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Galina

In the discussion on the Вялое посещение моей страницы in the forum I seek advice . Number of comments: 405

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Мы слишком избирательны - это правда . Мы слишком требовательны к другим людям . Мы требовательны на столько , что порой теряем чувство меры , теряем реальное восприятие себя . Потому любовь проходит мимо нас . Мы просто не даём ей шанс . Поэтому молодым влюбляться гораздо проще . Они открыты для любви , у них нет списка требований к человеку . Они просто любят и наслаждаются друг другом . А мы , более старшие люди , смотрим на молодых и жалеем , что мы уже не молоды и не можем влюбиться и быть счастливы , как они . Но это реально . Надо просто быть более снисходительным к другим . И открыть своё сердце , а не открыть свой бесконечный список требований . Так же понятие красоты весьма нестабильно и у каждого свои понятия красоты . Так же красота бывает лишена харизмы : человек красив , привлекает своей внешностью . Но любви не вызывает .
Кому - то нравится Бред Питт . А мне всегда нравился Жан Рено , как эталон мужской красоты .Вы поспорите со мной ?


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David

In the discussion on the Странные мужчины из Америки. Не могу понять в чем подвох. in the forum I seek advice . Number of comments: 13


I am not sure why any man needs your address However! Your passport is a basic requirement unless the man intends to travel to Lviv to meet you! Unless im meeting a girl in her city i require her passport, a phone number, viber, and email address. Passport details are so man can provide transport and accommodation and understand who he’s meeting. If there’s going to be no meeting why chat? Often man is not interested in a different surname has long has pictures and other details match. I presume that some girls worry if they still carry married name still (which is often true) if the man looks like brad pitt and your in your 50s then be worried but if we talking normal man theres nothing to be worried about if conversation is normal for a few weeks and he wants your passport details for meeting.. asking for this randomly is strange


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David

In the discussion on the Вялое посещение моей страницы in the forum I seek advice . Number of comments: 405

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In the end, what do you want ? Near a loved one or partner with a particular set ? Everyone has potential to be a loved one BUT not everyone has the potential to be the right people in the required areas. Most important is a persons loyalty and personality and charisma but beauty plays a part. If beauty didnt play a part why do so many girls invest so much time and effort in themselves when from slavic country’s? In England its not to such a high standard. Its also not possible to message everyone with a view to a relationship so right or wrong we all tend to be very selective. This is human nature?


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Galina

In the discussion on the Вялое посещение моей страницы in the forum I seek advice . Number of comments: 405

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Потому люди годами сидят на сайте . Но в пожеланиях у них у всех : "хочу любить . Хочу любящую , понимающую , верную женщину ". Все хотят простых человеческих чувств ( счастье , быть любимым ) . Но тут же очень много требований к " просто любить " . Да , вероятно у всех свои понимания привлекательности противоположного пола , свои требования . Но можно ли ждать любви , чувств , если в нагрузку идут высокие требования ? В итоге что действительно хотим ? Рядом любимого человека или партнёра с определённым набором ?


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Matt

In the discussion on the Странные мужчины из Америки. Не могу понять в чем подвох. in the forum I seek advice . Number of comments: 13


From a mans perspective, he needs to be cautious. He might talk to 2 scammers for every 5 genuine women. This is a test to see if you are a scammer.

I would never ask for these details. You can usually tell a genuine woman by the way she communicates with you.


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David

In the discussion on the Вялое посещение моей страницы in the forum I seek advice . Number of comments: 405


Please try not take my head off with my reply however i can give the question a honest answer from a mans eyes. Ive not read all the responses however i can give you answers to the parts ive read... firstly (1) woman ask why she get full inbox from local dating site but not from international whats she doing wrong.. Answer nothing local man in any country most likely looking for sex,probably married, probably stingy or has no money and cannot offer a new life or to be a prince for a woman. He speaks same language but this is not the words of eternal love....
(2) women say i get a reply once every 3 days or twice every three years... this is due to beauty size requirements of man, location has a man without meaning to sound offensive to any woman the girl who says she gets 15 messages a day this is because visually she has potential to be a wife to a man i looked at her profile today & many many pictures none weak!

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(3) sadly most of us are attracted to the same looks and beauty and has a man if i date a woman who gets no messages shes willing to throw everything at me if i treat her like a princess she will be my wife, she will be my lover anything i want? and if at anytime i think shes not for me i will not get a good reaction. A woman who has normal looks the original writer of this post is normal woman in my country she would be considered beautiful and attractive however when man comes here he wants a wife or very serious relationship so wont message her if he thinks shes not the best woman or a full package, so the woman whos 15 messages a day will always be in demand (or woman at this standard) has a man if i look for a 15 letters or more a day type girl! i need to compete with sad old man or many men sending her gifts! Her going on 3 dates a day breakfast, dinner and tea.. have to be prepared to get the princess Anastasia to russia just for a time slot get the date right go through another 5 test dates then hope for Brad Pitt from America or Switzerland not to decide to inbox her! Everyone wants the best for themselves... nobody wants second best! Everyone wants Gold not even Silver or Bronze will do... so my answer to the author of this forum is theres nothing wrong with you or what your doing however if a girl gets many reply’s a day and has pictures of Cadillacs , American posters and trys to make pictures looking like American country and western music artist with pigtails in her hair or whatever this girl is on another level to you, has superior chances solely based on her beauty nothing else, and you cannot compete especially if your much older and not has slim too. Its just life! This is the real answer. Apologies to Alena and Marina... i try use examples of your situations has compassion i don’t mean this to be either complementary or offensive to either I’m just trying to explain the dating dynamics though allot of mens eyes but i don’t speak for all men!


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David

In the discussion on the Serious man or serious relationship? in the forum Men & women . Number of comments: 32

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Everything is good, was a good chapter in my life and no regrets. My boys and mother is ok and I’ve only a couple of months left in this membership with nothing jumping out at me telling me a princess is just around the corner so happy to give a few opinions here for the regulars to question in the traditional way we do it here in forum be it good 😆 bad   or indifferent  .

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Turgay, 65 y.o.

Turkey

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In the discussion on the Serious man or serious relationship? in the forum Men & women . Number of comments: 32

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You think SO ?


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Billy

In the discussion on the Serious man or serious relationship? in the forum Men & women . Number of comments: 32

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It is good and bad to see ya here David, I was hoping your absence was caused by having found the right woman out there...but you're back so I'll just have to settle for knowing I got a friend and another sane voice back in here   Hope you've been well, and that your son is doing well.

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Marina, 46 y.o.

Russia

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In the discussion on the Вялое посещение моей страницы in the forum I seek advice . Number of comments: 405

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Без понятия что произходило на сайтах знакомств 20 лет назад 😊  вам виднее.. Надеюсь мое пребывание не затянется здесь на веки вечные))) Но я действительно была удивлена что многие женщины не получают совершенно никаких писем от мужчин, или получают но слишком мало. Что касается турецких мужчин, я очень очень рада что обделена их вниманием)


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Mb

In the discussion on the Вялое посещение моей страницы in the forum I seek advice . Number of comments: 405

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First. It 's a shame that's such poor topic have such sucess ( that is so numerous" replies.)
Second , i'm quoting the Lady i'm quoting : "men of good countries. England, Norway, France, Denmark. Strange but the Turks probably write mostly for them, " is really meaningfull.
This is at the end a pure goods services market, with of course an informationnal asymetry. I' m going to have as much fun as in the very dating sites back to 20 years .ago.

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Oksana, 51 y.o.

Belarus

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In the discussion on the Счастье есть. Россия-Франция. in the forum Our happy couples and happy wishes . Number of comments: 19


Светлана , я тоже присоединяюсь к поздравлениям !!! Это так здорово, что кто-то находит свое счастье ! Любви Вам и взаимопонимания ! Берегите друг друга !

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Orhan, 64 y.o.

Turkey

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In the discussion on the Развод в Турции in the forum I seek advice . Number of comments: 2


Merhaba Evlenme Türkiyede gerçekleşti ise türk yasalarına göre bu Boşanma için dava açması gerekli. ayni zamanda eski kocasının bir geliri ve ya mal varlığı varsa ondan nafaka isteyebilir. Tabii kendine bu işleri yapacak bir avukat ta bulmalı.


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Violetta

In the discussion on the Цитата in the forum Men & women . Number of comments: 3

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Благодарю! 

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Tayana, 61 y.o.

Russia

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In the discussion on the Счастье есть. Россия-Франция. in the forum Our happy couples and happy wishes . Number of comments: 19


И я спешу поздравить вас. Уважаемая Светлана! Мечты сбываются! Любви и счастья вашей паре!

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Mb

In the discussion on the Greece my love forever in the forum Travelling . Number of comments: 2


I'm still seeking , from time to time, a definitive way to live "remotely" , that is far away from economic centers, only to be able to live in a true mediterranean way . I.m personnaly not seeing the sea and beaches there, I see a full and true world, the deep roots real world, appeared before any other and still there recalling us what we lost.


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Svetlana

In the discussion on the "Blonde and snow cliche" in the forum Gentlemen's club . Number of comments: 62

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I am mixed Polish-German-Italian-Spaniards. I was native blonde in my youth and now have silver hair. I never color my hair.
4 my grandkids are blonde and only one girl have dark brown hair.
I am working with some persons from Russia. They are natural blonde. My classmates from Russia were blonde, too especially from Northern Russia.
My present husband is blonde as his parents, grandparents, brother and sisters.
So I don't understand the sense of question. Blonde isn't fashion...or to be similar ideals. Slavic, German, Scandinavian people are natural blonde.
But one more point : blonde or silver in reality?I install one picture with my natural hair now. How can you name it by picture: blonde or silver?

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Tatyana, 46 y.o.

Russia

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Пенсионеры в поисках утраченного))))) пишет от нечего делать. Сплошной плагиат. Половину написанного сам, наверное, смысла не понимает))))))


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Inessa

In the discussion on the Цитата in the forum Men & women . Number of comments: 3


Удачи Вам, Виолетта и любви !


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Nata

In the discussion on the Счастье есть. Россия-Франция. in the forum Our happy couples and happy wishes . Number of comments: 19


Поздравляю вашу семью! Любви вам!
Нет ничего невозможного в этой жизни 


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Olga

In the discussion on the Счастье есть. Россия-Франция. in the forum Our happy couples and happy wishes . Number of comments: 19


Самые наилучшие пожелания!

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Tatiana, 47 y.o.

Italy

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Светлана, от всей души поздравляю вас! Желаю счастья, любви и терпения на каждый день!!!

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Tatyana, 48 y.o.

Ukraine

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От всех, кто еще в пути к своему счастью, сердечно поздравляю! Любви и мира еще одной интернациональной семье 

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Natalia, 54 y.o.

Belarus

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Светлана примите мои поздравления! Будьте счастливы!

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Liudmila, 54 y.o.

Germany

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Мои поздравления! Счастья и долгих лет вместе!

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Lilija, 53 y.o.

Germany

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Какая хорошая новость! Светлана, поздравляю вас! Счастья вашей семье!

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Oksana, 50 y.o.

Ukraine

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От всей души поздравляю!

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Iryna, 69 y.o.

Ukraine

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In the discussion on the Счастье есть. Россия-Франция. in the forum Our happy couples and happy wishes . Number of comments: 19


Поздравляю!! Как важно, чтобы люди находили друг друга, находили половинку! Вы нашли! Желаю крепкой, верной, всепобеждающей любви, но и не меньше терпения и смирения! Понимайте друг друга, прощайте друг другу, учитесь быть вместе с радостью в сердце! Приятных вам долгих дней, цветных будней, ярких выходных и праздников!


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David

In the discussion on the Serious man or serious relationship? in the forum Men & women . Number of comments: 32


Serious meaning is always overlooked the true meaning of a serious man is a man who acts or speaks sincerely and in earnest, rather than in a joking or half-hearted manner. However what I’ve found with slavic women is you need to combine serious with the other word they often use “strong man” what is a strong man? its a man who don’t get dictated to by a woman! a man who has the trousers in a relationship. Best working example is man meets woman on dating website, woman says to man i know a good restaurant now if man agrees to the woman’s request straight away often the woman will find the most $hit restaurant with over dressed micro food best way to deal with this is be a strong man and say to the woman with great respect ive been there but i know a better restaurant a man needs to keep control at all times... the actual meeting if a woman wants to meet you! if your paying the travel expenses its on your terms if she not like it theres other women. Women cant walk all over you... so this is serious and strong man! Ive diverted from the actual post but agree mainly what Billy has wrote in the fact that you have justified why you have no shirt on. However you have now put a shirt on which i find “interesting” interesting because don’t be dictated to by a woman but at same time it was actually good advise but the advise started out for the wider audience not you in my opinion! i agree with the girls that from a commercial dating aspect that profile picture semi nude will cut your audience by 50% due to the fact to most slavic women shirtless man = lack of dignity! Has you showing the whole internet your chest. You cant say its double standards because over 50% of the girls show no flesh on public pictures you can only call out the ones that do and do you want to lose the 50% + of the girls who don’t show flesh so yes its best removed.. my two responses to this post are 1... best humour I’ve read here in a long time 2.... you have showcased your personality well.. direct message women the forum is made up of over 50% of “damaged women” 3... it was only a matter of time before “character assassination” would take place on you when i seen the half nude profile picture i known it would only be a matter of time before it was used has propaganda against you it was never a question of your superb forum post being sidetracked and your profile being scrutinised. it was just a question of who and when someone would change the subject from which serious man? to the fact your not serious because of your naked chest its actually very cynical twisted and childish however typical forum and before you posted your article i known the reply’s you’d get ive not posted anything in forum for a year because it gets unwanted attention and i spent the summer in a relationship hence i didn’t want the negative publicity forum creates most the time. Nice to see Billy here honest and sincere has always too! Reply to your actual post i put has below

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1... i can see Stalin has the Babushkas choice if your target woman is over 50 and Russian she will choose Stalin out of Soviet Nostalgia! However if the women is under 50 and from Ukraine she would choose the author has its more likely Stalin would send her to cold Siberia than sunny Istanbul ;-)


2.. Hitler this is the choice of the girls from ukraine or Siberia due to cold in Siberia or corruption in ukraine the girls could convince Hitler that killing people by gas is not such a good business idea and hes not got much chance against Zhukov anyway! To chose Hitler would of long term made a Ukrainian girl a oligarch princess and has a couple you could of been competitors to Gazprom!
3.. Erdogan this is the 5000/1 shot at the betting shop... when he met Putin, Putin famously got asked by him will he buy him a ice-cream Putin replys of course i will your my guest.. however within 10 seconds he has eliminated himself from this competition has whats the chances of getting a wedding ring off a bloke whos too greedy to buy ice-cream “greedy man”
4.. Steve Jobs this is the choice of the serial dater woman very handy to be married to Steve Jobs... if a man you meet off the internet buys you a Iphone and you accidentally crack the screen Steve is the man to fix it without the internet date knowing about the husband or Steve knowing about the man ;-)
5...being a seller on Ebay it be unprofessional of me to comment about a Amazon owner.. however i see him has a quick divorce has some Amazon items need sending back because there broken faulty or not fit for use

Runners and riders
Steve jobs 2/5
Jeff 6/5
Hitler 5/1
Stalin 8/1
Erdogan 5000/1

Winner gets a wife wife gets a iphone! Second gets some crap off Amazon 3rd prize a villa in Poland where even the animals don’t go! 4th holiday in a gulag in Siberia 5. Ive cream in Bodrum but only if the girls pay  


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Olga

In the discussion on the Кто пишет первым in the forum Ladies only . Number of comments: 21

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Раньше была такая опция: дата регистрации, сейчас нет. На других сайтах ещё встречается.





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