Men & women
Nola
just an opinion
Hello! I'm reading the forum and I'm interested .. I have a question .. everyone aspire immediately, from the first steps to build the "right relationship". Very seriously analyze words and deeds, and look very deeply )) In my opinion this is strange. In a real life, we are all much easier, more fun and more tolerant to the actions of men and women. I accept - that this is a specific feature of this place. But! I think we all are in a hurry. We hasten to get acquainted with the purpose of "serious relations", we force each other to make decisions to be or not to be, categorically find out the very personal moments for to "know exactly". This is all beyond reality a little bit.. such a special aggressiveness and haste is comical )) Sorry, this is just my opinion. I understand all the reasons to do so. But maybe a little relax, stop running and catching up, and do only what's nice. If someone on your wave - ah, that is super, this is mega bingo. If not - just do not catch up, do not teach and do not judge .. Give your soul only harmony and happiness, get away from anxiety and irritation .. I think the idea of marriage is secondary. This is as a consequence of harmony, not vice versa)) best wishes, Nola
Totally agree. It`s better to take it easier.
But it`s really difficult to do for some people as this site is a practical place where people want to find their partners. Maybe they have lack of time, just are fed up with their previous search that wasn`t suceessful ... Sometimes I compare dating sites (just in order to joke) with a special part in a shop: you need something and you go exactly to a place where you can buy it. But when you return home without the thing you needed - you are very upset: you had a goal, you knew where to go, you went there and...nothing. If a person just spends time strolling around the store - no disappointments then. But people are here with a concrete goal, so they look at all the members rather agressive: does it match me or not?
Nola
I agree with you. This is a good example. Thank you! You really just look at the choice, make the choice at this point of time. There's no one to blame. If only God)) but, to be honest, I always think - mr God tests me.. He gives me someting very sweet, but I must to pay for this very big price.. hmm, how to be?)).. I try stay myself, for me it is better)) but it is always a game.. and only mr God has a Joker))
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