Will there be less and less language when two people know each other through the Internet for a long time?

Hello , Linn. Can you arrange a meeting with her now?
I guess now possible to travel if you have a covid test result or if you have a vaccination.

I think you better ask the girl questions. Absolutely everything that worries or interests should be clarified in a conversation.

And if there is an opportunity to meet, for example in a third country, ask the girl if she wants to meet, and suggest options that you could consider.

Thank you for your reply

Thank you for your reply，Because of the epidemic, I can't go abroad now, which is very bad. Now I can only wait slowly

yes, unfortunately the epidemic has created insurmountable obstacles for the citizens of many countries. I agree that the only thing to do is wait patiently. If your girlfriend has the patience and you can eventually reunite, then your love will live forever. If not, then your fate awaits you with another person. Tell me, does China not let into the country, and does not let out of the country?

Hi Linn, I'm a bit unclear here if your issue is a language barrier, or if your issue is distance. Clarify with her what the issues are, and suggest solutions to fix it.

If it is distance, I'd recommend meeting in a third country very soon. Pay the expenses for both parties if you trust her, and find a place that she will agree to. It's normal that conversation dries up - in my experience, the first meeting should happen quite quickly from meeting online to keep interest, likely within 1-2 months and every 2-3 months after that. It's certainly possible that she wants it to happen, but indeed is losing hope and has become very sad about it. If you have already met before and she has grown progressively more sad, it is possible she is missing you and likes you very much. The good news is that the emotion can reverse quickly if you give her hope  

About language barrier, well, it gets easier if one person already has some ability in the other language, and is actively and aggressively studying. If meetings are the only time that studying occurs, it's going to be a struggle. Good luck.

Thank you, Chris. As you said, I can the subtle changes in the relationship between the two people. There are some things I can't stop. With the passage of time day by day, my heart is full of suffering and expectation. It feels very sad but powerless

You can't enter or leave unless it's a business visa or a study visa

maybe it will be possible to make a business visa to any country? if your girl is from Russia, then there are several countries that Russians can enter with a test or vaccine.

It is very difficult. During the epidemic, it is difficult for China to obtain individual visas. Only business visas and study abroad visas are easier to issue

Thank you for your concern. Considering family factors, children and living environment, after nine months of understanding, we chose to give up. It's a great pity that the epidemic has changed us and changed our lives

Добрый день! Думаю девушке надоело придумывать темы для разговоров все время. Никто ничего не должен в интернете, людям или нравится общаться или нет. Вы по сути никто еще чтобы делиться с вами чем-то личным, даже не было встречи. Надо девушку не спрашивать какие темы ей нравятся а вести интересный диалог, если Вы этого не умеете читайте книги, расширяйте свой кругозор, может ей стало скучно с вами. И честно говоря ход ваших мыслей мне как женщине не понятен. В итоге то, что? В пандемию встречаются на нейтральной территории. Если не можете вылететь из Китая совсем, тогда только ждать.

Thank you for your advice. I don't want to share my details with her online. Of course, it also protects her privacy. But now everything has passed. I thank her very much for her company with me in the past nine months, which made me find the feeling of love. I sent her two teas from China last month. Now I don't have a chance to send anything to her

That's a sad ending to what could have been a very happy story. Keep the door open for communication with her - 9 joyful months are not forgotten easily, and you never know what the future holds.

Hi Dr ,

Well , it is always sad , to see some potential bloom for love , end without having had the real chance , to try it.

But , hey , that`s life.Not every "love story" , will start in a good way and then will end in happiness.

As you have mentioned , this time it is a pandemic that is responsible for a failure.

But , I (we) can not know , if you 2 have really met in person.When all the contact was with corresponding , then it is not going to help to keep up the relation , especially in these circumstances.

I understand that going abroad and have a meeting in person , was /is not an ideal situation.
Considering the fact , that in some / many countries , you needed to go into quarantaine , even if you were tested negative or fully vaccinated.

Or go into quarantaine when returning back home.

But in this day and age of , superfast online communication , couldn`t you 2 not find a way to keep in touch with video chats ??

Thank you, Chris

Eric,Thank you for your novel coronavirus pneumonia. It's the world's isolation. She has many choices. I am not the only one. I understand what you mean. Besides, we can't meet for so long, and we will be exhausted in many languages.

Dr ,

Yes , it`s a loving game and the end result will not always be good for 1 or for the both of you.

But you also have many choices , so don`t give up.

Work on your Russian and maybe take a course.

Good luck

Китай закрыт ..даже многие вернуться не могут в Китай тк очень дорого-сидеть на карантине за свой счет

thank you,Eric

The isolation fee is good. Now the air ticket fee has increased several times compared with that before the epidemic, mainly because it is difficult to apply for a visa,