You're saying 2 very different things and you need to clarify...

on one hand you're saying you don't like casual sex which is fine, not everybody is wired to want that. Lots maybe most people prefer an emotional connection before getting physical, that is normal and there is nothing wrong with waiting til you're comfortable.

Then you said I'm not a fan of sex...that is very different from I need to feel like I'm with the right person. That sounds more like even with the perfect person you'd rather not have sex. You also need to distinguish if you just have a low sex drive or if you really dislike sex....if you have a low sex drive you can likely find a match out there, there are guys with low sex drives, there's a lid for every pot as they say but if you'd rather not have sex...that's a problem...Women can feel affection thru many avenues, sex just being one of them, an important one but just one of them, for most guys it leads the list. We want to be shown connection and affection in other ways to but for most of us if you're going to slack anywhere sex is the last on the list.

hallo)) I mean I really prefer an emotional connection before getting physical. Its hard for me understand when people go to hotel after few hours of conversation.. or after few days of conversation.. of even after few weeks of conversation..with idea "its only sport, everybody needs it")) In this sense I dont need, I am not fan with hight level problem do it right now, because "its is very importante to know each other more as much quicker as it possible".. Probably personally for me it's not the reason why I'm with a man. Although this is an important part of life, of course   

What you prefer is perfectly normal. As are the people who want to just have some fun, there isn't a right or wrong here... You don't need to understand why someone else would behave differently than you...what happens between consenting adults is their business...you do what you're comfortable with. The right guy for you will likely have the same attitudes about sex as you do so he won't mind waiting til that connection is made. I for example would be the wrong guy, I'd never get to weeks of conversation, I'd have checked out but that patient saint is out there somewhere  

"A few weeks?" Seriously?

Good luck!

You are not especial. You are usual woman. I live like that too.

it's just the beginning of a progression. there is an ellipsis.

few weeks.. few months.. few years.. never.. I dont know before..

and no guarantees. So it's pretty clear?))

I understand everything, no problems, my opinion is not a secret. But there is always is amazing reaction to word NO.. I have a strong impression that I must if I would like to be good woman     

gghhhhmm))... I'm not special)) I see))) Russian ladies forgot about politeness and tact .. We do not talk about you at all, take this as a fact .. I'm sorry .. 

Is it really that amazing a reaction? most guys want to have sex, if we hear no we'll respect your wishes but asking us to be happy about it as well is asking a bit much.

Billy, spare your breath.
Adult people who SERIOUSLY ask questions like that, seriously have a problem. If they haven't developed a healthy attitude towards sex by the end of their teens, they're hopeless cases.
This whole topic ("I mean the theme" - which kind of sane adult would ever talk like that anyway?) is just kindergarten trolling…

yeah, something like that.. one more opinion from zero men..

Hola me encantaría conocerte y tener ese algo especial

Are you looking for a frigid mother?    

Здравствуйте , Либелле )
Я Вас полность поддерживаю ! Не нужно ложиться в постель с каждым приезжим иностранцем , который приехал к вам в город для встречи . Делайте только так , как Вам нужно , и как вы того чувствуете . А если вы мужчине ДЕЙСТВИТЕЛЬНО нужны , то он ЗАВОЮЕТ Вашего расположения , руку и сердце ...НЕ ПОСКУПИТСЯ НА КОЛЬЦО С БРИЛЛИАНТОМ !!!... И только после этого осмелится создать красивую атмосферу для этого , и задать Вам вопрос , что вы думаете по этому поводу ... А те , кто приезжают за дешёвыми секс-турами , те пусть проходят мимо ) Секс , конечно же , очень важная сфера общения и обмена эмоциями для двоих... Но тот мужчина , который не способен ждать вашего согласия , думаю , такие мужчины даже не заслуживаю звания "МУЖЧИНА" ))) Потому как признак мужчины , это не только наличие того , что у него есть между ног )))) А прежде всего это желание ЗАБОТИТЬСЯ О ЖЕНЩИНЕ во всех смыслах этого слова !

Your joke is more like an insult.

Ржу, не могу, в первую встречу кольцо с брильянтом, а опосля, можно и секс. 😊 )))

А что , я где-то написала "В ПЕРВУЮ ВСТРЕЧУ" ?)))) Хотя , мне дарили кольцо именно с бриллиантом и в первую встречу ....По-моему , вы читаете не внимательно , и между строк . Но то что мой комментарий принёс Вам улыбку - я очень рада )

Just stating the facts…

The fact is that you are insulting others.
I hope that the site administration will take the necessary measures.

I just have an allergic reaction to stupidity.

I didn't see you jumping to the defense when Libelle was rude to a young man in another thread. She has been rude more than once on this forum and her comments have been just ridiculous at other times, a response like Bens doesn't happen in a vacuum so one must consider the context that got us here. You often get back what you put out, and Bens reaction to her is in no small part of her own making.

Spare us this pseudo feminist solidarity gibberish, really.
Time to get a grip, Tatyana. Really!
Look at how much ridicule your "St. Libelle" throws upon others in her comments, but comes crawling and weeping here for support.
Just read HER comments. That should open your eyes!