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Olga

I want ask some questions to men on this site

Good day, everebody!
I want ask some questions to men on this site. I think unswer will be intresting for all women from Russian Federation & CIS countries. it will help us to better understand each other.


1. Why do you realy want meet or marry russian-speaking women from the former USSR?


2. How do you develop your relationship in real life with russian women from dating site?
3. How do you see the first meeting in real life with your virtual girlfriend?
4. On what basis you choose women on dating site?

Добрый день всем!
Я хочу задать ряд вопросов мужчинам на этом сайте. Я думаю, ответы будут интересны всем женщинам из Российской Федерации и стран СНГ. Это поможет нам всем лучше понять друг друга.
1. Почему вы действительно хотите познакомиться или жениться на рускоговорящих женщинах из бывшего СССР?
2. Как вы себе представляете отношения с русскй женщиной с сайта знакомств в реальной жизни?
3. Как вы себе представляете первое свидание с виртуальной подругой в реальной жизни?
4. По какому принципу вы выбираете женщин на сайте знакомств?

Thank you all in advance for your answers and comments.

Заранее всем спасибо за ответы и комментарии.

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Frank, 68 y.o.

United States

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Hello Olga,

I would like to reply to your questions. I am an American man (56) and I used to have a wife from Ukraine. She missed her family so much that she went back to Ukraine. To answer you rquestions:
1-I am still interested in meeting someone from the FSU because I think the women are better wives. They care more about having a happy family. American women just care about money and looks. Russian/Ukrainian women meet their husbands at the door after work with a hug. American women meet their husbands at the door after work with the trash to take out.
2-If a man is serious about meeting a Russian wife, he needs to go visit her to meet in person. Many men are afraid to do this since they don't know if the women is real, or if they will get along, and it costs a lot of money. I think it is best to go from online writing, to talking and seeing each other on Skype, then planning a meeting place or vacation together.

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3-On the first meeting, everyone will be nervous. You already know each other, so it should not be too stressful. The meeting should be casual, but will be okay if they already talked and saw each other over Skype or something like that.


4-This is difficult since there are so many women on the internet. I always pass the ones who look too sexy or have many expensive clothes since I think they might be scammers or prostitutes. I know that is not fair, but I look for a pretty women who looks normal and has a good sense of humor, and a nice smile.
Sorry if this is a long answer. Good luck finding someone to be happy with!


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Olga

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Thanks for your answer, Frank. Good luck!


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Olga

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Thanks for your unswer, Davut! Good luck!


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Anzhela


Коротко и ясно!!! Отличные вопросы)))) МОЛОДЕЦ!!!!

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George, 71 y.o.

United States

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I am ready to deal with this question, but I think you need to divide it up in small sections or do it as a treatise of the whole topic.


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Olga

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Hello Gearge!
What about unswer.
Began from one question, after from second &.....start from the beginning 😉))
Please!! 

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Yana, 44 y.o.

Ukraine

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Мне на сайте писал и к чату подключался довольно давно,пользователь с такие ником,но я ему вообще не отвечала,и не помню,что там было,до сих пор в чате вижу в контактах,даже не знаю,откуда он))).Как то,видать,никак у него не складывается))),раз уже начал такие рассылки делать.


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Natasha

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is not beautiful to talk about the women of the country is bad, you gave birth to an Italian woman. And every country have a lot of beautiful women, especially in western Europe. I've seen a lot of countries and I know it.


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Valentina


Здравствуй, Ольга. очень интересная тема для разговора. молодец!!!! я эти вопросы задаю каждому мужчине. как правило, получаю в ответ, что мы самые красивые и сексуальные. можно ли сложить из этого какое-то впечатление о мужчине или нет? не знаю. но сразу же видно, что он оценивает в первую очередь  


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Glen

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I agree with all you said George. Especially point 4!

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Dario, 55 y.o.

Poland

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Jestem Polakiem i Dlugo Szukałem Kobiety u Siebie ,lecz nie Moge Znalezc.Licze Ze tu w Rosji Spotkam Ta Jedyna.Zawsze Byłem Zafascynowany Rosja i Rosjankami.,Jestescie Pieknymi i Dobrymi Kobietami.Pozdrawiam.D.

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Kal, 64 y.o.

Sweden

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Hi Olga. Very I interesting topic after reading through the thread I must say and here are my votes, just kidding.

1. As many has said before me it's the cultural difference most seek I think. Many of you but not all (as I've experienced) act like and want to act like women according to our westerns "old" values. Pleas keep at it and be proud that you are "real" women!!

2. This is perhaps the tricky part. This I what I would like to. I want to know as much as possible about my partner and she about me. Try each other out, do you share views on different subjects include the private once to. Explore each other us much as possible and be honest with each other doing it. Hopefully this can save some grief if it doesn't work out or you find the chemistry, the same wavelength is there between you.

3. Well I'd like to this on "neutral grounds" somewhere non of you been before, no one has to lose face or anything like that. Exploring the place together, explore each other and see how you "work" together over a long weekend.

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4. I think we all have some basic criterias, some prefer blonds others brunets and so on. Appearance has some part in it, your status some to, interests, preferences and to some degree the pictures them self (are they taken on a million $ yacht) but perhaps what's not there is interesting to. So in other words it's the total "picture" that decideds if its a go or no go.

There you have it, hope it can shed more light on the topic. Now I would like to challenge you woman to answer the same four questions to us wondering and curious men   All the best to you all.


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Olga

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Hello Kal!
Thanks for your answer. I cant answer for your question, becuse was to late. So, just naw i have time for it. But, Kal, its only my answer. I cant write for all women at this site.
1. Why i wont meet with a foreign men? All very easy. Becouse foreign men like to me. it so happened that I communicated with foreigners long time, before registered on a dating site. at the institute, on trips, on holiday. After some my girlfriends married foreigners. They happy  Some of them in marriage more 10 years. Nobody think about divorce.As for russian man - they dont wont traditional family. if it be honestly, the majority of russian men nothing at all want  
2. all easy, Kal. first years i cant work in generaly. language learning, adaptation, etc. Some of my girlfriends stay housewife. satisfied husband and wife. some of my girlfriends working. husbands are grateful to wives for help, but never did not insist on this. My girlfriends do it becouse wont working.

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As for me, i'm work from 17 years old & i wont be housewife. Why not?


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Olga

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continue answer:
3. i prefer that man visit me in my country first. Its more comfortable for me & safely. And one important moment, Kal. For foreign men get a visa to Russia is easier than me to get a visa to Western Europe, for example. Belive me by word. I already have this unforgettable experience - meeting on neutral territory and a get visa to the EU. It was a month of hell - i'm preparing the documents, after change 3 agensy (sorry, but fly to Moscow from my city very expensive, becouse working special agency). As for agensy, they all do that - " we need more documents & this, and this. you know - we have a problem, but if you pay more - all will be o'key" This guys wont take a lot of my money for nothing. As result i have my pasport with a visa 4 days prior to flight to France. And my man flew to a meeting from Canada. Was a bad weather. He late a little. And i stay in airport and very nervous: "Whats do if i stay in this country alon?" "Maybe he changed his mind" Or etc... After this i'm say: "wellcome to Omsk if you intresting in me".

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But its only my opinion & my experience.


4. firstable, what i see at photo, Kal, its man eyes. We, in Russia, say: "the eye is the mirror of the soul"!
After attentively read information in profile. Very important man age.
I'm needn't too yang man - he don't search wife.
i'm needn't too old man - i'm haven't plan divorce couple years after.
Some of my girlfriends have husband-the same age, some - older a little. But the age difference is not more than 10-15 years. For me not a normal that "groom" of the same age as my father or older than my father. But its only my opinion & my preference.
What i can say in the end.
Good luck, Kal.

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Kal, 64 y.o.

Sweden

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Hi Olga. Thank you for your input, hopefully we will see more replies. One comment though, are you sure about the house wifing ? I think you will get bored seeing the dust on the floor grow after a few weeks. In my personal experience with emigrating to an other country is that the quicker you get in to new country the happier you will be. Get the feeling of belonging to your new "home" and make new friends and so on. One of the best ways to do so is to get a job or some other commitment to your new societie. All of you learnt English at school and most of you get by quite well on daily topics and most of you are also well educated and can contribute to your new "home" with ease. Then of course you can hang out on the local Russian country club and socialite with your follow country men/woman in your own language. Personally I see no point in doing this, you only waste your time and you soon will be back home again. I think many women on these sites are brave to actually consider to emigrate, it's a huge step to take. A new husband and a new country isn't a small challenge to take on. Again this is my personal thoughts on the topic.

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I wish you all the best and good luck with your hunt.


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Katerina

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Women here can do many small household jobs.Like sanding and painting the house.Or hammer a nail into the wall.They don`t need a man for this.Of course , not all women are like that.But you get the idea.Is this also some inheritance , of this feminism ideology ??
Eric, u joking ? i can make and I do it all itself not out of feminism ideology - but because I do not have a man in the my house!

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