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I appreciate your opinion Svetlana, but his victim complex and holier-than-thou attitude of his own is what I find most troubling. He came here asking for advice on why he was being blocked frequently, and quickly it was discovered that yes, he does send messages that many women would find disturbing. Instead of accepting that this behavior is unbecoming, he blamed it on an entire nation and religion being sexually incompatible because a few women don't tolerate his messages. His posts point to a very low level of emotional maturity and very little ability to accept responsibility, nor does he show an ability to conform to what is socially acceptable. Several people gave him advice that would have helped him succeed, but he immediately became hostile and turned it around and started judging others. We have a term for this type of person in North America - "incel". His post history indicates he has no issue treating women as possessions, he just seeks a specific type. Men with fragile egos and low social integration are a very dangerous combination, which is amplified by his experience in the military. We've had several cases of such people killing innocent people in Canada, and I don't encourage that type of attitude whatsoever. If you want to support him, maybe you can privately guide him in the right direction. I sincerely hope you do.