This is my main concern about marrying someone from so far away and bringing her to the States. How could I expect her to do something I would not be willing to do myself? I can't imagine leaving my family, friends, and homeland. Hopefully empathy and appreciation for her sacrifice will help. I also believe it would motivate me to provide her with the best life possible and respond with unmatched loyalty. Plus, I wouldn't be looking into this if I was prepared to travel back at least once a year with her.