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Я хоч і людина гостинна, але ж не на стільки, щоб змінювати свої плани на вечір заради малознайомого чоловіка, який навіть не повідомив завчасно про свій приїзд. Тому відповіла так, як є: "На жаль, я до п'ятої години на роботі, а на шосту їду в церкву і буду таи до десятої". Але Бруно був настирний, запитав адресу церкви" Після того, як я йому відправила координати, відписав, що приїде після сьомої.
В цю церкву мав приїхати відомий в Українісвященник - екзорцист, який читає спеціальні молитви на оздоровлення. Мій брат якраз потребував такої молитви, тому я завчасно погодилась його в тому підтримати.
Коли до Львова приїжджає цей священник отець Ян Білецький, то величезна церква стає повною людей. І досить моторошне явище, коли при читанні молитов деякі люди дивно себе поводять: кричать не своїми голосами, ревуть як тварини, падають додолу..."
В цей день було особливо багато таких випадків.
Коли я була ще в церкві, то прийшов лист від Бруно, що він вже тут. Але, на жаль, через велику кількість людей не могла його побачити..... Приблизно через годину його побачила в тамбурі за дверима: білого як стіна з величезними здивованими очима. 🤪😲 Зрозуміло, що для людини, яка ніколи не чула про екзорцизм, таке видовище викликає шок....

У меня есть знакомые женщины которые вышли замуж за иностранцев из разных стран. И могу вам сказать что 80 процентов из них просто молча терпят. Потому что на родину возвращаться не хочется , в бедность и нищету. Да и детей наша женщина никогда не бросит!
Я искренне желаю всем нам найти того единственного который будет нас любить только потому что мы -ЛЕНА, НАТАША,МАРИНА,ОЛя И Т. Д. Но прежде чем удариться головой в романтику, подумайте а говорит ли правду этот мужчина? А почему он такой - мягко стелит? Поту что бесплатный сыр , мои милые только в мышеловках!
Все мы знаем что жизнь прожить , не поле перейти! Просто будьте внимательны кому вы доверяете.... я могла бы вам много чего рассказать , да боюсь что администрация сайта не напечатает , потому что это не выгодно.

Мужчины любители молодого тела, платят и получают то что заслужили! И нечего на нас женщин гнать! Вот выбирали бы себе по возрасту и проблем бы было меньше! А то им на 25 лет моложе подавай а потом плачут, вот мол какая плохая..

I qoute Lukashenko “better to live on your feet than die on your knees”

Lets try debate this without sidetracking.

Happy start of week everyone

Something I've observed for a long time here is the level of "turnover" among women under 30 here. That is, they create their profile, have brief conversations, and vanish within a day or two. A lot of these women will write first, but won't even read any responses, or will read them and leave them unanswered. A lot of women that I write to first will do the same. I try to start with topics they will find interesting, as a way to "break the ice", but find that it's a lot more difficult than it seems. I've alluded to this on the forum previously, but lots of younger women here are just boring to talk to - many give simple response that are maybe 5-10 words long to messages, even after switching to communication off the site. It's not interesting at all to talk to someone like that. What is there to gain from having a conversation, but putting so little effort into it? I get the impression that such women are here for easy gratification, as I mentioned above - that they love the attention, but do not care to put in any effort, and definitely don't have any intention to meet anyone. Ladies, I know you're not all like this.

I've noticed that many of the more attractive women here have response rates below 5% and only log on once per month to re-enter the photo contests. Why is this important to them?

I've also noticed that many women don't even read profiles. I get many messages from women who do not even appear in "who viewed my profile", so I imagine they're sending out messages to many people they see in the "Search" function. If they don't even take a few seconds to know who you are, how can you take them seriously? I try to use the mail filters to eliminate low-success messages (I find the "likes" function isn't very useful), but I have criteria written in my profile that I'd hope women would respect, such as age, language, and whether they have children. I'd estimate that well over half of messages I receive here totally ignore this, and just send a message saying "Привет" (this was written about messages received over the past week but as I was finishing this post, I got yet another of these). Last year, I did meet one young woman from the site who was very well-spoken and seemed to have genuine intentions, but her English was as good as my Russian (which is to say - not great 😜  and I did not feel any connection through a translator. I also previously had a long relationship with a Russian woman I found on another site. She was mature, self-sufficient, knew what she wanted, could speak English well, and was very proactive to make steps to find her happiness. I'm sorry to report that I haven't found many like that here.

I also get the impression that many men here under 35 (and many over 35, for that matter) don't have intentions that extend beyond lust, and can be rude in the way they approach women. I don't interact with these people here, so I can't really elaborate with any experience, but I would be happy to hear from women the things that make you want to engage with a man, and the things that you don't want to hear.

While it does cost money for men to write on this site, it's really discouraging to see the women who I seek using the site so callously. The issue to me is not the money - it's the principle. Non-serious men are filtered by their unwillingness to pay for the privilege to talk here, but non-serious women ruin the experience for serious men, and draw attention away from serious women, as well.

This is where things get controversial. Although many women here are making serious attempts, I'll say this: as a woman, if you have no ability to speak another language and you're not actively learning already - I don't think you have genuine intentions. Relationships are based on communication, and presumably you are here because you want to meet a man from a country where your mother tongue is barely spoken. If you move to a country in which you do not speak the language, for a man with whom you can't have a conversation without a translator, this is a recipe for disaster. As a man, I would never put a woman in such a vulnerable and lonely situation.

For the men, if you are not willing to go visit another country, if you're not willing to learn anything about her culture, traditions or customs, or if you don't consider anything other than appearance - you don't have serious intentions.

I applaud the managers here for creating a site that is (largely) free of scammers, and is very liberal in the way they allow people to interact. I do get the impression that anyone can find their match if they put in enough time and effort here.

My ultimate question is this: Since distance dating is based entirely on digital communication to create a bond and a spark, what can serious younger men and women do to improve their experience here?