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Mb

Scam or not. How to communicate?

There is some topics on the scam world and how people perceive and manage it. I personnaly know the how to. But I then realized that my efficiency and effictiveness in that scope may be too much conservative..there can be so much differents scams. !!!.. i'm too much filtrating since i'm use to western sites and scams.


For instance, and this topic is only and at all for this : how do you do when " a women ask you explicitely to be more verbose at the very first mail exchange : " why so short messages" keeps saying some of my contacts, and they says it at the second message.!! Some of my contacts are expecting some nabukovian or balzacian profficiant love message. I'm unable to. So internet Darwinian survival result: such too much requiring contacts simply disappears.


How do u do? What do u thinks of?


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Billy


Are you sure that they're expecting what you think they're expecting? I mean why so short, could just be that they want you to take the reigns and lead the conversation or to open up more, not that they necessarily are wanting a love letter...

when you say they say it all in the 2nd message, what are they saying?


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Mb

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The very first message is a contact one, more or less formal, that is polite and without excessive requirements. And personnaly facing to a second message too much requiring I use to tag it as scam. May be i'm too much conservative as I still don't understand one of these requirement saying i'm relying too much shortly. Looks like there on the other side of the communication channel, there may be some unexpecred real person filtrating me on my too much short reply  . That is.


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Svetlana

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As for me I prefer short responses. Scammers usually use standard long messages. Maybe some women don't understand it. Actually your letters in Forum show that you are real, not scammer


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Zhanna

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Не совсем так если уже сталкивался с мошенниками становишся осторожным,не хочется разговаривать не известно с кем-то,поэтому лучше увидеть


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Mb

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Sorry Billy i'm realizing that I missed the real content of you post. Probably cause i'm unable to tag it either in a macho world ( women are so differents that they need a distinct treatment) or simply "American", that there is always a "technical" solution to each issue, even the human ones ( for instance the pure American invented technical and incredibely naive way to "pick up" a women. ) .
To answer you, i'm absolutely not sure of anything. ( but in an American "technically oriented" paradigm, growing up in west European cities still means a "normal/free/easy" sexuality compared to such "technical" american world "performance and figures" are, i'm afraid, not really an issue or a challenge everywhere in the world as they seems to be in the "north" American view of picking up technics )





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