Ciao Helga,
I read very carefully, unfortunately the translation is of poor quality but I realized that you have a vision opposed to mine. I would tell you that a lot of respect both you and your opinion and I confirm that I would want to talk with you about this, because you are very direct in communication and have clear ideas, even if different from mine, hopelessly.
I conclude by saying that, in the harmonious relationship between Gino and Helena there is a lot of love and mutual loyalty (and NOT steril sex, If Gino wants sex (about dating sex sites).... he can choose throughout Italy .... then I ask you respect for him) and .... "they are NOT breaking the relation" ... I understand that there is no solution to the question .... there is only life ahead ....
Now, I make you a question: The woman risk is: to be left NOW (after having had intimate moments) .... the man risk is: to be left AFTER the wedding ... to whom the greatest risk? for the man or for the woman?
I await an answer worthy of you.