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Tom, 51 y.o.

Norway

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All girls start with romantic declarations. But after a while everyone asks for money. Is this a forum for finding love or a forum for "searching for money"?

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Nadezhda


Good afternoon, Tom
Why don't you want to search for a woman from your country? This is the cheapest way and you will save your money 


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Brandon


I've messaged with many girls on this site and have never been asked for money.

Nevertheless, I'll attempt to solve your virtual conundrum.

Women do not want to be married to men who are so irresponsible with money they would just send it abroad to a complete stranger.

Sending money to a woman you've never met means you're paying for Vladimir's theatre tickets.

The money topic is an asset to you. Use it as a filter.

People will tell you who they are if you listen.


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Brandon


You guys across the pond should be visiting these women at least once a month (if you're serious about finding a wife).

You guys are in a great situation for this type of dating.

I'm envious.

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Eric, 76 y.o.

Netherlands

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Ludmila ,

You are so right...
I have said it before in previous posts.Men who seek a Slavic wife should be prepared to give (donate some) money.

It is important to realize , that when marrying a Slavic woman , you are also marrying her family..

I don't want to use the phrase " poor country " here.Let us say that there is a bad economical situation.

But if it is wise to send money to someone who you have never met or seen , is another matter.

It all depends on how and what you feel about the on going correspondence ....

Good advice is hard to give in these circumstances , but that should not stop you , to find your dream woman ...

Eric

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Olga, 48 y.o.

Azerbaijan

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возможно разговор идет о деньгах на транспортные расходы для встречи. я не думаю что женщина может попросить мужчину,которого она еще не видела, послать ей деньги в качестве помощи для ее жизни. я уже несколько раз сталкивалась с тем что многие мужчины говорят что они тут с серьезными целями, но на самом деле оказывается что они не готовы к знакомству с женщиной с другой страны и воспринимают это как приключение, когда женщины десятками будут ехать в другую страну повидать его, а он будет выбирать.

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Eric, 76 y.o.

Netherlands

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Maybe my post was not so clear.I merely was saying that a man , who will marry a Slavic woman , must be prepared to also support his wife's family.

That of course , in good Mutual understanding and within his financial possibilities.

If he must send money to a woman , who he has never met , that is completely up to him.
When a completely strange woman will ask for money , on a dating site , it all depends on how he feels and how well the communication is going.

Communication can be on Skype , Viber , Whatsapp and by mail and Phone.

It is difficult to give good advice in this situation.


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David

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This is correct in some cases not all. I have been on dates on this site and only had one date where woman not interested yet wanted my money. I went on a date in Odessa and woman had soon has I arrived she bombards me with messages to meet her we meet and she leads me to good restaurant I spend $120 on meal and drinks and again next place again same again the girl eat 4 meals sick twice 2 bottles of wine between us 5 cocktails deserts tea milk everything the girl like animal and on commission off restaurants. She ask to meet again but I'm really not into self persecution for the sake of money. Not really sure what this was other than a scam she more than most eat in a week on 1 date cheese board. Cray fish x 12 and 2 more main courses emotional prostitution but no feelings so I do question this reply

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Olga, 48 y.o.

Azerbaijan

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уже кусочном мяса попрекнули


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Alina

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Всем нам хочется произвести наилучшее впечатление на холостяка в поиске))
Я тоже предполагаю, что проблемы ТС в том, что он ищет не в своей возрастной категории. Как говорят китайцы : "Делай что хочешь, но плати за это".

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Lyubov, 54 y.o.

Russia

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I never asked anyone for money. But if you come to my country as a guest and a tourist, then I will not feed you for my money and arrange entertainment for my money. But if you invite me to a restaurant, then I agree to go with you for dinner. But I will not pay you a restaurant bill on an equal footing, because you invited me to a restaurant. Is it prostitution?


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Alina

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А как можно шантажировать человека, если он ни в чем не виноват? Поступай корректно, не подставляйся и никто тебя не заставит ни денег слать, ни чего другого.


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David

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I've been on dates in Eastern Europe and always paid the bill and taxi fare both ways for the lady this is far from a issue!! The issue is eating till you vomit 🤢 not once but twice and being insistent or going to restaurant you are employed by on commission and ordering like a business partner to the established restaurant not like a potential life partner to the date

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Olga, 48 y.o.

Azerbaijan

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Добрее надо быть к людям   Все люди разные. Идеальных не существует. Кто то много ест, кто то неопрятен и не ухаживает за собой, кто то имеет лишний вес, кто то не имеет работы и желания работать. Если люди не понравились друг другу при первой встрече это не значит что они имеют проценты с ресторана и использовали вас


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Svetlana

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В Киеве действительно есть брачные агенства где отработана схема по которой свидание проходит в определенном ресторане и женщина имеет процент со счета. Но там все профессионально, Там даже письма девушки как правило сами не пишут. 

Девид, Вам скорее всего  просто не повезло, Вы попали на профессионалов брачного бизнеса. Но надеюсь, что свою долю удовольствия все же получили   


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David

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I totally agree with this. I've made one mistake of meeting in nutural location and $600 airtickets problem even bigger problem when I can read Russian and documents say only outwards journey purchased initially girl rich and can afford pre booked the ticket price $200 dollar because I not fall for scandal girl not happy. I met other girls in Kiev dates always good and girls honest and true only taxi meals cigarettes cost girls happy to be with me no stress genuine dates always

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Tom, 51 y.o.

Norway

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She has obviously not eaten any food in the last week before you arrived. Next time she eats is when another foreigner comes to her country.

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Tom, 51 y.o.

Norway

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Reply to Nadezhda on View the commented comment

Good morning Nadezhda. Why don't you want to search for a man from your country?

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Tom, 51 y.o.

Norway

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She eats your wallet and she loves the taste of it.


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Elza


ну не все....

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Tatyana, 43 y.o.

Ukraine

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You know, Tom, you have a very primitive way of thinking... If a woman likes by many men, this is not the reason for her loneliness... This only says that the woman does not rush to the first piece of meat !) This means that a woman loves and respects herself, therefore she chooses the best of the best in all senses of this word . And your complaint here that someone is demanding a money from you - I think this complaint is not substantiated... Most likely , I guess , you were asked to pay the costs of the proposed meeting... But you, most likely, felt sorry for the money. I can give you a good advice ) If you really want to find your woman for life here - be ready to share all that you have ...

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Tatyana, 43 y.o.

Ukraine

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Я с Вами полность согласна !

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Natalya, 55 y.o.

Ukraine

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Не расстраивайтесь, Том)) У меня обратная ситуация: как только я пишу мужчинам, что не нуждаюсь в деньгах - они сразу же исчезают))) Я думаю, что ваш вопрос - это просто неприятная реакция на случайность. Уверена, что Вы понимаете, что в каждой стране есть хорошие и плохие люди. Просто вам встретилось чуть больше плохих. Но ведь есть и бескорыстные! Я не намекаю на себя, поверьте. Просто хочу поддержать те комментарии, которые уверяют вас в том, что у нас много женщин, которые ищут любовь, а не спонсора. И я уверена, что вы ещё встретите свою единственную.

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Anna, 33 y.o.

Russia

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Reply to Marina on View the commented comment

Марина, я вас полностью поддерживаю. Спасибо за хороший ответ! Мужчины (скажу так в общем),не будьте такими жадными! Любите и заботьтесь о своей жещине ! Хватит считать деньги! 

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Irina, 59 y.o.

Kazakhstan

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У меня такая же история! 😂как только пишу что не нуждаюсь в их деньгах они исчезают. Один француз даже заблокировал😂😂😂

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Lana, 44 y.o.

Russia

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All men start with romantic declarations. But after a while everyone asks for sex. Is this a forum for finding love or a forum for "searching for sex"?


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Natalya


Форум - для обсуждения насущных проблем."Искать деньги" - это в банк.Сайт - это для знакомства.А то,что женщины у вас просят деньги - это решаемая проблема.Выбирайте других женщин.Все просто.Удачи.

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Olga, 48 y.o.

Azerbaijan

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а вам каждый собеседник в переписке предлагает деньги?   странный факт   

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Lyubov, 66 y.o.

Ukraine

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Tom, your profile is just bait for scammers (private helicopter, yacht, etc.)  

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