Добрый день, Том. Всё зависит от того, для чего просят деньги. Если на визу или билеты для поездки к вам, то , думаю, что это вполне нормально.

Денег просят не " девушки ", а скаммеры! И их надо выводить на " чистую воду" с доказательствами !

everyone's asking for money? You were just unlucky.

Really? Can you give me some examples, please? I have never asked for money, so it`s interesting for me how the others do it (if they really do).
From what countries were those girls? How old were they? How much time have you been being in touch before they start asking for money?

Здравствуйте,если просят деньги на билеты,то купите сами и пришлите в электронном виде. Единственное,виза тоже стоит денег и не каждая девушка может себе это позволить. Или вы ждёте ,что бы к вам девушка за свой счёт прилетела?  Не хотите оплачивать билеты и визу,приезжайте сами к нам. 

The woman is a tender, gentle, caressing keeper of love.
A man is a strong, intelligent, caring prey. Nature has created us like that.
Woman has to be nice and beautiful and she need money for this.
Man has to be happy if woman ask him money. It means that she like this man and want to be close.
If woman does not like man, she never ask money from him.  

I like you very much. Can you send me 10000 dollar?

Марина, я вот не согласна с Вашей последней фразой. Просят, ещё и такие истории придумывают, что зачитаешься. Я не говорю о покупке билетов и оформления визы.Это абсолютно нормально и приемлемо. К большому сожалению,это общепризнанный факт, что просят и не мало. Как-то менеджер здесь описывала даже как шантажируют. Есть и такие представительницы слабого пола. Обычно это происходит , когда наблюдается большая разница в возрасте. Здесь уже сказано-пересказано об этом много раз. Так что смею не согласиться с Вами.

a lot of men like me...  I cannot send everybody  

я не имею ввиду давать деньги всем, кто просит.
Но если мужчина в отношениях с женщиной , то нормально , что он дает ей деньги.

Hello, Tom. If your new charming stranger asks for money for a ticket and visa, then this is normal. Do not forget, it is difficult for a Russian woman (expensive tickets, consular fees). But if she asks for money just like that, even if she has not met with you, then it's strange. Highly. Agree with you. Wish you luck. International dating is a difficult and not always successful activity.

It is scammers. I think you select a profile is very young girls with model looks. Perhaps they use other people's pictures. On another site I received a message from a man who used photos of little-known American actor. Of course, he began to ask for money.
This website is struggling with scammers. You can send data to the scammer to site's administration, they will do verification of profile and blocking.

Марина, ну не правда же.Еще как просят и причем здесь любовь?И откровенных скаммеров полно в сети, и наши женщины грешат этим делом "на камеру и интернет".

Привет Том. Женщины,как и мужчины, бывают разные.Кому-то не стыдно просить денег у виртуального знакомого и они это считают нормой.Но это не значит,что все женщины такие.Не высылайте денег до установления у Вас определенных отношений с женщиной из интернета.Желаю Вам удачи!

так вы же написали : " Не высылайте денег до установления у Вас определенных отношений с женщиной из интернета. "
я имею ввиду тоже самое.Не следует давать деньги всем подряд ,только своей женщине.

Марина, может быть Вы и имели в виду вышесказанное, но неверно донесли свою мысль, прозвучало совсем по-другому.

 Извините,мне смешно видеть такое письмо. Советую и Вам отнестись к таким письмам с юмором. Будьте внимательны и осторожны в своей переписке. Мне очень жаль, что такие письма могут повлиять на Ваше мнение о женщинах на этом сайте. Очень хочу надеяться, что это исключение, чем правило. Удачи Вам.

A lot of men like you? There are a lot of reason why you are singel!

Normal woman who respect herself will never asks money from man, not from anyone even if she havent for tickects or visa or anything else....thats my opinion and i never want to offend women here who think thats normal thing ask for money but i know when man has real interest for a woman and he treat her right he never asks  if she needs money he will send her without any asking .....it was with me my man( now my fiance) he send me money even i never wanted this way but he said - am a man and i want to pay for your trip ....we agreed on half to half because i felt myself no good to take money from him it was first meeting we were going for but later we became more closer and everything went well . Tom will tel you as woman that if she asks money from you, never knowing you well she not loves you and not have serious feeling for you, sorry as i said its only my opinion but i think this way ....wish you meet your special woman and you will recognize her when it happens, when two people are as one they doing everything together but not using each other and even more when love happens no one not think about Money.....its the last thought....Love changes everything.....wish you all good

Hello Tom
I have met in person with several girls I have seen on this site. I even had a two years relationship with one of them.
It is in my opinion better to visit her in the country where she lives. Is more comfortable for her and more simple and clear situation about the money. You only have to pay for your expenses and if you meet in a place all you will need to pay is for her taxi and the date expenses, such as meal in a restaurant, tickets for a concert, etc.

who told you that I am single ? never been.
If you look at my profile , you can see that my Reply rate: 6%
It means that I answer to 6 men from 100, which write me...  

Научитесь выбирать сердцем.

столько не согласных со мной ...странно
наверное те, кто не берут денег у мужчин... 

Common sense usually gets the job done. If "everybody" whom you meet and chat with asks for money, then maybe you ought to look for somebody ELSE.

This may help:

1) The forum is for communication (and I have never heard or read anyone asking for money here).

2) the interlinked website .

If you look for girls with "financial interest" then you get what you see...

Bueno pues en el caso de que pide dinero. Opino que seas tú quien viaje primero a su ciudad. Una vez ya la has conocido debes decidir si en la segunda cita envias el dinero

If you are not single, then what are you doing here? I guess your husband is very pround of you now!

I agree with you 100% here. I've dated in Kiev and Kiev taxi and meals is less than you would pay in your native country and there's room even for gifts if the person is worthy of such. I've just done my first meet elsewhere and it's very problematic in nature and expensive unless you get all inclusive. Booking a week with someone you've never met other than on Skype can uncover the facts that your life's are very different and this impacts on everything. Once back home your no further forward than you started where as meet in her town getting a relationship is more simple

TomTom, I think you have a lot of aggression ... Did you hurt in real life? Every your comment is not calm. Please, please, take care of your nerves and go ahead))) Wisdom - this is your way))) Good girls a lot))) They want love !!! I wish you good luck and love)))), I think you have a lot of aggression ... Did you hurt in real life? Every your comment is not calm. Please, please, take care of your nerves and go ahead))) Wisdom - this is your way))) Good girls a lot))) They want love !!! I wish you good luck and love))))

Tom , unfortunately, not all girls want to study , work and build a career....their youth and beauty goods for which they want money... Such girls in every country and every time... Maybe you need to pay attention to the other girls ... They are young , beautiful... but they have the education , work ... they make money... And they need you ....And be happy !!!

If you decided to looking for woman in poor country be ready that she start ask for money. Women really need support here .