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Ayler, 46 y.o.

Cuba

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Mujeres rusas y latinos

Hola.
Saludos chicas. Viendo un reportaje de: "Que piensan las risas de los hombres latinos". Habían muchas opiniones buenas de los hombres para una relación.
Me gustaría tener una relación con una mujer rusa. Se dice q son muy sexuales y agradables y creo q será una buena mezcla.


Me gusta además bailar mucho (soy profesor de salsa). Hacer deporte, y divertirme en pareja.


Q piensas de todo esto.

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Tatyana, 42 y.o.

Ukraine

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Reading your presentation about yourself , I got the impression that Latin American men from Cuba are only interested in "dancing and sex"...
But for me , "these trump cards" are not the foundation for strong, reliable, harmonious relationships.
Perhaps I am wrong , but this is my opinion. Nothing personal .

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Eric, 75 y.o.

Netherlands

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Hi Tatyana ,

I'm not sure that I can follow your arguments.Now , I have not watched the report and I don't know , what the report is talking about.

You should also understand , that in many West Indian /Caribbian and /or Latin American countries , dancing is a substantial part of daily life.

It is given to the babies , just like the mothermilk.

So , he likes to dance , nothing wrong with that.He would want to have a relation with a Russian woman , again nothing wrong with that.

He wants to have fun as a couple ... so that is his own desire.

And let's not forget , that in most situations , when you dance , you are in a good mood.
So , what is wrong with that ?

Maybe you don't like dancing , that's your choice then.Does that means that others should not like to dance ?

I myself am a great dancing lover.So , I would not qualify in your opinion.
But that's fair - to each his /her own.

To me it is far more important , to have a good communication and (self-) respect , in a relation.

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And have fun together ...

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Tatyana, 42 y.o.

Ukraine

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Hello Eric (
By the way , I remember that you love to dance... But nevertheless, neither your profile , nor your view do not evoke the associations that I wrote about to this guy ... But when in the subject of a man 3 words are written : "I love fun, sports, dancing and Russian girls. Because they are sexy" - in such a subject I replied what I think about men from Cuba... Again, I emphasize, my opinion was formed on the basis of his words and from what he wrote... I think that a compliment like "sexy" is not a compliment at all... Because all women in the world are sexy , each in its own degree and according to its age... And this applies not only to Russian women , but also to women from any other country , and also from Cuba . So what's there to prove , Eric? If a man has a subject in the head words: "sexy", "fun", "dancing" - then on this basis I shared what I think...🤔 (he asked to share by opinions)

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I’m sure I didn’t offend anyone.


As for me - I really like to dance) I have been doing ballroom dancing for many years, participated in competitions . In addition, I like ballet, and it is with great pleasure that I come to Odessa to see the next production. I also watch ballet here in Turkey, I was several times at the performance of a ballet group from Austria...) It was an incredibly enchanting sight, as the ballet group performed on the stage of the ancient theater "Aspendos", which is more than 2000 years old.
This is really "art with a capital letter" that requires colossal efforts and many years of training, strong muscles and good stretching...
I also watched the dance show "The Fires of Anatolia", in which a mix of dances of different peoples: Georgian, Turkish, Greek and modern.
And now I will write a few words about salsa and bachata)
Once my girlfriend from Kiev with her brother was invited to a salsa party in a bar-club. I agreed and we went. I had a general idea of ​​these dances before. But then I managed to see everything with my own eyes ... not only to see , but also to feel  ... In my eyes , it was like a mass orgy of copulation , where a crowd of unfamiliar to me well drunk and cheerful people rub in a pair against each other with intimate parts of the body...  But the most unpleasant thing about this whole party is that a lot of annoying male dancers practically pursued us with their desire "to dance", if I can speak so.... Really
So, Eric, I love dances, which ones I wrote. I don't consider salsa and bachata as dancing at all... It looks more like some kind of "intimate friction" of two people , but in public. If a man and a woman are close to each other and they like such dances, I don't see anything wrong with that.
And about my thoughts and preferences, I have already shared more than.

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Inessa, 56 y.o.

Russia

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Если только танцы и секс , то это только кубинки .

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Tatiana, 49 y.o.

Russia

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Ну так ведь каждый имеет право на свои желания

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Tatyana, 42 y.o.

Ukraine

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Бесспорно )

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Eric, 75 y.o.

Netherlands

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Let me say , that I fully understand your words.And I notice , that you have an objection , to certain words.

But I'm happy to hear , that you still remember something about my personal life.

While you may have the idea , that all women are "sexy" by nature , it still will make a woman smile , when a man will tell her , that she is sexy.

I don't see a problem with that.

I guess that the ballet will be at the Opera Theater in Odessa ?
A very fine building.

I was there to watch an opera performance.Very , very nice architecture.

As to your experience , with the salsa - bachata evening , I do not consider this , to be the normal practice.

Ooohh , I can tell you , how the young people of today , dance in the discos these evenings.So , what you have seen on that salsa night , will / can not only happen at a salsa party.

But I understand , that it made you feel uncomfortable.
That said , you know that dancing can sometimes lead to sex.

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Just like flirting can lead to sex.

This is how it is.

Still on my bucket list , is to go to a salsa party , in a CIS country.

I know that in October , there is a greater possibility , to visit a salsa dance evening.

I'm sure that it will be great ...

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Tatyana, 42 y.o.

Ukraine

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Hello Eric)
I quote your words: "While you may have the idea, that all women are" sexy "by nature, it still will make a woman smile, when a man will tell her, that she is sexy." Probably , I am some kind of special woman , and such compliments to me, such as "sexy", did not make me smile , they annoyed me... Naturally, the senders of such greetings automatically fell into the block and were not considered by me at all... In my eyes , this is such a PRIMITIVE compliment that no longer characterizes the woman to whom such a compliment is sent , but more characterizes the man who is "imprisoned only for sex..." Therefore , believe me , Eric, such compliments did not make me smile.
I think , if a man wants to attract the attention of a woman, then there are many other ways, and a million "not hackneyed and not chewed words."
Well , if we have already started talking about other ways , then one beautiful act will cause more smiles than 1000 of the most beautiful words... Even just send flowers to the woman you like , or coffee with chocolate. But of course, for some man it is easier and not more expensive to send compliments like "sexy" and expect a woman to "blur with happiness in a smile." 😂😂😂...And then they will also ask for a photo in a bikini, as here I read from another woman.

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I hope Eric, you get my point. Not all women enjoy these compliments...be sure .


Well, if any other ways or words are not available to a man to bring a smile on a woman's face, this is sooo boring.

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Ayler, 46 y.o.

Cuba

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Eres muy superficial. Solo puse ese tema para ver que opinaban del tema. No puedes valorar a los hombres latinos ni a los del mundo por el tema de un foro

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Ayler, 46 y.o.

Cuba

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Muchas gracias... Estoy de acuerdo con tu opinión

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Ayler, 46 y.o.

Cuba

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Я понимаю, что вы говорите, но идея заключалась в том, чтобы начать дискуссию, а не д кто-то будет чувствовать себя затронутым ею. Во всех пайсах мира дарят цветы., стихи и песни посвящены, есть любящие люди и тому подобное. Они не должны быть латиноамериканцами, европейскими или африканскими... Просто быть людьми

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Tatyana, 42 y.o.

Ukraine

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Good morning .
"I understand what you are saying, but the idea was to start a discussion."
That's why I answered you. In my opinion, when the discussion starts male the way you started it, I get the impression that I have already shared earlier. I didn't want to offend anyone. And yes, you are right. Love can come to everyone, regardless of race.
But only if I were in search, I would not have been attracted by your presentation and the "headline about yourself and russian woman" in the angle in which you wrote. For me it does not sound like "a man is looking for love and desire to take care of his beloved woman."
And that's all. It's just that everyone has a different perception of reality, seen and heard.
Good luck in your search.

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Eric, 75 y.o.

Netherlands

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You are welcome - good luck

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Eric, 75 y.o.

Netherlands

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O , yes , Tatyana , I get your point.But you , yourself have said , that women are (already) sexy .So , we men should not say it (again) to her /them.

And , I personally , will not write or text a woman , that she is sexy , when we (she and me) are just in the proces of getting to know each other better.

Of course , we both must find out , about our views on friendship or a relation as a couple.

In the first days / weeks of a relation , I certainly will buy her flowers or other gifts.

So , I know how to behave.

You may have had encounters , with other men , who asked you for bikini photos or have texted / written you other messages.

If so , then I understand , your way of thinking and how you may perceive , other or all(?) men.

But I can assure you , that there are also men , with better /higher standards ...

And you may like them ... eventually

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Tatyana, 42 y.o.

Ukraine

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Good evening Eric .
"And, I personally, will not write or text a woman, that she is sexy, when we (she and me) are just in the proces of getting to know each other better." - I think that it is more correct and tactful. Otherwise, if from the first phrases man start a conversation with a woman about her sexuality, many of us may understand not correctly.
I think differently about different men. And first of all it depends on how they present themselves (it means a lot).


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Yuliya


The contact of different cultures requires an understanding of their differences. For my culture, talking about sex right away or compliments about female sexuality is a sign of a lack of upbringing and good manners, a desire to have sex quickly and relieve tension. But I understand that you do not know this and show an element of your culture.

I'm interested in knowing about different cultures, but I can't accept everything. I have a different cultural code  .

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Eric, 75 y.o.

Netherlands

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Hi Tatyana ,

Yes , I am aware of the cultural differences and the tradition in Slavic countries.

And I know , how to behave when on dates with Slavic women.Or if it should happen , in a correspondence.

So , I mentioned it many times here , that Western men /guys should learn about the traditions of Slavic women.

Going over there with your Western standards and morals , may ruin some if not all your chances , to have some nice dates.

I'm not saying that our Western standards are not good.But you may find , that sometimes it might not be a good approach towards a Slavic woman.

If you are not familiar with the Slavic traditions , it may already setting you back , to have succesful dates.

So , I know what is important for Slavic women.But sometimes , it is a bit difficult , to understand the real meaning of (some) words , because of the (online) Google translation.

So , watch out for this.Make really , really sure , that you understand , what your date is trying to say.

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Don't just take the Google translation for 100% correct.

Make really sure , what the woman is trying to tell you.This is also the case in a correspondence.

Well , we all know , that the first impression , is the most important.
Surely , when meeting in real life and when on a dating service.

I must say , that I have not looked at your profile , so I have only a vague idea about you as an individual.

But in general , I know how Slavic women are ...

So , you don't need to worry ...





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