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Doug, 68 y.o.

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Request to repost a personal letter

I was asked to post this letter to the forum for each one of you ladies. This is a letter I wrote to one of your dear friends here on the site because I sensed she could use a kind word of encouragement. She requested I post this to the forum for you all. I have obviously changed a few details but if these words can be helpful to any of you, I am happy to do it:



You are each a very beautiful and unique woman. Please never make any apology for sending a wink or anything else to get the attention of one of us men. Any man should be grateful and feel privileged to receive any attention from you. I would like to share some things from my experiences here, if that may help you in any way.

I did not come here and immediately set the world on fire; I made many mistakes. To be honest, I did only one initial search and the ladies I discovered on that search were not the ones with whom I began corresponding. For the most part, I have written to girls who have contacted me, so do not be afraid to create a message you would like to convey to some man in an initial contact. (There is something special to a man when he is “discovered” by someone who notices him.)

Don’t be afraid to contact him first; the traditional role of women waiting to be contacted by the men is admirable, but not always practical. We men receive a lot of attention here and cannot always know to whom we should respond. Do not be afraid to contact him again if he does not notice the first time. (Ask him what is he waiting for!?) If he ignores your messages, this is no reflection on you, so never allow your self-esteem to be affected. Reject these thoughts! Hold your head up high! There are many fish in the sea. Have confidence in yourself and believe that he is the loser for not taking advantage of a great opportunity.

Please do not give up looking for a partner and never, never, ever lower your standards just to have someone. In my own life, I have discovered many things far more tragic than not being married. You deserve to be loved and respected. Each of you ladies is a prize; my only regret is that I can’t take you all home with me. You will be in my prayers to find that special someone who deserves you. May God richly bless you as you search...and thank you for taking an interest in me.

With warm regards,

Doug

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Tatiana

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Том, не сердись.
Том, ты хороший)
Том, давай дружить))


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Olga

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охххххххххххх! тяжела его судьбинушка  ))))

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Elena, 63 y.o.

Russia

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Tommaso, don't be angry with me. I don't have lied to you, it was another young lady...Well, I only made a mistake in the number of your contacts in Skype ,not 500, but - 576...and it's all my fault, but the rest of the truth))))..

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Elena, 63 y.o.

Russia

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Дамы, я шучу))))).....


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Tiana

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А и не надо ничего понимать - плыви по течению - оно как раз вынесет тебя туда куда надо .


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Tiana

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Цени себя , девочка! Свобода - вещь абстрактная ))


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Olga

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Мне эти разговоры за экологию напомнили один старый не политкорректый анекдот.

20 лет водил Моисей евреев по пустыне. Привел их на хорошее место и спросил:
- Евреи, нравится ли вам это место?
- Нет - ответили евреи - здесь грязно и воняет....
Еще 20 лет водил Моисей евреев по пустыне. Нашел другое место и спросил:
- Евреи, а это место вам нравится?
- Да, Моисей, нравится, здесь чисто и не воняет.
Вот с тех пор у арабов есть нефть, а у евреев чисто и не воняет.

P.S.Один мой друг, еврей по национальности, просто обожает этт анекдот.

This talk of ecology recalled an old not politically correct anecdote .

20 years, Moses led the Jews in the desert. Led them to a good place and asked,
- Jews, do you like this place?
- No - replied the Jews - is dirty and stinks ....
Even 20 years Moses led the Jews through the desert. Found another place and asked:
- Jews, do you like this place?
- Yes, Moses, this place liked, is clean and does not smell.

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Since then, the Arabs have oil, and the Jews have clean and does not smell.



P.S. One my friend , who is Jewish, just adore this anecdote.

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Alla, 54 y.o.

Russia

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Tommaso, письмо было адресовано для женщин, не для вас.)))) Интересно, почему письмо вас так взволновало?)))))

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Tommaso, 67 y.o.

Spain, Santa Cruz de Tenerife

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Non sono arrabbiato con nessuna. Io scherzo! ))))

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Tommaso, 67 y.o.

Spain, Santa Cruz de Tenerife

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Certamente. E' ottimo.

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Tommaso, 67 y.o.

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Dear Alla, I realized that it was addressed to women, but it is (...)! Especially if sent by a man on behalf of a woman!
What are you doing? For a man's hand advice on how to act mature women on the site? And then you do not specify the results that you would have achieved with the technique that advice! And most of all with whom and doing what! It is not true that one gets a result to be married to any one. Then you have to see which kind of life you do after your wedding!
So, you understand the trail is very large!! Maybe you can meet 10 men before to find the right one! It's not so easy and not all meetings are good! Maybe you feel good with one, but after you discover not all are flowers! Take care!


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Irina

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 )) Уже поплыла к какому то берегу...Интересно чем все закончится ))И будет как в моем сне выйду на чужом берегу...

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Doug, 68 y.o.

United States

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Tomasso, do you not have a pile of money somewhere that needs to be worshipped? You criticize all that is good and have not enough sense to know how silly you appear. Someone says some kind words to someone else to encourage them; you lash out in anger!? You criticize those whom you don’t even know because someone else said something nice to them, then you denigrate the person who received the kind words!?

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Tom, you would really appear much, much more intelligent if you just said some pleasant things from time to time, and you would be much more appreciated. I know you can do this; you have complemented me on occasion. Currently you are attacking everyone; do you not have any mirrors in that big old house of yours??? If you can’t say anything nice, would you be willing to simply be quiet and not say anything? Allow others be nice to each other without trying to make a mess. What is so difficult about that? So simple, even a cave man can do it! Please, my friend; lighten up and be pleasant. We all love you and want the best. You will always attract more girls with honey than vinegar.


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Tiana

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не боИсь - любой чужой берег своим быстро становится . Главное не переусердствуй .


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Tiana

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Doug! Скучно ,Тому . Вот он и критикует . Зато есть о чем поболтать))). Но в душе он добрый и мягкий , как теплый пластилин . Да любят его все здесь . Пусть немного по вредничает .

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Tommaso, 67 y.o.

Spain, Santa Cruz de Tenerife

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Doug eviti di scrivere assurdità ed io non gli risponderò!

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Tommaso, 67 y.o.

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E poi smettila di chiamarmi Tomasso! Tommaso, da San Tommaso D'Aquino. filosofo. Italiano. Thomas in inglese.
Non vuoli chiamarmi Tommaso? Allora chiamami Tom! Altrimenti inizio a chiamarti Dugo!  )))


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Irina

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 )) Да, ну как знать когда не переусердствуешь...Мы с тобой девушки сильные и что то мозги не хотят отключаться )) Наверное это хорошо, но так хочется расслабиться и просто плыть по течению с хорошим мужчиной и не думать сильно много...


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Nataliya


Нормальное письмо, нормальные советы, теплые, спасибо!!


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Tiana

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вот и расслабься и отключись и по-медитируй - мозги всё время держать в напряге вредно))). Релакс!!

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Doug, 68 y.o.

United States

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Tom, I will certainly answer to Dugo, Tom! Especially if you are buying the pizza!!!  )))) (Did not realize you wished not to be called Tomasso, Tom. This is not a problem, Tom. From now on, Tom, I will call you Tom. Ok, Tom!???  ))))

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Tommaso, 67 y.o.

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Ok Doug, Thank you very mutch!


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Irina

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 )) Ну наконец то пошел между вами двумя разговор о долгожданной пицце )) Мы все рады за вас обоих!
И пришел мир на Землю ))


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Tatiana

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та какая же Вы быстрая.)) О пицце - ни слова. Они наконец-то разобрались как кого зовут. Про пиццу речь пойдёт ещё через пару месяцев)))


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Irina

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Таня! Если помнишь, то разговор о пицце начался у них уже почти три месяца... )) Вот все ждут когда же у них состоится эта встреча с перекусом... )) Наверное к Новому году... )) может быть (только какого года?) )))

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Tommaso, 67 y.o.

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Io e Doug siamo diversi. Il fatto che io possa criticare Doug o lui me, non significa che non lo consideri un amico. Doug non è un mio concorrente qui su questo sito. Se a una donna piace Doug a questa donna io non posso interessare.... Le donne che cerca lui per me non vanno assolutamente bene, perchè avrebbero un modo di pensare opposto al mio..
Sempre pronto a ospitare Doug e a offrirgli la pizza


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Irina

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Да, вы оба разные. Но я лично уважаю вас обоих. Мне интересно читать мнения обоих вас . Иногда я смеюсь, вы меня оба веселите... Но я отношусь к вам обоим как хорошим мужчинам. Жаль что я не ваша женщина ... )), а вы не мои мужчины... )) Получилась бы гремучая смесь с неизвестно с какими последствиями... ))

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Doug, 68 y.o.

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Dittos to Tom. No, we are not in competition. What do I have to gain by beating Tom on anything? No big accomplishment; so simple a child can do it!  )))))

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Doug, 68 y.o.

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Tom, we should have our own TV show!!!!


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Marina

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Серьезные мужчины - это мужчины которые хотят серьезных отношений, а не писать: люблю,хочу,скучаю и игры в скайпе: покажи грудь, покажи ноги и больше ) Серьезные мужчины знают для сего пришли на сайт и будут пробовать строить серьезные отношения с серьезными женщинами. А не в возрасте 55-60-65-70 и больше искать девушку на 20-30-40 лет младше. Это не серьезные мужчины, а глупые. Если ко мне пристают молодые мужчины на 15-20 лет младше, я не строю с ними отношения, потому что понимаю , что они преследуют корыстные цели . Вот и все. Все просто

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