Men & women
Help with expectations & why I am here.
I am on this site looking for a special someone that I can connect to on a deeper level. Specifically I am looking for someone who is not selfish, and who is sincere. A lot of the women I meet where I live are not sincere and I tire of the mind games that are played. I have been reading a lot about how sincere eastern european women are and culturally they seem very appealing to me, I especially gravitate to the strong commitment to family combined with strong independance. What I struggle with is finding common interests, I have chatted with a couple of women from the site so far and I have difficulty moving the conversations past the fact that we are all looking to build a strong sincere relationship and in my case a family. These are important things for sure but I also want to find a woman that I connect with in hobbies and interests, so we have things in common to discuss and do. Is my profile to weak in this regard? Are my expectations misguided? Everytime I try to spend time discussing her interests the conversation seems to go back to the women wanting to build a family and there seems to be little interest outside of that. If I try to switch the conversation to other topics, does it maybe appear that I am not serious about family? Because I certainly am!
Ok let me have, brutal honesty is welcome.
Hi, Justin.
I looked profile. All is well.
A supplement that you need a wife who will assist in business.
Not all women are specialize in the computer business. Therefore, not everyone is interested. But there are, to find a husband. So you pravy- all tuned to one thing - to find a husband. This is an excellent desire))) There are sure to find a woman that you need.
I wish you success and happiness!
Good weekend
Lucy
Hi Lyudmila,
Thank you for responding to me, I will see about this small update to my profile! One other question if you do not mind. Is it culturally acceptable for me to write poetry to a woman that I like? In my country (USA) this not so much acceptable as woman would either laugh or distrust a guy that would do such a thing.
Best,
Justin
Anita
Привет, Джастин!
я думаю, стихи - которые Вы напишите от души, обязательно будут приняты с благодарностью. Я посмотрела Ваш профиль. всё хорошо написано)) только Вы пишите - нет детей, а на фотографии с Вами ребёнок)) Это Ваш?
Thank you for your response. No the child is my sisters, my nephew. I can see how that could be confusing, perhaps I will remove it.
Hi Justin.
There are no women among us who would laugh if it undermining a bouquet of flowers or poems. Oh, yes, laugh, but with joy! For us - it's okay, that's good. So called gift, an expression of the soul. It is very nice! Please, write poems to women, give them flowers!!!!!
My respect
Lucy
Anita
Удалять не надо. Фотография очень милая и трогательная. Надо просто подписать: Я и мой племянник))) Удачи Вам.
Natalya
It's simple: in your profile you often write about family, children and again about creation family. You do not write about your interests and hobbies. Women think that you are not interested in anything else but a family and children at this stage of your life. Write more about your other interests and expectations besides creation family.
Marina
Justin, don't despair. Love is a big job. it is not enough to meet each other and fall in love. Each day, you feed your love attention and care. Don't be afraid to write poetry, to pay compliments, give flowers . Your woman definitely will appreciate you and love will answer you. On the website a lot of men and women, but not all get to find a soul mate. Looking, socialize and will definitely meet your beloved woman. Wish you happiness and love!
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