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Nicolas, 52 y.o.

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what is the best solution

in an hypotetical situation where an ukrainian ,belarussan or russian girl fall in love with me and me with her
did i learn russian because i have understand than russian lead to ukrainian and belarussan with differencies of course like between french,belgium,quebec,or,swiss, or did you think that the level of english of the young generation is enough,what is the flexibility for a person of these countries to learn a roman language like french here you can find in russian some informations about the level of language penetration,in fact belaruss and russia are bit better than ukraine and not far from france


https://www.ef.com/wwru/epi/


you'll see when i browse profiles of girls on the websites you have different levels weak good very good and fluent but what is good for a russian/ukrainian/belaruss speaker, i don't consider myself as fluent,but i read it very well,i'am not perfect at writing,and haven't speak since a long time ,in fact i used more english than french, i watch 99% of movies and tv shows in english with french subs,it's look like the translators don't understand the shorcuts,maybe is the same for people i don't know, i participate to a multicutural forum and its look like english is mastered,by all the westener europeans,and what about french in these countries is it mastered or not,it's looks like women are better than men,for myself even i have a school base i've learn english by myself and i'am much better now than in my early years and because i use the anglophone web at 80/90 % for sure this world dominance of english don't please to everybody but is better than nothing, but i have read than in a bicultural couple using english for example is tiring especially for eastern women,and can lead to break-up in some few cases,but i'am a very didactic guy for some few things and writen is one of them.


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David


I’ve been going mainly to Ukraine since 2016 and when I was dating a girl I decided to start to learn Russian for the reason it’s spoke all around Eastern Europe and in most Slavic country’s if they acknowledge it or otherwise understand you when you speak in Russian. It’s best to learn Russian first then learn the Ukrainian equivalent... вина is wine for example very simular to the Italian Russian word for wine... but when a western man makes that extra effort it puts smiles on faces!! By learning Ukrainian first it will both mixed you up and speaking to a Russian will think you’ve lost the plot,,, it’s important to know the difference allot of Ukrainian words there’s only a slight different sound or ending


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Hugo


Hello Nicolas.
My mother tongue is Spanish and I have worked for a long time in English speaking businesses and in a couple of English speaking countries.
I can speak Russian well enough for a casual conversation.
I however recognize that speaking with your partner in her language is a good thing, especially at first.
There is a certain level of stress when you are speaking in a foreign language. I felt this when I was working abroad for the first time. 20 years later the stress is gone.
So, yes, language is important.

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Nicolas, 52 y.o.

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yes but cyrilic is completly a deal breaker is like chinese or japanese or whatever,and could explain me why ,we, males have all the work to do,it's looks like eastern women who want meat western guys for whatever reasons,are not really motivated to learn how we are here on the west,for ex you and i are really close culturally if i told you, i don't know the red devils for ex you know what is it,but try to explain all our western cultural references to eastern girls is quite impossible they are way to out,to disconnected.or you need to explain step by step how we living here how we act,etc...very fastidious if they are not able to tilt,not my fault, it's the feeling that i have,i am not saying they are dumb,i am saying they are cut from the rest of europe,as you,maybe don't know ukraine is the cradle of europe,i'am interesting by genetic(dna) ,phenotypes,anthropology and cultural behaviours.

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Celtic origin. Every fifteenth Ukrainian carries a chromosome, which ties him with Scottish, Irish and English peoples. Celts were a very powerful civilization, which was able to colonize a half of the continent. The secret of their progress was simple – they were first who learned how to work iron. Celtic culture had a direct impact on Ukrainians, for example the famous haircut “mushroom cut” was one of the varieties of Celtic national hairstyles. By the way, long Cossack mustaches came from the Celts as well. Such traits as: fair or ginger hair, light color of eyes, long thin face, light skin tone (sometimes with freckles) are particular for Ukrainians with Celtic gene.
Scandinavian origin. Every sixth Ukrainian carries the Y-chromosome of Scandinavian or Finnish nations. Vikings came to Ukrainian lands as military elite for the personal guard of the princes and kings. And of course, they made a contribution not only into customs and culture, but also into the genetic stock of the whole Ukrainian nation. Scandinavian gene brought cold features, such as blond hair, straight nose, very light skin in Ukrainian appearance.
Trypillian origin. As the results of the study show, one in five Ukrainians carries the Trypillian gene. Trypillians are the earliest settled population on the territory of Ukraine. They settled there because they found the ideal ground for agriculture. They were farmers and were the first who planted wheat and buckwheat in Ukraine. Trypillians were representatives of the Mediterranean type of appearance. They were of a low stature, but well-shaped, thin-boned, with dark hair and dark eyes.
Aryan origin. More than half of Ukrainian study group carry the chromosome of Aryans. They were tall, broad-shouldered, with light skin and fair hair. At the time when Aryans lived on the present-day Ukrainian territory, the average annual temperature fell sharply by many degrees, which led to a severe climate (cold snap) and seriously affected the human population. There were only two places in Europe where Arian people could escape from the cold: Ukraine and the Iberian Peninsula.
So, some scientists believe that Ukraine is the cradle of the white race of the present civilization

Southern anthropological area
Lower Dnipro type: dark-haired women with cheerful nature
The inhabitants of southern regions, such as Odesa, Mykolaiv, Kherson, Zaporizhia are mostly dark-haired and dark-eyed with straight nose and oblong face.

They inherited their appearance from the Scythian-Sarmatian tribes and Turkish nomads (proto-Bulgarians). It is commonly believed that southern women are more cheerful, optimistic and have easy attitude to life. They received these traits due to their stable lifestyle by the sea and warm climate. Some psychologists state that such women are also witty and businesslike.
Central anthropological area
Fair-haired women with changeable nature
The greatest majority of Ukrainian ladies belongs to this type. They live in Kyiv, Cherkasy, Poltava, Sumy, Kharkiv, Kropyvnytsky and Dnipro regions.

Ukrainian women from central regions are usually of average height and have medium-sized face with small cheekbones and eyes, round head and fair hair. In some regions they are dark-haired with dark eyes.

From the ancient times the territory of Ukraine was the crossroads of trade routes, where blood was blended by various tribes and races, such as Trypillians, Iranians, Scythians, Greeks and local proto-Slavic tribes. That`s why the appearance of Ukrainian women from the central area has “average characteristic”.

Ukrainians from Central regions are usually controversial and have a great imagination and fantasy. Mood and health swings are also inherent to such ladies that is explained by flat territory with great opportunities and the lack of any barriers.
Danube type: individualists with European roots
Danube type Ukrainian

This subtype of central Ukrainians takes the second place by majority and represents such regions as Khmelnitsky, Vinnytsia and partly Ternopil. Characteristic features of such women are europeoid traits: long and narrow face, straight and thin nose, fair hair and dark eyes. Women inherited such traits from their ancient ancestors – Celtic and Thracian tribes.
The temper of Danube Ukrainians is changeable, headstrong and sometimes skeptical.
Northern anthropological area
Polessky and Volyn types: esthetes with medieval appearance

Polessky and Volyn type Ukrainian woman

The inhabitants of such regions as Kyiv (partly), Volyn, Rivne, Zhytomyr, Lviv and Ternopil (partly) have mostly fair hair, blue or grey eyes and medium height. They have an active life position and well-developed esthetic feeling. Such women are also emotional, dynamic, vigorous and sanguine.

Higher Dnipro type: nature lovers with rare eye colors
This anthropological type is very rare for Ukraine and can be met only on the north of Chernygiv region in Repkinsky district. Their distinctive features are very light eyes and hair, which are untypical for Ukrainians. Such women are quiet enough and cheerful. They are in harmony with nature, which is prosperous on the north of Ukraine.

Western anthropological area

Carpathian type: dark hair and harsh temper
Carpathian type Ukrainian

Carpathian Ukrainians can be met in Ivano-Frankivsk, Chernivtsi, Lviv, Ternopol regions. Their appearance differs from typical Ukrainian women: they are of short stature, have round-shaped head, narrow prolonged face, straight forehead and convex nose. Their hair and eyes color is very dark.

Scientists call Carpathian inhabitants “a bridge between Ukrainian people and ethnic groups from Central and Southern Europe”, for their external similarity with neighboring Balkan people.

Carpathian women are patient, cautious, persistent and strong in spirit. They have optimistic outlook on life, playful character and friendliness.
indeed i'am looking for a north westener/eastener with scandinavian physical traits and features,means white blond hairs,with different chromatic pigments,blue eyes,blondish red/reddish blond,redhead with blue eyes,with pale snow white ,alabaster skin ,very high cheekbones with a little snub nose,traits that you only find in specific dna haplogroups,other female physical features slender and busty to very busty,yes because we talking about women isn't it,see at the end of this post examples(northern german,danish,norwegian,russian,suomi,estonian,finnish blondes)
and i'am targeting:
estonia,latvia,lithuania,belaruss,finland,norway,sweden,denmark,iceland,republic of karelie,kalingrad territory,ukraine,russia from the western frontier to the oural mountains,the northern germany and the northern netherlands,mainly,so you'll see that i can't learn a specific language,i probably can learn german/dutch/danish/swedish,bokmal and fennic is a bit harder,the harder one is estonian and icelandic

is looks like it's working in one way,that we westerners need to do all the work but the women won't going on our way
you have also a kind of blockade,you will understand where i'am going, on a westerner dating website like tinder,meetic or others you are able to reach the women directly,but with russian,ukrainians,or even belarussan everything is not clear you need to pass by a third party asking you to pay for an hypothetical access to her,it's like they are behind a wall of people who want doing money on our back,because they think that all westeners are all millionaires like a rich texan,it's that image that disturbed me ,well entertained on purpose
i'am digging like an archeologist,filtering at the maximum with many criterias,and in my approach i have a non-negligible sexual and political view also that i don't really developped here because its take an entire book(maybe i need to write a book who knows)
i have allready explain some sexual aspects here corralated of my vision about an archaic view of the orthodox church and how she influence.
the main problem is for the eastern women especially, everything that i read is never come from her mouths but always from a third part who pretend knowing her better,sometimes i dig, trying to find real studies like from the ukrainian agency kiis(KYIV INTERNATIONAL
INSTITUTE of SOCIOLOGY)like this one but it's weak but interresting https://www.kiis.com.ua/?lang=eng&cat=reports&id=144&t=8&page=1
i really don't understand this leaden weight, to my eyes and in the particular case who interrested us,this lack of freedom is very worrying.
you'll see dear ladies from the east we are free here to says that we want and when we want,we don't live in the perpetual fear of to be judged;and i'am very tired of the clerical dictatorship,please let the people think by herself
any ideas?
biefly,I,i'am of the one who believe in the freedom of speech,released of all form of political or religious influences.

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Здравствуйте, Николас. Ваши исследования впечатляют. Вы исследуете только украинские типы внешности или еще и другие?

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Nicolas, 52 y.o.

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about what i desire and their different axis :
-physical
-sexual
-comportemental/behaviour
-sociological/political/cultural
-geographical
-anthopogical
-genetical

-physical : a female with high cheek bones with little snub nose,with nordic features,i'am interrested by 4 kind of phenotypes :
blue eyes for the 4,natural blonde with chromatic shades going from white to golden,chromatic blondish red,chromatic reddish blond,redhead pigments only natural,skin aspect i have a fetish for skin alabaster,snow white transluscent but it's mostly for the redheads and in rare cases for some blondes
i like them slender,well proportionated,well-toned , i like them busty to very busty with apple shape form
in average high range,with a body fat proportion of 25% more or less,but i'am a bit flexible it's depend
i like them steamy(see below the definition),fresh,healthy, and above all non high maintenance,but she could be sexy without excess

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-sexual : non sexually conservative means non prudish,uptight,non dictate by a religious dogma etc.... after for the rest it's our buisness


-comportemental/behaviour
as i'am a moderate extravert i'am looking for my contrary a decent moderate intravert,not necessary too shy or autist-like,someone near of my way of thinking
-sociological/political/cultural
an ethno-differencialist like me,but also progressive but with white preferences leaving aside all the racist prism someone who had take her distances with the traditionnal political environmnent and opposed to the school of frankfurt mostly ,things needs to be developped .someone who don't care about the pre-thinked by third parties,no more third parties.
-geographical : from iceland to oural,explaination : i'am restrictive on purpose maybe too restrictive, but the idea was to start from a core, to learn,to read etc...
-my tartgeted areas :iceland,norway,finland,republic of karelie,russia until oural,kalingrad territory,belaruss,ukraine,sweden,denmark,estonia, latvia,lithuania,northern germany,northern netherlands
-anthopological : phenotypes my range is going from :hallstat nordid,corded,tronder,faelid,brunn,keltic-nordid,north-atlandid,subnordid,borreby,baltid,west-baltid and alpinid because i'am
-genetical ,my first approach was to find someone carrying the blondness gene called kit legand (rs4590952)
comportemental/behaviour/sociological/political/cultural part 2 : the countries that i'am targeting have different point of view related to sexuality,religion, male-female relationships,male-female equality,roles,etc...is where it's the frog
-but i have the idea to find someone from a middle town saying between 20.000 to 10000,even from the countryside but connected to the modern world,(i live in a suburbian town of 28.000) not religious crazy ,i accept : christianism,taoism,boudhism,shintoism,paganism,but also atheism or a form of agnosticism
saying that i don't believe in the fayrytales of the monotheistic dogmas, but you have the right to believe, if you feel better like that i'am a defender of freedom ,freedom it's the most sacred thing that we have , no i'am not going on this path,afterlife,astral trip and tutti quanti because it's takes hours to argues and explain
comportemental/behaviour/sociological/political/cultural part 2 continued :
we have our free wheel it's not fixed but third parties institutions(political,religious,economical,etc..) want think at our place is no more possible
but i'am terrible to surround the female behaviour i confess,related to myself and to the dating process in a general manner,the girl that i'am looking for, need to be in an absolutly manner on the same line than me, i know my standards are quite specifics and i can't find that on basic dating websites, it's demand psychology,i'am quite enough demonstrative hope your are able to gave me good advices because is enough complicated like that.
this relation will be framed,only on a long-term trusty unique whole monoamory.

Steamy :is most often used as an adjective to describe the appearance of an individual. It can be a substitute word for 'hot', 'sexy', etc.
An individual who is steamy is often highly desirable, very good-looking/attractive, and normally has a great body. They also bring a 'steaminess' with them when they enter a room.
Being called steamy is often better than any other compliment one could receive (ie. hot, sexy, attractive, cute) Steamy people are a very rare breed. Being called steamy is something to be very proud and flattered about.

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Nicolas, 52 y.o.

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i need to edit some part because is a copy and paste than i have made but it's no more possible to edit or simply delete ,and i dont think that's really the right place,if people don't understand some parts i haven't to justified myself ok no more judgment, total freedom of the speech


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Yuliya

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Спасибо за ответ. Скажите, а как давно Вы поняли, что этот тип женщин Вам нравится? И сколько времени Вы готовы потратить на поиск? Если Вы не найдете этот тип женщин, Вы измените или будете корректировать свои предпочтения? Я понимаю - это личный вопрос. Но Вы достаточно публичны и откровенны в своих желаниях. Поэтому я спросила. Можете не отвечать, я пойму. Мне просто интересно сколько сил и времени человек может потратить на достижение своего желания  

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Nicolas, 52 y.o.

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i quote you and reply

Tell me, how long have You realized that this type of women You like?
since maybe 25 years or more but i had big troubles in my life and big gaps too
And how much time You are willing to spend on search?
i have start at the end of the last year,but i'am not really deeply searching but i had register on many websites,mostly in english but i had aslo a few websites in danish,norwegian,swedish,finnish,lithuanian,i understand a bit german,norwegian,danish/swedish but finnish and lithuanian, i need to translate,i collect intels there and there but i have very progress since some weeks,not in searching but in collecting intels
If You don't find this type of woman will You change or will you adjust your preferences?
changing not really because it's my goal adjusting what did you mean exactly ,adjusting my preferences ok but what kind of preferences?

I understand it's a personal question. But You are quite public and outspoken in their desires. That's why I asked. You can not answer, I understand. I just wonder how much time and effort people can spend on achieving your desires

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you'll see yullia i'am going to write an offline blog that's i'am going to published step by step probably on wordpress,why offline because i have BLUE GRIFFON(mozilla,like firefox) who is an WYSIWIG what i see it's what i get,editor,very simple to use,this blog as an extended/extension of my profile because they have many things than i can't explain in so less space.this blog will devided in parts and translated in languages of the countries that i'am targeting


the parts are more or less that i allready have explain,see the things like a spider(me),what the spider do she build a web and wait for her prays(women) by a didactic manner it's not me who are going on the sens of the women it's the women who going on my sens,if you want i give a canva but i also ready in close future to move on
first evaluating my situation i still haven't the big money i need(main part of my problems),second i have time at the point where i'am,one,two,three years don't change anything i live really alone since ten years but it will don't take 10 years not possible,but i need to be ready in an absolute manner,i don't want screw up everything,i have one shot it's no more possible at my age to screw up,i had allready screw up ten years ago,but in fact i'am an "old" young or young old, is why i like distance is a way to evaluate people also,but i have a main problem it's that the female behaviour of the countries that i'am targeting are very different
i why i need to find someone of my fiber,who is on the same page
if you want i give directives,tools and if you recognized you in this,in my reflection so we are made to meet up,match,approaching exchanging different point of view and if the girl don't understand that she don't worth it ,she is not made for me,i think communication it's the most important,i know that's a real challenge,and why now,because it's my time,i am projecting myself and i have allready lost ten years,in fact it's more is 25/30 years,it was like a kind of declic,i don't suffer really of loniless everyday,but i have my moments,
the main lack that i have sex of course, but also affection,and it's intricate,but i afford with it,but since some times i take the things like a philosopher,this week start my chinese year(pig of steel) a yin sign and the next cycle it's not for tomorrow, i need to find my yang ,but nothing is written on the stone.this is mostly for the big lines
don't hesitate


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Спасибо за ответ. Успехов Вам .





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