What can I say ... To avoid any disappointment should not deceive ourselves and not think stamps. Must clearly identify and compare their expectations and goals and objectives and expectations partner. I'll tell you the case of life. He is an American 44 years old, she is a girl from Belarus 28 years. He chose her because she is young (I was 37 years old for him), is formed and beautiful. I decided to go for it. I asked - why do not you get married to an American? He said that for young, educated Americans are not interested in it, and the poor girl from Belarus will be grateful for the fact that he takes her to America - a beautiful country with a developed democracy ... I laughed and said : good luck! As a result, he was very surprised when I saw that her high-paying job, his own apartment, a car is better than him, and she goes to Europe for a vacation resorts. It also turned out that she had big ambitions, she wants to travel, have a career and used to be in clubs and at various concerts.She was in shock because he brought her cheap perfume for $ 20 (she checked on the Internet), lived with her ​​and was stingy in her opinion. He could not understand why he has to pay the restaurant for her parents and friends and was surprised by the high culture of the Belarusian people, clean streets and centuries of history. I think you can guess about the ending of this story ...