Hello Eric. The first what i can to say that i really wonder...i read carrefly all what you wrote and i agree with you...
Many times i was ubroad and i understand this,now i was 1 year about in Austria ,place where i lived there was many very nice man around,with nice houses and sucsseful life but the most of this man were single...i asked many time why and always heared that there is no real woman,all woman busy only with career...many man told me that really need a someone sweet tender,who will think about family,kids and home,who will be maybe not so independent...
And we are really so different...a hummer,oh,it was nice for me..my man one day came to me with a hummer and told me that i must make some work in a his garage...it was really surprise for me....yes,sure,when i alone maybe i can make some strong work but...if i with man who told me that hi loves me,and even if i really can to do some work with hummer but for me will be much better if i can show for my man that i am not so strong for this work,espeshialy when i have him in the near...i want to feel me like a woman,really woman...i want to be a tender,sweet,take care home my man,our kids but not make a work what should be for a man...onother way...how it will be possible to be a really woman when i work like a man,if i will make it then soon i loose all what i have from God...to be a woman....i will forget love,romantic,tendernes...i will be a man...
Sure,when i really need it i can be a strong and make many difficult things but...if i can be just a woman better for me to will use it ...
It was nice to read your opinion,thank you and sorry for my mistakes in English)))
Have a nice evening.