Ben always seen you has a reasonably intelligent person... i have to qoute “Dan Pena” here... he always says “show me your friends and ill tell you your future” from the post and pictures the girl is used to handing out with younger people who desire sex. We are influenced by the people around us and till she breaks this pattern she wont find the right man... mature people have mature friends... many years ago i used to sleep with a girl everyone wanted to fuck but nobody wanted to date... the girl needs to mature i agree with you on that point but i think there needs to be a change in friends and lifestyle girl has potential but rough round the edges often see this with girls with no men but nice handbags too... also hard for thrm to ditch the “independent woman” tag