Men & women
Back to big age differences
Some time ago, Helga posted the subject of couples with large age differences. At the time, I listened to the discussion with reservations. Many claim older men and younger women may mix for a while, but no long-term good can come from these matches; that is until a neighbor comes home with some striking young beauty half his age, who seems crazy in love and oblivious to age. When money is involved, this is dismissed as superficial and financially motivated, but that theory becomes problematic there is no money and the interest appears honest and genuine. Then what!?
Many western men have deluded themselves into believing Slavic women will marry the village idiot, regardless of age, just to have some sort of man and move to the west. I find that insulting. Perhaps that is why he is the village idiot! Here in the US, I have seen many beautiful Slavic girls who married far beneath themselves. Some were very happy; others developed a chronic eye-rolling condition.
Older men enjoy receiving attention from some entrancing young babe. I do not think young girls typically have a sincere desire to spend their lives with someone old enough to be their father; however, the other day I discovered a blog discussion on this very subject. Surprisingly, I read over 11 pages written by sincere people who had wonderful marriages with age differences of 25-30 years. Honestly, I was quite surprised. Successful relationships with wide age differences must be possible, but are they practical?
I must ask, if a man truly loves a young woman, can he embrace her knowing he may only be able to give her 20 or so good years, before becoming a burden on her? If true love wishes the best for the other, would he not exercise wisdom, make a difficult decision, cause her short term grief to spare her possible long-term regrets? Should he not love her more than his own desires, and do the best for her?
Older men who fall in love with younger women must consider much. Even if she is very open with her feelings, sometimes difficult for a man to believe he could actually be the object of her desire and love; however, these things are not impossible. All relationships have problems; all demand much work and self-sacrifice, regardless of differences. With large age gaps, perhaps it takes more to convince an older man that love is possible. Perhaps the less conventional the circumstances, maybe the harder to understand, but certainly any genuine love is good love. What do you ladies think?
PS: Often you women think we men are a bit “juvenile”; I can only smile, but I admit nothing! But I have talked here with women, much younger than me, and told them maybe she would think I am too young for her! ))))) (Next week we will discuss GLOBAL WARMING)
Victor
Olga te aconsejo que busques la diferencia entre juzgar sin tener conocimiento y conocer de lo que se habla.
Tienes tendencia a criticar y juzgar aún desconociendo de lo que hablas.
Antes de criticar,pregunta o Infórmate,porfavor
Victor
Si... Tener ciudado... Igualmente que diciendo tres veces bitelchus,bitelchus,bitelchus...se aparecía el fantasma ahora diré: TOMASSO,TOMASSO,TOMASSO!! . Aparece!
Jejejeje
Irina
Так ка же голосовать если нет перевода никакого...? Вот сейчас перевод есть. Ну так и пишите на этом языке.
Irina
Виктор! Мы все продвинутые люди и в призраков не верим. А что Том уже превратился в призрака?)))
Victor
En Rusia,no conocéis la película bitelchus??. Como le explica un gallego a una Rusa el chiste que izo rememorando una película americana..
Olga
Да никто вас не судит.
Но и вдоль шерстки как домашнего кота Вас тоже никто гладить не будет ))
Thank you for the heads up, Elena! Hi Tom! I miss Tom like I miss a bad case of Poison Ivy! Do you have Poison Ivy in Slavic countries! If Tom is around, you do!!!!! ))))))))
Yes! Beetlejuice is the correct name to invoke! ))))))
Olga, how can we judge when we can't even understand the translator!? )))
Olga
very intresting question, Doug. But i'm don't know.
Victor behaive yourself like little children. He sad & not happy ((
Tatiana
Ви скучили за Томом?
Вам не подобається вся увага жінок до Вас одного?
Ок, я буду прохати Тома з"явитися на форумі. Чи не пожалкуєте потім? Бо Том уміє привабити увагу до себе)))
Irina
Я не поняла...
Ну раз про анекдоты вспомнил, то начинай нам ,пожалуйста, рассказывать анекдоты. Думаю после перевода мы тут все попадаем от смеха)))
Victor
Esta es la película.Hey yo puse el nombre en español... Tom,Tom,Tom...aparece!.Nada...no tendrá cobertura.
Victor
Victor
Se non pretendono di farsi sposare per me va bene. Lo dico prima. L'ho scritto anche sul profilo: io non mi sposo
I use cortinarius orellaneus to kill someone. One small mushroom. It works!
http://www.trenoinpartenza.altervista.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=76:cortinarius-orellanus-&catid=42:mortali-piu-comuni&Itemid=44
You know, Tom, we keep complaining about the translator; nobody seems to be able to understand what everyone is saying! Some weeks ago, I thought I understood Tatiana (42) from Kharkiv to say she wants to be a good, little, obedient girl! I did not believe that! Now it sounds like you said you are getting married! There must be some really bad problems with the translation; I know that cannot be possible!!! ))))
Tom! Do not eat the mushrooms! Getting married cannot possibly that bad!!! Much better than dying!!! You still have a long life ahead of you! Do not kill yourself just because you are getting married!!!! ))
Irina
))) То что Том собирается жениться и нам перевелось))) Но мы его не закидали вопросами и тапками))) оставили для вас)))
Victor
Casarse???..cierto,el traductor pone casarse.Una conversación un tanto extraña... Tom,¿Ya te han dado caza?.
Tatiana
Почему все волнуются?)))
Почему Том не может жениться?)))
Том - мужчина красивый, умный, честный, активный😉, свободный.
Что это Вы переживаете за Тома?
Разве вы тут компанией не хотите на свадьбе танцевать ?)))
)) А вдруг и правда получится - "За что боролся - на то и напоролся?" ))
Victor
No te preocupes Doug...descansa,disfruta.. Busca una americana cariñosa... O sangre latina... Y si vuelves... Que sea como Tom...enérgico.
P.S. no te fíes de lobas con piel de cordero
I need to find out a little more about this person he marries! He is marrying a woman, right!? )))
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