How are you, Earl? Thank you for so much words to me. You are much better person than you think.You deserve an Incredible woman. definitely! Don't allow agressive women to bringing problems and concerns to you regularly.

Your ex wife still talk (about her problems and concerns) to you regularly because you are unable to say NO to others. This is the same reason because you are single. You are generous, genuine, laid-back and that is why you are single. Good man are more afraid of falling in love.

Translation from American English to another language is not a problem (it is far better then Portuguese to Russian). The most common type of mistake in translating is because we employ the same word for more than one meaning. This is the same to our thinking system: we employ the same word "love" for more than one meaning. We think by means of phrases and words. In our reasoning process they play a similar role to numbers in Mathematics. Any ambiguity in the choice of words determines an error that, in the sequence of thoughts, will tend to be amplified and will lead us to more mistaken conclusions each time.

I have a daughter too. I guess (and i may be wrong) that you fear that disappointing her so much that you run on lenience over than you should. Seems like you are a good father but if steadfast love and support of her about all things... If you take care "no matter what happens" she may see this behavior as weakness and take advantage of this. We have to teach our daughters a modicum of the moral principles that rule life in society.

* thank you for giving an idea about a important topic: raising a child. Without your help i would have never posted something about it.
Sorry if i somehow hurt your feelings (I think it's important)