I seek advice
You say you want a 'Strong' man
Help me to understand please ladies, what do you mean when you say you want a ‘Strong’ man.What defines ‘strong’?
It is a requirement I see over and over again from Slavic women.
Do you mean rich? Do you mean successful? Or do you mean able to make decisions?
Do you only want him to make decisions in the house? In the bed? Over the household finances? Or to decide everything?
To me, a western man and a Christian, someone who takes control, makes all the decisions and determines all is not a man, but is a bully. He is controlling and is emotionally abusive.
For me the relationship should be about equality, it should be about sharing and it should be about compromise and understanding (and Love of course). Maybe I am wrong and this is why I fail constantly? Or do you really mean you want a rich successful man? because I am not sure only such a man will make you truly happy. And it would be better to say so from the beginning rather than use this ambiguous term ‘strong’.
So I am interested to hear different opinions from the women, if you are willing to help.
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Rokhel
Вы вообще из какой галактики?!)) Вас то как сюда занесло!? С такими взглядами!!!!! Вот жизнь - такой генофонд и уплывает из страны🙄
конечно. мужчины же тоже выбирают подходящую им модель отношений а если его, это самого мужчины, нет, то выбирай модель или не выбирай а отношений без мужчины и не будет а желаемая каждым модель отношений видна уже на первом этапе знакомства.
Yuliya
Есть такое выражение: "Куда ты денешься с подводной лодки" /образное выражение/
НО - "Меняется игра, соответственно меняются правила игры и состав участников, кто не умеет играть по новым правилам - выбывает. В дальнейшем выбывший игрок либо учится играть по новым правилам, либо ожидает когда опять начнется его игра" /образное выражение/
Hello Ken.
How we can describe what means "strong"? I think it's some mentality difference.
Just because a lot of russian mens very
indefferent and looking for a "mom", not a partner or not a wife. Woman try to find who will be not a "mom boy" and discribe that as a "strong".
For me man always is equal partner with similar interests, goals, views. I'm ready to support him in hard time in anyway (finance, mental, to advise). And of course every decision we will make together.
But important part, he will make similar things for me too.
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