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Ray
Maximum Age Gap
Any advice on maximum age gap between a man and a woman? Some say age is just a number, but I think there should be certain considerations. For example, as a man, if I married a younger woman I would be concerned about dying and leaving her to live left alone. What are your thoughts? Any other considerations? Thanks.- << Previous
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Ben
Your story has nothing to do with any age gap, but only with your personal experience. It seems as if you wrote that post only to unload your story
Ben
Ben
Is this dilusion or something? If you look better NOW, then why do you put an aging fosile photo as your AVATAR?? Do you want pity and sympathy from a younger girl or do you want respect and partnership in a relationship?
No one can gave exact advice about such sensitive subjekt, sometimes in couple who is older dying later, than young, but by statistik woman live longer than man, in my case my husband been 10 years older, I was 19 he 39 when we marryed, at 49 he he dyed, almost 20 years without him, it was not easy to raise kids alone, better not be too older of partner. Best wishes
Irina
Π Π² Π½Π΅ΠΌ ΡΠΎΠΆΠ΅. ΠΡΠ»ΠΈ ΠΆΠ΅Π½ΡΠΈΠ½Π΅ 36 ΠΏΡΠ΅Π΄ΠΏΠΎΠ»ΠΎΠΆΠΈΠΌ ΠΌΡΠΆΡΠΈΠ½Π΅ 50 ΠΈ ΡΡΠ°ΡΡΠ΅, ΡΡΠΎ ΠΎΠ±ΡΠ΅Π³ΠΎ ΠΌΠ΅ΠΆΠ΄Ρ Π½ΠΈΠΌΠΈ? Π Π°Π·Π½ΠΈΡΠ° Π² ΠΌΠΈΡΠΎΠ²ΠΎΠ·Π·ΡΠ΅Π½ΠΈΠΈ, ΠΎΡΠ½ΠΎΡΠ΅Π½ΠΈΠΈ ΠΊ ΠΆΠΈΠ·Π½ΠΈ, Π΄Π΅ΡΡΠΌ, ΠΆΠ΅Π½ΡΠΈΠ½Π΅ Ρ ΠΎΡΠ΅ΡΡΡ ΡΠ΅Π±Π΅Π½ΠΊΠ° Π° ΠΌΡΠΆΡΠΈΠ½Π΅ ΡΠΆΠ΅ Π±ΡΠ²Π°Π΅Ρ Π½Π΅ Π½Π°Π΄ΠΎ, ΠΌΠ°Π»ΠΎΠΏΠΎΠ΄Π²ΠΈΠΆΠ½ΡΠΉ ΠΎΠ±ΡΠ°Π· ΠΆΠΈΠ·Π½ΠΈ, Ρ ΠΎΡΠ΅ΡΡΡ ΠΏΠΎΡΠ»Π΅ 50 Π»Π΅Ρ ΡΠΈΡ ΠΎΠΉ Π³Π°Π²Π°Π½ΠΈ, Π½Π΅ Π²ΡΠ΅ΠΌ Π½ΠΎ ΠΌΠ½ΠΎΠ³ΠΈΠΌ, Π° ΠΆΠ΅Π½ΡΠΈΠ½Π΅ Π΅ΡΠ»ΠΈ ΠΎΠ½Π° Π°ΠΊΡΠΈΠ²Π½Π°Ρ Ρ ΠΎΡΠ΅ΡΡΡ Π½Π°ΡΠ»Π°ΠΆΠ΄Π°ΡΡΡΡ ΠΏΠΎΠ»Π½ΠΎΠΉ ΠΆΠΈΠ·Π½ΡΡ, Π° Π½Π΅ ΠΊΠ°ΠΊ Π±Π°Π±ΡΠ»Ρ 80 Π»Π΅Ρ ΡΠΈΠ΄Π΅ΡΡ ΠΏΠΈΡΠΎΠΆΠΊΠΈ ΠΏΠ΅ΡΡ Π΄ΠΎΠΌΠ°, ΡΡΡΠΈΡΡΡ Π½ΠΎ ΡΠ°ΠΊΠΈΠ΅ ΡΠ»ΡΡΠ°ΠΈ Π΅ΡΡΡ, ΡΡΠΎ Π»ΡΠ΄ΠΈ Ρ Π±ΠΎΠ»ΡΡΠΎΠΉ ΡΠ°Π·Π½ΠΈΡΠ΅ΠΉ ΠΏΠ»ΠΎΡ ΠΎ ΡΠ΅Π±Ρ ΡΡΠ²ΡΡΠ²ΡΡΡ, ΠΈ Π΅ΡΠ΅ ΠΆΠ΅Π½ΡΠΈΠ½Π° ΡΡΠ°ΡΠ΅Π΅Ρ Π±ΡΡΡΡΠ΅Π΅ Π΅ΡΠ»ΠΈ Π±ΠΎΠ»ΡΡΠ°Ρ ΡΠ°Π·Π½ΠΈΡΠ°. ΠΠ»Ρ ΠΌΠ΅Π½Ρ Π½ΠΎΡΠΌΠ°Π»ΡΠ½Π°Ρ ΡΠ°Π·Π½ΠΈΡΠ° 5-10 Π»Π΅Ρ.
May i ask, what is common between 36 y.o. russian (or non-russian)woman and 36 y.o. a) russian and b) western man: - books ? - drinks ? - exhibitions ? - films ? - flowers ? - food ? - hobbies ? - magazines ? - make up ? - opera ? - pets ? - profession ? - religion ? - shopping ? - sport ? - technics ? - theatre ?
Π£ ΡΡΠΎΠ³ΠΎ ΡΠ΅Π»ΠΎΠ²Π΅ΠΊ Π½Π΅ Π²ΡΠ΅ Π² ΠΏΠΎΡΡΠ΄ΠΊΠ΅ Ρ Π³ΠΎΠ»ΠΎΠ²ΠΎΠΉ
ΠΡ Π²ΡΠ³Π»Π°Π΄ΠΈΡΠ΅ ΠΊΠ°ΠΊ ΠΌΠΈΠ½ΠΈΠΌΡΠΌ Π½Π° 55 Π»Π΅Ρ , ΡΠΎΡ ΡΠ°ΠΊΡ ΡΡΠΎ Π²Ρ ΠΏΠΈΡΠ΅ΡΠ΅ ΡΡΠΎ Ρ Π²Π°Ρ ΠΎΡΠ½ΠΎΡΠ΅Π½ΠΈΡ Ρ ΡΠ΅ΠΌ ΠΊΡΠΎ ΠΌΠ»Π°Π΄ΡΠ΅ Π½Π° 9 Π»Π΅Ρ ΠΈ ΠΏΡΠΈ ΡΡΠΎΠΌ Π²Ρ Π½Π° ΡΠ°ΠΉΡΠ΅ Π·Π½Π°ΠΊΠΎΠΌΡΡΠ² Π³ΠΎΠ²ΠΎΡΠΈΡ ΠΎ ΠΌΠ½ΠΎΠ³ΠΎΠΌ.
18-20 year old girls who go visit 48 year old expect to get paid, they wonβt pay for themselves. Lets be real.
ΠΠΎΠΎ Π° Π²ΠΎΡ ΠΈ Π±ΡΠ²ΡΠΈΠ΅ ΡΠΎΠΎΡΠ΅ΡΠ΅ΡΡΠ²Π΅Π½Π½ΠΈΠΊΠΈ ΠΏΠΎΡΠ²ΠΈΠ»ΠΈΡΡ ΠΈ ΠΊΠΎΠ½Π΅ΡΠ½ΠΎ ΡΠΎ ΡΠ²ΠΎΠΈΠΌΠΈ "ΠΊΠΎΠΌΠΏΠ»ΠΈΠΌΠ΅Π½ΡΠ°ΠΌΠΈ ππ
Π°Π³Π°. ΠΡΠΎΠ±Π΅Π½Π½ΠΎ ΠΏΠΎΡΠ°Π΄ΠΎΠ²Π°Π»ΠΎ: "ΠΡ Π²ΡΠ³Π»ΡΠ΄ΠΈΡΠ΅ Π½Π° 55!" ΠΠΎΡΡΡ ΠΠ°ΡΡΡ ΡΠ΅Π±Ρ ΠΏΠΎΠΊΠ°Π·Π°ΡΡ, Π½Π°ΠΏΠΈΡΠ΅Ρ: "ΠΠΎΡΠΏΠΈΡΡΠ²Π°ΠΉΡΠ΅,ΠΌΠ°ΠΌΠΎ, Π²Π½ΡΠΊΠΎΠ²!"
Glyn
Good question! I am from New Zealand and now live in Australia. Back in my New Zealand days, I was proposed to by 21 year old woman when I was 38. 17 years difference. She was a very famous hit singer and I was her manager. I had tried to avoid her interest for some time, because of the age difference. She convinced me to accept her. We were married for eight years and had two children together. People envied the way that we loved each other. So there was no trouble at all with the age difference. However, people go through life changes as a normal aspect of life. My ex faced challenges that she could only overcome if she faced these challenges herself. Ironically, the main problem was that I was too reliable, too capable and too stable in the sense that I could solve any problem. Women become too reliant on their men and then dont learn how to resolve problems on their own. If a man is strong and dependable, then the woman doesn't have to ever face her own problems. So I learned that rather than this being an issue of age gap, it is an issue of self-reliance and resilience. People may develop their emotional maturity early or never develop emotional self regulation at all. Some people can be 60 and still completely stupid emotionally. Perhaps then we should learn to measure the emotional intelligence age of a person, rather than their body. Because this is the true age of a person, their capacity for behaving like an adult. Some people never grow up. Others grow up very early. I am 51 now and because I look younger and because of my approach to life, I often have interest from women between 25 to 35, much younger women. I have a personal rule never to take advantage of a woman, but to do the right thing for her. Even if a younger woman likes me, I may say no to her. Because the DADDY ISSUES she may have around seeking the stability of father, is not always healthy to resolve through being with a strong man. But we should not be quick to judge. 100% of people look for traits of their parents in their life partner! They do this subconsciously. So to a degree, I think the woman who knows what she wants and what makes her happy, she deserves to be with the man that she chooses. An older man has much to offer a younger woman. Whether you are 44 or 54 doesnt matter Ray, so long as you are a virtuous man who can genuinely care for the woman who puts her trust in you, then you deserve the woman who loves, no matter what her age is. But I would not suggest being with a woman younger than 25 more generally, because by then a woman knows who she is and what she wants. Women reach their peak at 40 and are the most beautiful in their forties. And if a woman has looked after herself, some of the most beautiful women I have seen are in their fifties. Those women know how to love. As to dying and leaving her behind, get life insurance and build a legacy you can leave her. Better still, teach her to be independent and self sufficient. Bring her into your business and teach her to run you empire. Women make great leaders. Like the woman in Proverbs 31.
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