There is a big difference between to say and to do! This is what the priest tell you to actuate at your home. After, the reality is another!
Do not read too many fairly tales! Do not fly! Let's stay with you feet in the ground!
Your description is like in a Frank Capra film! Parents do not teach the way to love! Nobody can teach how to! You must learn observing the life without nobody telling you what to do! Your experience! Nothing more!