Chris, I carefully read the whole thread and I am lost... I think someone has assumed a prosecutor role too seriously here. While I agree with some of your points, you come across as incredibly judgmental and even arrogant towards Dustin. Nowhere in his words I noticed any of those things he's being accused of. He asked simple question: why many ladies here abruptly stop communication with him? There might have been so many different reasons, like language barrier, lack of common interests, choosing other man... Yet, everybody started speculating about Dustin being sexual pervert and deeply psychologically disturbed person. It's freaking rude! Living in the US, I believe he is just a normal American guy from a small town, with a typical Christian upbringing. Nothing wrong with being true to yourself. If you are willing to change who you in sake of meeting Eastern European lady, well good for you. Do not be arrogant to those who just want to find a partner who will love them for who they are.