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Ridvan, 52 y.o.

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why..

I have decided. I will not contact people who have only 1 photo in their profile, who have not added their personal information, who write no more than 1 Sentence, 1 message a day. there are quite a few fake accounts. as the days progressed, I think that this site was useless.

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David

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3 x 25 year olds asked you fir a relationship of mutual interests... But your settings on relationship so this is highly unlikely what you been putting in your hookah??

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Ridvan, 52 y.o.

United Kingdom

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unhappily, there are people like you who are happy by making people unhappy... I hope the women you set up know you well before they're too unhappy.đŸ€”

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Ridvan, 52 y.o.

United Kingdom

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my expectations are high, but not impossible. 

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Ridvan, 52 y.o.

United Kingdom

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In my opinion, for the relationship to continue for many years, you need to be friends and comrade with your partner. in my opinion, that's why many marriages and relationships end.


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Ben

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I definitely agree about communication taking time, patience, effort (i.e. the willingness to understand and invest energy to understand) particularly when you disagree or have something else in mind. Good communication does not emerge overnight - it is built slowly and steadily. Some pick it up like a bamboo tree and start being active from the outset. Others are more reserved and 'get into gear' more slowly, like an oak tree. They grow slowly but strongly. The trick is to be able to adjust.


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Ben

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Can you do me a favour and teach the guy the phrase "unwanted attention" - it's spooky to see how much he texts me. He's texting more men than women, and strangely enough not a single woman interacts with him on the forum, I wonder why...  
What is a ridvan anyway? A van you need to get rid off? Sounds like a modern "hodor" to me - from " hold the door" to "rid off van"😂

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Ridvan, 52 y.o.

United Kingdom

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if you know how to google, you can seach at" RIDVAN.". 

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Ridvan, 52 y.o.

United Kingdom

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why you like your own messages..😂

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Ridvan, 52 y.o.

United Kingdom

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Ridvan meaning is the name of the angel who secured the gate of heaven..


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David

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Ben Forum these days is like one of them WWE royal rumbles you know the one every 3 minutes a forum star steps into the “deranged oblong” or “chat cage” 30 enter but only one is left standing at the end to be king or queen of the ring we have had such big names here over the years.. stage names Like The children’s favourite Hugo A.K.A the lollypop man... Edmonton Fruitcake... Siberian Grandad snatcher.. “Young sausage old wallet” so having a new stalker is nothing in comparison... we have bunny boilers who come here to find an attraction thats fatal with Michael Douglas then Marrying Kurt Douglas ... when people come in forum zoo for a read it says clearly “dont feed the animals” yet they come in with a fresh post but leave with one arm or leg missing! Your new friend seems to of come in to self advertise and wont take your advise.... same forum just a different day ... FORUM20 anyone found a vaccine 💉 yet ??? Im so embarrassed đŸ˜© coming in forum if i buy a new subscription i need to change names or location to distance myself from being here!! Abit like when you get in the ring you need to make sure your not smacked over the head with a steel chair by Eric the Undertaker!!!

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I understand were on DM Planet just cant decide what galaxy were in!

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Jonny, 47 y.o.

Canada

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I know your thinking that if your truly serious and looking for a relationship then you’d think people would put more effort into their profile. I thought the same was as well Ridvan and know where your coming from. I found the best responses I got from women on this site were ones who did put more time into their profile and took the time to read mine. But these days we live in such a fast paced world where technology has pretty much taking all of the hard work out of everything. Most people think it’s to much work or effort to do more to sell themselves. My profile was quite the information overload. I made it easy for anyone interested to get a pretty good idea what I was all about. Plus it made the conversations go way easier as I was pretty much an open book. It’s hard to get to know one another when someone doesn’t post a whole lot about themselves even if you can question them to get to know them better but you don’t want things also as to come off as an interrogation. Yes you do have to do a lot of digging to find some women who do take the time and energy to put more work into their profile. Some people though may have also just joined the site so they didn’t really have a whole lot of time to get all they want on there. It takes a bit to master your profile. I tweaked mine quite a lot.

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Some people are more closed off and private and that’s cool as well. Are they going to be as successful as someone more open. No. But that doesn’t mean they also may not meet anyone. There’s boundaries that everyone has and things reserved for relationships instead of letting it all out.

But I wouldn’t exclude all the people who may only have a bit written on their profile or just one picture here or there because when you first activate an account. It takes a bit to fill out and there maybe men or women who already responded to these people and gave net them on Skype or FaceTime and don’t use their profile as much. Best of luck


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Liya


Hi Ridvan) I would like to support You. It's easy to judge, but none of us are perfect. Angels have no place on earth). Never give up! Just let go of the situation, try to take it easier. I understand you very well. For three months of Dating, I had experience with more than two dozen scammers. But not on this site, on others. And if you can immediately recognize a fake, it's not bad, but great. It is much more painful to give away a part of the soul and then tear it out of the heart with blood. So there are positive aspects to your situation as well. Believe that somewhere on this Earth, there is a person for whom you will be the whole universe) It's just not time yet. I hope you to find your love and be happy!


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Jeremy

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Bro, i feel you about fake account...but there are worse like i just have from other website. A Scammer, asked for support on our first “official dating”, we haven’t met yet then when i said No! Another “incident” happened. Then you cannot call her phone because “she don’t know why” or “her tariff on phone” won’t allow her đŸ€Ł. I said incoming calls are “free”. I almost send money though. So beware, she do Skype and send you romantic letters then will ask for support. Be careful, she’s a member her a new one.

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Eric, 76 y.o.

Netherlands

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Jeremy ,

I'm not really sure if incoming calls are (completely) free.

I know that in the past in Europe making international calls with your mobile would start the roaming service.

In that case both the caller and the person who is called had to pay some fee (or service costs as the providers would call it)

These days the EU has standardized the costs for roaming for EU countries.

And I believe that you now pay per minute or per second of the call duration.
And only the caller will be billed.

But correct me if I'm wrong on some points.

So , it makes a difference from where you make the call ..

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