bad thing there is a good side. In your case that you got hurt only a little bit. Imagine if you met him, fell in love, decided to move there, give up your job and your apartment and at that stage this thing happened. It would have been devastating.

Don't try to blame circumstances or the embassy or anything other than this man. If I wanted to make a new life with a lady, I would move a mountain if I had to. His excuses are pathetic.

This man is a coward and a fool and not worthy of your tears!

Good luck for the future.

I'm with you, Jan! He should have started swimming!!!

I agree with Steven of the USA. It is a sad matter in the name of men that he has conducted his cruel acts and stating his love to Svetlana and then hiding. I have found the woman of my dreams and I truly adore her. I am hoping, from the time of your post Svetlana, that you have found a man that is true in his words, and you find your happiness.

Doug, thank you for your humor and an excellent advertising of me. A lot of women looked my profile after your reply.  )))

Thank you, Janho.

Thank you, Steve. Yes, everything is fine.))

Andy, you have my heartfelt sympathy and my deep admiration because of your respect for marriage. I must admit, my biggest regret on the site has been discovering attractive women who do not understand our apprehension toward those who have cheated on their husbands, who have cheated with someone else's husband, or lived with and had children with a married man and who are now alone.

Most of us men are more than willing to love and embrace a woman with a child, to love that child as our own and do everything to be a good husband and father to both of them; but there is something chilling about discovering she has not respected the bonds of matrimony. Some of us men have been victims of that and have little stomach for it. No doubt women feel similarly about men who have done the same. Maybe Steve or someone else has an opinion. maybe I'm just old...

Светлана, как только мужчина начинает ч Вами много говорить о "many spoke of honesty, trust, respect, and that he is not one of those men who play feelings..." можно смело отправлять его в сад. Это Вам на будущее. Кто много и настойчмво говорить о честности, сам, как правило, ею не грешит)))

I wouldn't let you go Svetlana  

Svetlana ciao, se ancora al momento non hai ancora trovata la Tua anima gemella...., per Tua nozione sappi che l'unica cosa imprevedibile al mondo e' proprio l'"AMORE" e discuterlo, nutrirlo e gestirlo per corrispondenza non e' il massimo del desiderio.... in quanto la "lontananza" non aiuta... - non si puo' "misurare" e "quantificare" per telefono o con sms etc.... il calore, l'atmosfera, l'armonia, le gioie e le paure in un modo "astratto" se non si ha e non si vive il rapporto tangibile e concreto della vicinanza.... anche un solo sguardo da vicino puo' fare la differenza...... quest'uomo certamente non era il massimo della nostra rappresentanza e quindi non merita da parte Tua alcuna attenzione o ripensamento.... lascia perdere e guarda vicino a Te.... chissa' quanti uomini vorrebbero conquistarti e Tu di contro invece ti strazi e distruggi con una persona che certamente voleva solo passare qualche notte d'amore ed euforia in albergo.......