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Andy

Yes my dear, I do think I can buy love!???

This must be something that is coached or taught somewhere! I too have encountered the ridiculous notion that a man with some money to spare would pay literally thousands of $$$ just to travel and have sex with a woman from another country. Because we are here looking for something not found in our own countries YES, some women assume that we men just cannot find someone at home. It is simply not true. The values that make up our future partners lives are what I find attractive. Things like 1. Is she a good mother or family member? 2. Does she give something back to her own society, after all, she will be expected to be a productive member of a new society if she is actually married to one of us? 3. Is she compassionate and loyal? 4. Education 5. Beauty........notice the order of things and beauty near the bottom. Contrary to popular belief the comments like I have read in the past such as "he is looking for a nurse" or "he just wants a trophy wife" or "he is only after sex because he has some sexual deviance"......all completely not true but these statements help us fill in the blanks left in a woman's profile. All of those stereotypes are typical, easy to reach for answers...like with my ex wife and my son. She assumes that I spoil him with gifts and sweets to gain his favor.....like it is not possible that my son actually enjoys his time with me because I take him to work with me or coach his football team, or I take time to play his favorite video game, or I just stop in at school and surprise him and take him to lunch early. The easy to reach for answers are the most lame yet in my country at least, they are the first ones brought up.

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Olga

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Why you decided that i'm not interested in man, Kal? Not ask about his interests, hobby, etc? but in 75% its look like interrogation in a secret department of the KGB.  )))))
i'm agent KGB, man - CIA agent & he trying not to betray military secrets  )) I'm write many topic - Man, answer please? Do you remember, Kal, haw many man answer, join to discussion?
Belive me by word, Kal, 75 % men most interested size of my bra, not my personality & soul   They all scarry that i'm scammer, i wont them money, bla-bla-bla... I'm ask - whats you hobby? He think - why she ask, for what? Began reflection..
One german guy have many photo his car BMW, with cool tunings, etc. It was clearly a fool, that he loves his car. I made a compliment - cool car. In answer he accused me of greed and mercenary interests ))Crazy 

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Honestly, Kal, for last year only a week ago only one american guy talk with me about Murakami novels. He read this books, he read my profile. I received a sincere pleasure just from our online conversation. He was nice, polite, open, interesting conversationalist. Pleasant exception  )
As for another man. So i write about them (My experience of meeting in real life with foreign men) in closed topic, only for women. I do not want to offend normal men, like a american guy, whose read Murakami. But my observations are as follows - most men do not care about women inner beauty. they searching yanger, beauty, more foolish , profitable overhead expenses. In the end of end they have many problem in future.
But they choose this women themself.

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Kal, 63 y.o.

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Hi Olga. What seems obvious to you doesn't mean it's obvious to everybody else. And you shouldn't excuse your self either, why should you? About Russian men I can't say I now much, the few I've meet where either very stubborn or arrogant and they drive like they stolen the car. I didn't like them much.

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Kal, 63 y.o.

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Hi Olga. I'm sure you are straight and interested in men otherwise you wouldn't be here, right? Unless you are here to scam us   but I could be scamming you to you never know. It a risk we all have to deal with.
Well I can only speak for my self but I can assure you I'm not interested in your bra size, I would like to know what's make you "tick". Who is the person, their interests, favorite food and so (I think you know what I mean and I hope I'm in the othere 25%). But I agree with you, I also feel like I'm in a interrigation sometimes but I think it's hard to avoid if you want to get to know someone.
Well I'm glad you found someone on the same wavelength as your self.


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Elizaveta

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Sorry, Kal! It's my grammar mistake   If you read "Show or display" instead of "Shine" you could understand me  .


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Inessa


Dear boys, who had ex FSU wives or suffered from FSU girlfriends! The women on the site are NOT guilty in your unsuccessful past. Can anybody explain why you are seaking for the woman of the same community that gave you so much pain? Just to say that NOW you are experienced? And NOW you know the case? Just to say 'all women here are money-hunters, all women here are looking for a residence abroad, all women here are materialistic, all women are constantly complaining about their life'??? NOT ALL!!! And do you call it 'a discussion'?
Kal, can you explain what do you mean by the words 'So pleas FSU women start to glow and shine, show us that there is real person behind the profiles and pictures, pleas  ???
Can I ask you what profiles do you look through? YOU personaly choose with whom to communicate or not. What's the problem?


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Olga

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you know, Kal, "what's make you "tick" - its private information, not secret. who can read, will read in questionnaire
who interesting in me, write to me personal message
i needn't additional advertising


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Olga

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what about man scammer, man sex-turist, man-liars.
in this post Inna accused of commercialism. so, she have many intresting experience with a foregion man. the main reason - the men lied and tried to use her. And just now, when she say all that she think & how it really is - men resent.
Haw she can? She is a mercantilist. Bla-bla-bla... Whats about love?
Funny. We study at our mistakes, Kal. And, yes, its very bad for you, men. No naive slav women anymore. To us taught good lesson


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Andy

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As a 38 year old father sure sex is a part of my life, but if I told you I was alone for 5 years and 9 months, completely without the touch of any woman, no kiss, no touch, no sex...just me and mistrust. It took alot for me to come out of my shell, but I did, and clearly if I wanted sex and looks first and only, I would be searching the 21-28yr old range of women, not 31 and older. Because maybe someone from your past had messed up priorities does not mean all men are like that...it's like saying a married man does not value anything but his wife's looks or sex, I seek what I listed, how I listed it, and THANKFULLY, FSU countries are full of women with all of these qualities   Best Wishes,, Andy


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Andy

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Well said!

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Kal, 63 y.o.

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Hi Olga. What's in a preformatted questionnaire with multiple choice answers doesn't say that much. At best it gives you a hint about the person. Perhaps you aren't used to talk about your inner self.
Good for you that you don't need to advertise your self, good luck with that!
One more question, why do you always turn to the offensive? No one is accusing you of anything, we are just trying to get to know you.

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Kal, 63 y.o.

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Hi Olga. I don't know if this is a language problem or if it's about your exceptations on your view of men. To me your answer sounds like you had bad experience with men in general. And by judging your answer who is really looking for a "slave", to me it sound like you are looking for a "pet" and not man.


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Elena

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Вот об этом, Ольга, я написала свой пост. Именно о требованиях мужчин. И если я "на берегу" под этими требованиями не подписываюсь, общение прекращается.

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Kal, 63 y.o.

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Hi. Well I read "shine" as show, my interpretation was that we give you a chance to show who you are before "judging" you as a "mate" or not. Off course this goes both ways, right?

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Kal, 63 y.o.

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Well in my experience so far you (I mean in general) don't seem so keen to get to know your future husband. This is "strange" way to try to get to know someone I know but the only way (as I see it) is to ask a lot of questions about your selfs to get to know each other. But so far it's been a one way conversation pretty much. In other words I would like to see more interaction from your part.


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Tetjana

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Я кажется ВАМ не жаловалась!К дискуссии присоединятся не имею желания!


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Inessa

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Hi, Kal! Yes, you're right - the women on the forum talk to themselves and sometimes the disput is not a discussion but a game of ping-pong. But some things are really worth reading - some advice, useful information, support, experience and so on. I must say that I like some of your comments and share some of your ideas. For example, judging by some women's remarks and 'figures of speech', I also have the feeling that there's a man behind the profile, not a woman. Well, the men are not active on the forum but when they write sometimes, the topic is usually about equality and how materialistic the women are. Frankly speaking, I'm sick of this issue and don't want to comment on the topic. I'd like to repeat that if one thinks that all men/women here are pigs, he/she will definitely find a pig.
I wish you good luck in your search!


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Olga

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а они тут у нас как царевны-несмеяны из русских народных сказок, задания дают и загадки загадывают:
- поди туда девица, не зная куда, найди то, не знаю сам что
- и женятся они по итогу на той, которая первой построит летучий корабль или соткет гибрид ковра-самолета и скатерти-самобранки...
Такое подозрение, что они к нашим отечественным мужчинам на симпозиумы по обмену опытом зачастили.

P.S. Елена, вы кстати сейчас чем заняты: резьбу лобзиком практикуете али ткачеством развлекаетесь?


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Olga

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"you had bad experience with men in general", Kal - stab at 3 points. Very banal & bore ))


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Olga

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Kal, answer please, who this "we"? Just naw, Kal, you write from all men from this site. I'm not sure that everybody want know private informaton about me. Somebody, i think, prefer blue-eyed 18 year old blonde  )
Who want know me better, will write to me personal message. If this man like me, interesting to me, we talk with him - no problem.

I've been thinking. End suggest not a complicated game to you, Kal.
Do you saw the movie "Silence of the Lambs" with Anthony Hopkins?
What about game Hanibal Lecter and Clarice Starling?
Only Hannibal Lector just be i'm.
You tell a story about yourselves first. I tell story about myself to answer.
That's a bargain, Kal??!  ))

"Даш на даш" 😉)

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Kal, 63 y.o.

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Couldn't agree more on all "points", wish you good luck to.

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Ina, 48 y.o.

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Оля,браво)))Точно,иностранцы уже не знают чего затребовать))))Успех у них могут только волшебницы иметь))))

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Kal, 63 y.o.

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You must be one of guys that's been talked about judging from the immature comment  

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Kal, 63 y.o.

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Sure we can play but why don't you start or don't you have the guts for it? By the way you must be one of the guys that's been talked about, right ?


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Olga

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"дашь на дашь", Kal.
Nobody trading with Hanibal lecturer.
Do you want public psychoanalysis? Beginning...
"дашь на дашь", Kal.
Look like ts you scared. Kal  ))


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Olga

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Инна, ты в курсе, что нас раскусили? Старина Кэл все понял. Мы два трансвестита переодетых и загримированных под девушек. И он разболтал об этом всем на форуме  )) Какой ужас  ))
Воистину иностранцы другие. когда русский мужчина не может "наколоть" женщину, он вешает на нее ярлык стервы. западный мужчина заподозрил, что это не женщина, это мужчина.
Вс4 таки, Инна, насколько чудесат этот мир.

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Kal, 63 y.o.

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No, I was just being polite. Women first  , sorry forgot you aren't one of them  


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Olga

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Kal, you are 51 years old.
But you cant come up something interesting:
- provocation "and are you weak?" - secondary school, Kal
- women first  )) "Hi" from university - test, seminar, exam - "Lady first"
you know, Kal, in your age you could be more resourceful. or not?
in generaly, you dont think about one easy thing. suppose, you want know whats thinking FSU women. you havent enough iformation, few women want share iformation with you.
as for me, in the sphere of my interests men to 45 years old. communication with you - its act of good will, not more.
will you play in public psychoanalysis or not, for me not a critically. Now it's even boring.
So,if you want to tell something interesting - welcome, Kal.
As for cheap, primitive manipulation - leave it for the naive slavic peasant woman.

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Ina, 48 y.o.

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Да,Оля))))По разному меня называли иностранные граждане,но это что-то новое)))


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Olga

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жизнь не перестает удивлять - и это здорово 

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Kal, 63 y.o.

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Hi. Who might you be, your English has improved considerable? A colleague to the other guy who was running this profile?

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