one girl even told me that she is here to practise her English

Мы все порой сталкиваемся с подобными ситуациями на таких сайтах. Вам просто нужно набраться терпения и искать свою половинку дальше. Не унывайте.

СOuple of times is not a problem. Never mind. Don't communicate with them.. What's problem?

Ilan, 39
on this site a lot of women and girls, who are set for a serious relationship and are looking for true love.
just as long as you have not met a woman. do not despair, I hope you get lucky.
If you knew what surprising number of men on this site are not looking for a serious relationship, you would understand why some women are afraid to go to Skype, but first want to know more about the man.
in any case - do not despair. I wish you to quickly find your love.
good luck

Привет! Мне вот все такие мужчины попадаются. Говорить, а продвигаться никто не хочет. Значит и мужчины не ищут никого, а просто развлекаются.

Все люди разные; кто то ищет просто общения, кто ищет флирта, а кто то ищет серьёзных отношений. Желаю вам удачи в поиски.

On my opinion, the girls are right.
It is a good point of view -
to talk before jumping into something.

Это просто не ваша девушка. Найдите другую девушку. Вы красивый мужчина! Удачи вам!

Я на этом сайте 7 лет,много чего повидала, но чувствую что нашла того кого хотела.Верьте надейтесь!

Actually i have the opposote problem! (other sites in the past) Within just a few messages they want me to call them!!!!
I find that completly unnerving, and they appear to have little patience or respect for that. I can go with emails and pictures for months, no problem, and I would be comfortable with that.
As far as I am concerned we need time to build up a sound relationship and usually the cracks appear sooner rather than later.
Slow down

Saludos, no desesperes amigo, no esperes encontrar en el primer dia lo que tanto anelas, es cuestion de paciencia y esperanza, seguro encuentras alguna dama que busca lo mismo que tu.

I entirely right with you : a quality relationship must take time to discover other people, and respect her. But by phone, skype or other ways, it may be a way of communication, don't you think ?

im not talking about the first or the sec time we "meet" here, im talking about the 5-6 time or even more...

Есть одно хорошее изречение:" То, что действительно ваши и настоящее - то останется с вами, а то, что не ваше и чужое- то уйдет"...Надо помнить об этом... никого не держите и не упрашивайте, тот кто захочет с Вами остаться, тот останется, а кто не захочет, того и силой не удержишь...Все всегда к лучшему...

May be, a girl does not have a skype.
Do not think?

I was informed that most girls in Russia have 1 or more cell phones and at least 1 computer with a internet in their home. Isn't skype is relatively inexpensive in comparison to a internet connection? Or did someone give me false information?

A skype is not expensive. Usually, a young woman corresponds with 2-4 men. Of course, she needs the time to choose one man to go forward with him. Many men adore chatting on the skype hour by hour, but when a woman start saying about a real meeting, these men disappear suddenly. The most of the men are not ready to go forward and dwell on the skype only. I know many women who were involved in such skype games and had no any real meetings.

well there is a lot of stories from all sides here but i believe that when women wants to continue only with messeges here on the site she doesnt want anything but "chat friends" or English practice.

Good luck my friend, i'm new here also.  

Thank you for answering my question. It is also true for women on the USA dating sites. This can often be related to married men in failing relationships. Sadly men in these situations, will seek conversation with a Lady outside of their marriage. They create a challenge for both the woman and the man who is truly seek a partner.

Ilan, lean to read between the lines. The sentence «I am here to practise English» means a polite refusal. A girl is not sure about going forward with you. Perhaps, it sounds terrible, but the girls choose not a man only, but a country too. And it is their right.

First claim it's because they do not have Skype, it now because I can not read between the lines ...
Maybe the problem is women like you that only know to provide excuses are ridiculous and that's why you're alone

Русские долго идут на контакт.........имейте терпения......на самом деле все хотят любви и все по этой причине здесь, просто, нас наши мужики такими воспитали.........нам сложно говорить о чувствах посторонним людям........еще раз....терпения и не убегайте быстро от девушки, думая, что она играет.....в душе все по другому

Здравствуйте. хочу вам возразить. Мужчины этого сайта ищут себе помоложе и посвежее. и очень часто, может не со зла, но обижают женщин. могут переписываться 3 месяца, а потом пропасть или скорей всего переключиться на новенькую.

A man pays for his gold membership and wants to see the only serious girls in the Skype. But the site can't guarantee it. In this situation a man should take the things such as they are.

The girls call them "players".

perfect answer im very much proud for you answer

The girls want to communicate with the serious, family oriented and NOT MARRIED men.
The information about a marital status can be verified after sending the copies of a passport to a manager. But the men prefer not to send their copies and the girls never know if a man gives the true information about himself or he lies. We accept the situation such as it is and believe men...
and be disappointed often too.

Dear girls, we forget often that this site is not for a marriage only,
it is for acquaintances and communication too. That is why we can meet
the marriage minded members and the people which want simply to
communicate here. The both categories of the people have a right to be at the site. We can not change the rules. A Happy St. Valentine's
Day to all and Ilan too.

another excuse from you, how not suprising.
I'm not here to complain about all the girls site, I had a bad luck in the begining to experiance all those non serious girls but I was sure that I will meet the good ones too.
I hope that you will meet the good mans too, till then, happy Valentine day too you too

U need to have hope,,,