I understand your point. Well do you think a woman and also a man should inform each other of some health problems or other problems they have in life in first letters? How appropriate it could be? For example I can't get rid of my alergic cough for years now. I wonder how I would go dating if I had to. Not all people believe that the cough is alergic and then they start thinking I am contagious. I can't stand the smells of some foods (only the smells, eating the food won't cause any consequences like with some other people), smoke, fresh grinded coffee, purfumes - I start coughing. Then I can't touch anything cold, for example I open a fridge to take out something cold like milk or butter or whatever in steel box and again I cough, though eating an icecream in waffers doesn't cause that, but if it was an icecream in a vase (cup) in cafe and I touched the vase I would cough. Then when I come into some shop or office for example, outside is heat and inside the conditioner is working, the change of air temperatures from warm to cold also causes me caugh continuously. Some tea can help but it doesn't take away the symptoms for long. I drank some syrups but also they don't help much. The doctors don't find anything serious, they think I am healthy, one said it was just because of my stomack, but as I chose food accurately now I don't have these problems with stomack often now, so as I read in internet it's alergy which nobody will heal here. I guess maybe I would be treated better if I lived abroad but I don't think it will come that far. I wonder what a man would think if I was coughing all the time on a date or when he tried to kiss me. Also I watched some humorous video at youtube of a woman giving advice what to do if a date went wrong. So she said if you can't stand the guy any longer and want to get out of there and not to offend the guy just say you are alergic, then ask a cook what ingredients they put in food, then "oh my God I can't stand this ingredient", then search for your medicine in a bag and show you can't find it, then stand up and apologise that you have to go away because of that, that everything was fine and that the guy was fine and the date was great, but due to the circumstances she has to leave. It was very funny to watch. I wonder if it really happens what the guy would believe.