Gentlemen's club
motivation
Be RESPONSIBLE for the PRESENCE that you CREATE Always aim to have a POSITIVE impact on the people that surround you ~ Take a second before you enter anywhere that you will encounter others and decide to bring only FAVORABLE energy It feels so much better to leave a room knowing that you’ve left your company in a BETTER state than when you arrived POSITIVITY and smiles are CONTAGIOUS if you carry enough of the "FEEL-GOOD" germ ~ SPREAD it wherever you go, leaving behind symptoms of UPLIFTED spirits, SMILES and JOY Start a "WELL-BEING" epidemic by deciding to infect others with your ENERGY…We don’t need a VACCINE for VIGOR!
motivation
An Email this morning am bored, confused & going 'I don't know where'. What should I do ?? Can't bear all this anymore. Want to do something very big in Life. Please answer me !
OK! This is my Answer I don't have the Answer. However I can tell u the method how u may find the direction to your answer 1) Add physical fitness to your life . 60 mins daily burnout for 6 months (without even a single day of break)
2) Identify 10 books to be read and read them in next 6 months. One has to be "Autobiography of a Yogi"
3) Meet 10 successful people from different fields and inner view them
4) Avoid relationship chutzpah for next 6 months
5) Do your current job with 100% focus with absolute intention to excel in it for next 6 months
6) Don't say u r confused to anyone including yourself for next 6 months
Answer will come before 6 months. ..
May the force be with you ,
motivation
A school principal in Singapore sent this letter to the parents before the exams..... and yes ! You are going to love reading & sharing THIS one !
Dear parents,
The exams of your children will start soon. I know you are all really anxious for your child to do well.
But please do remember amongst the students who will be sitting for the exams...
There is an artist,who doesn't need to understand maths...
There is an entrepreneur, who doesn't care about History or English literature...
There is a musician, whose chemistry marks won't matter...
There is an athlete, whose physical fitness is more important than physics...
If your child does get top mark's, that's Great...!
But if he or she doesn't...
Please don't take away their self-confidence and dignity from them...
Tell them it's Okay...
It's just an exam, they are cut out for much bigger things in life...
Please do this and when you do, watch your children conquer the world...
One exam or low marks won't take away their dreams and talent...
And please do not think Doctors and Engineers are the only happy people in the World...
With warm regards,
The Principal
motivation
The Secret to Success "You might have more talent than me, you might be smarter than me, you might be sexier than me, you might be all of those things you got it on me in nine categories. But if we get on the treadmill together, there are two things: You're getting off first, or I'm going to die. It's really that simple, right?"
Lesson to learn: Someone else may be better than you in some ways, perhaps because they are naturally gifted, but perseverance and hard work can always win out over talent.
motivation
Almost everyone around you is involved in petty gossips.
How can you make a statement to the world if you also gossip? Leave gossip for weak people. Strong people do not say anything about which they are not 200% sure.
People discuss / criticize / talk too much about other people; maybe because they just cannot be HEROES themselves – so they find / create VILLAINS around.
Don't create VILLAINS. Don't be a cheap gossip monger!
Ben
A poetic time
It is sad and unfortunate that the immense art and value of poetical language has been drowned in a sea of acronyms, abbreviations and technical language.
LOVE is just about the longest living topic to be discussed among humans, so here is one of my favourite poems:
"O Tell Me The Truth About Love"
Some say love's a little boy,
And some say it's a bird,
Some say it makes the world go round,
Some say that's absurd,
And when I asked the man next door,
Who looked as if he knew,
His wife got very cross indeed,
And said it wouldn't do.
Does it look like a pair of pyjamas,
Or the ham in a temperance hotel?
Does its odour remind one of llamas,
Or has it a comforting smell?
Is it prickly to touch as a hedge is,
Or soft as eiderdown fluff?
Is it sharp or quite smooth at the edges?
O tell me the truth about love.
Our history books refer to it
In cryptic little notes,
It's quite a common topic on
The Transatlantic boats;
I've found the subject mentioned in
Accounts of suicides,
And even seen it scribbled on
The backs of railway guides.
Does it howl like a hungry Alsatian,
Or boom like a military band?
Could one give a first-rate imitation
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On a saw or a Steinway Grand?
Is its singing at parties a riot?
Does it only like Classical stuff?
Will it stop when one wants to be quiet?
O tell me the truth about love.
I looked inside the summer-house;
It wasn't even there;
I tried the Thames at Maidenhead,
And Brighton's bracing air.
I don't know what the blackbird sang,
Or what the tulip said;
But it wasn't in the chicken-run,
Or underneath the bed.
Can it pull extraordinary faces?
Is it usually sick on a swing?
Does it spend all its time at the races,
or fiddling with pieces of string?
Has it views of its own about money?
Does it think Patriotism enough?
Are its stories vulgar but funny?
O tell me the truth about love.
When it comes, will it come without warning
Just as I'm picking my nose?
Will it knock on my door in the morning,
Or tread in the bus on my toes?
Will it come like a change in the weather?
Will its greeting be courteous or rough?
Will it alter my life altogether?
O tell me the truth about love.
W. H. Auden
I wish you all a great start into the week!
motivation
A tourist from the United States visited the famous Indian Yogi. He was astonished to see that the Yogi's home was only a simple room filled with books. The only furniture was a Mat and a Kerosene Lantern.
"Yogi ji, where is your furniture?" asked the tourist.
"Where is yours?" replied Yogi.
"Mine? But I'm only a visitor here."
"So am I," said the Yogi.!!
Lesson One very small Life ! Travel Light smile emoticon .
The issues on your mind just could be unnecessary baggages . Drop them & Fly !!
motivation
Become BAD Once If Staying GOOD Always Is Not Helping You
Here’s my singular most ‘people learning’ of 2016 You tried to very genuinely help someone so many many times… and that too at the cost of your own health, peace & most importantly TIME. The more you helped; the more you lost your own self. Got misunderstood as well most of the times.
If your help could not help him / her; THEN it will not help in the future times as well…
So! The worst YOU can do is to carry on behaving as in past. And the best you can do is to NOT TRY to take control of others and let things BE.
YOU take control of yourself. And focus on your damn life. Too much to do in here … Isn’t it ?
They might find you shirking and might call you BAD. Become BAD to them once & forever than getting dissolved every single time (by becoming GOOD). Becoming BAD doesn’t mean doing bad to them. It means they will automatically start calling you BAD as they will now be missing your attention (having gotten used to it).
Applies to the closest relations in your life. A knife even if made of Gold can’t be kept closer to heart.
People can be severely thankless at times & keep on expecting you to be always there discharging your sense of responsibility (especially in families).
If you are emotionally competent enough to stay disconnected from their drama; yes! please keep on helping them. But if you are getting affected & rubbed and that also too very often- take a bold decision. For your very own people could be your biggest time & energy vampires & could suck you dry if you keep on letting them.
Be bold. Buy out peace by taking this ONE DECISION.
GUILT never BUILT anything. One Life!!
motivation
What is Success?
*At the age of 4 years ...* *Success is.....*
That you do not urinate in your pants,
*At the age of 8 years ...* *Success is.....*
To know the way back home.
*At the age of 12 years,* *success is........*
To have friends.
*At the age of 18 years,* *success is.......*
To get a driver's license.
*At the age of 23 years,* *success is.......*
To graduate from a university.
*At the age of 25 years,* *success is........*
To get a job
*At the age of 30 years,* *success is........*
To be a family Man.
*At the age of 35 years,* *success is........*
To make money.
*At the age of 45 years,* *success is.......*
To maintain the appearance of a young man.
*At the age of 50 years,* *success is.......*
To provide good education for your children.
*At the age of 55 years,* *success is...*
To still be able to perform your duties well.
*At the age of 60 years,* *success......*
To still be able to keep driving license
*At the age of 65 years,* *success is.......*
To live without disease.
*At the age of 70 years,* *success is........*
not to be a burden on any one.
*At the age of 75 years,* *success is........*
To have old friends.
*At the age of 80 years,* *success is.......*
To know the way back home.
*At the age of 85 years,* *success is.......*
That not to urinate in your pants again.
One of the best messages I have ever read.
Life is a Cycle!!!!
motivation
It was one seemingly ordinary day when I decided to QUIT… All of a sudden I made a decision to quit my job, my relationship and finally my spirituality. I just wanted to quit my life.
But before that, I went to the wood to have one last talk with God.
I started: “God, can you give me one good reason not to quit?”
His answer really surprised me: “Look around”, He said. “Do you see the fern and the bamboo?”
I replied: “Yes. When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them. I gave them light. I gave them water. The fern quickly grew from the earth.
Its brilliant green covered the floor. Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. In the second year the Fern grew more vibrant and plentiful.
But still, nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo.
He said: “In year three there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But I would not quit. In year four, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed. I would not quit.”
“Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth.
Compared to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant…But just 6 months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall.
It had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle.”
After that, He asked me: “Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots. I would not quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you.”
“Don’t compare yourself to others.” He added. ”The bamboo had a different Purpose than the fern. Yet they both make the forest beautiful.” God said to me: “Your time will come”
“You will rise high”.
I asked: “How high should I rise?”
“How high will the bamboo rise?” He also asked.
I was confused: “As high as it can?”
”Yes.” He said, “Give Me glory by rising as high as you can.”
After this conversation I left the forest and I wrote this amazing story. I really hope that these words can help you to see that God will never give up on you.
You should Never, Never, Never, Give up.
Don’t tell the Lord how big the problem is, tell the problem how great the Lord is!
motivation
Life is not about doing 20 things lousily but about doing those 3-4 things very well; as the remaining 16-17 things are usually nothing but JUNK attractions. In fact a lot of stuff around is JUNK. The trick is to simplify & progressively reduce your JUNK consumption & eventually become so discerning that you begin to ‘Bunk the Junk’. Only then will your thoughts gradually become practical & objective instead of irrational, dramatic & subjective. It will be then that the REAL growth will come (Personally experienced).
Motivation
Why is it that a lot of people achieve so much in their lives while the rest remain onlookers?
I believe the reasons are 1. Top achievers TRAVEL LIGHT!
They don’t focus their energies on over-emotional issues or hold grudges against people. Most of us get upset or over-react when the things don’t turn out the way we have planned.
Accept that people are different and have a right to disagree with you!
2. Top achievers don’t hold PEOPLE CRUTCHES.
Most of us waste our time on pleasing people. We get upset when somebody holds a bad opinion of us.
Remember, Opinions are transient and do not matter in the long run.
So, kick the drama and upgrade your life!
One life! Rise and Shine!
Someone once said “If you want something very, very badly, let it go free. If it comes back to you, it's yours forever. If it doesn't, it was never yours to begin with.”
Someone once said “If you want something very, very badly, let it go free. If it comes back to you, it's yours forever. If it doesn't, it was never yours to begin with.”
Why a Russian woman want to get married with a foreigner, I mean a Latino man?
I have read some information about this topic before. But I would like to know some more information, mainly because it is necessary to know more about a different culture than mine, since I'm a Latin and I am very interested about Russian culture, but not only from the official perspective but from the people who lives its culture every day.
Thank you in advance.
Salvador
Teoría de Juegos en las Relaciones por Internet
Habiendo reflexionado en las relaciones virtuales, he observado que el éxito ó fracaso de estas relaciones tienen que ver con las leyes de oferta y demanda, que existe en nuestro entorno tanto en la selección natural ( búsqueda de parejas, reproducción) como en los negocios.
Observo que los perfiles deben ofertar las características de quien se promociona bajo los siguientes conceptos:
Imagen ( entre más atractivo físicamente, tiene un alto valor de atracción)
Personalidad, que puede ser unas cuantas lineas descriptivas ó una completa descripción de la persona que se promociona.
Gustos Personales, con los hobbys y entretenimientos que nos interesan y disfrutamos.
Lo que nos atrae en la persona idónea, sus características raciales, edad, educación, finanzas.
Nuestros anhelos de crecimiento personal como en pareja.
`El cómo visualizamos a nosotros mismos y como nos ven las personas que nos rodean.
Entonces, el juego consiste en encontrar una sintoniza entre nuestros ideales y nuestras realidades, con los posibles participantes en el juego.
Deben existir o acordarse reglas para no sentir una pérdida de tiempo y esfuerzo,
Suerte a todos y espero que sea esta reflexión de utilidad...
Introducing Your's truly
Warm greetings, Gentlemen, and also the ladies in this subtopic.
I want to take the opportunity to mingle here a little bit. I would start my introducing myself, and then ask a few questions.
[Warning : long post- you might get bored and bitter while reading this. So if you feel that I have been talking too much, or any negative emotion (towards me), I am sorry for your experience. I still wish to present myself in a clear way, Gentleman to Gentleman. Should this offend anyone, then please, you are probably interpreting this in a wrong way.]
Background
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I am a male of the Human species, 26 year old, almost 27 in a few days. I am ethnically Indian, but I grew up in England and India, and I studied, live and work in Germany.
The reason I am here
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I am opening a can of worms here.
=> First a little bit of how I got here. During my studies, I decided to learn the Russian language at least for reading, so that I could read mathematical monographs from Russia. At that time, I noticed that Russian life's outlook is slightly different than the western one. That raised my curiosity.
Later, I have my own company now, and the second owner of the company is from Croatia. We operate business in various countries in Europe, including Ukraine. So I was able to experience the Slavic culture first hand, albeit for a very short time. I am aware, that the Ukrainian culture probably does not represent the entire spectrum of Slavic culture, but it's been a good experience.
This is why I got interested in Russian / Slavic people, finally leading me here.
=> the reasons I'm not charmed in Germany : (Disclaimer : this section is my own *personal* experience, and does not represent Germany as a whole) You see, so far, I have had been the designated Nerd. Some ladies who knew me even affectionately gave me the nickname "Sheldon" from Big Bang Theory - others who didn't know me, gave me the name "Rajesh" . As the designated nerd, I was never reciprocated, in fact scolded on my advances. Fast forward a few years, and now I have my own Company, multinational B2B business, money and status. And lo - all the ladies, who so far were never interested in me, suddenly are dying to see me.
I am not charmed.
I do not plan to play the role of a provider to a woman who so far didn't care. I am aware, that the elderly generation will eat me alive for saying this. But regardless of the mother or the grandmother advising the woman to settle down with a provider, and the man to strive to become a provider - I am still not charmed. I first want to be loved, for my mind, my brain, my body, and my way of life. Then I can bring in the bank and birth in it.
Besides that, as an Indian immigrant, romantic life in Germany is crappy. Either people think you are a software nerd (I am not. I am a aerospace nerd ) or you are a rapist or you are a terrorist.
Even funnier is that the men accept me as the leader of a group, but women start shouting "We don't need a leader, we definitely don't need a male leader, and even if we do, we don't need an immigrant male leader". This really happened.
As for being a rapist, I, well, don't wanna make a comment.
As for being a terrorist : I fell in love with an Italian, she was okey with me, then suddenly she **suddenly remembered** (ähm, ahem, ahem) that she was married to a Pakistani who was using her to stay in Europe to avoid terrorist charges in his country.
Yes, all these reactions are pretty entertaining to me, but this is not sustainable in a relationship.
=> Reasons I am not signing up for an Indian dating site : Chicks of India that I came across so far are too conservative, and by that I mean in terms of outlook to life, and ability to take risks in life. I am a scientist and a businessman - so certain amount of risk taking and dealing with resulting hardship is part of my life. But Indian and west European chicks alike don't appreciate this. Not to mention that you have to deal with their elders, and their expectations .... I am not interested in marrying the closed minded family of a less, but closed minded chick.
So, so far I'm pretty dry.
What I am looking for here :
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Long term relationship, that can withstand the stresses arising from my kind of work. By that I don't mean that I am going to put the woman aside, and ignore her for my work. I want a woman to stick to me and travel with me all around the world. However working and travelling all around the world means sometimes it will be less than a 7 star vacation, and that will create considerable physical and mental stress (trust me).
I want to have a long term relationship with a woman who isn't just looking for a provider, or isn't agreeing to settle down for me 'cause she's an adult now and "have different demands", who doesn't disqualify me as a romantic partner just because of my nerdiness, and isn't interested in me "because so far she's been interested in other kind of men and now experience taught her to like people like me" - no thanks, not charmed.
I am looking for a woman who is in the same wavelength with me, in terms of that she's hungry for passion as much as I am. Someone who didn't waste her youth lurking around in the shadows, but hopefully achieved something in life, so that the upcoming midlife crisis will not be an issue for her.
I want a woman who realizes life is short, so there should be a lot of romance, and memories worth making.
That is pretty much all what I care. Religion, hair color, etc irrelevant.
If that is possible, then down the road, marriage and children are thinkable.
Now, shipmates, here's my question to you :
* What is your experience on this site so far? Is this a site where it is possible to meet a diverse array of ladies to find out who resonates with me? Or is this a site full of people who wishes to get married to a rich provider?
* Does anyone know, how do I search for the lady's preference(s)? Not mine, but hers? That is, is there a way, to search for ladies whose desired age matches mine, desired "ethnicity" matches mine, and filter the rest? Or do I have to check them one by one?
Besides that, I thank you for reading this and have a nice weekend Madams and Sirs !
Salvador
The female brain
Hey fellows, did you have read the book about the female brain?
If not, pity....
If yes, congratulations.
I did it and I understood many REAL facts (even my dear and beloved daughter and explained what she feels and senses).
Women, the most delicate and really amazing gift that god / nature give to us....
Treat them as they really deserves...
Women !!!
Salvador
Find the way to live in Russia
Hello! In my last trip to Moscow and saint Petersburg with my very dear friend and business partner, I had the question why not me live in Russia.
After some reflexions and the touring of saint Petersburg city, I found a way to do it.
Me get into the university polytechnic of Saint Petersburg with Russian language, master degree and even PhD on Computer automation.
I have been two times at Russia and people are great with me, even I run sociological test at both cities and I choose Saint Petersburg to live for at least 5/8 years.
The question is about to find a property to buy and live there.
Is it possible for me as a foreigner student?
Thanks!!
Salvador
Thorsten
Wie geht es richtig ...
Ich denke wir sind alle erwachsen und wissen was wir wollen.
Jeder sollte merken wenn er mit einem Fake schreibt,
was eine kranke Mutter, Oma hat und nur Geld zum Leben möchte.
Nach einem Tag, sagt ich liebe Dich, Geld für den Reisepass, das Visum, den Flug und alles andere braucht.
Die nehmen Dich als Goldesel ..., Fake.
Dann noch das doppelte wie es über Deinen Freund Google, in Wirklichheit kostet!
Es ist in Wirklichkeit sehr einfach wenn man auf dieser Internetseite eine Frau sucht.
Registrieren 2 Wochen einfach nur guken.
1 Monat einen Acount kaufen und schreiben und schreibe,
die Frauen, die einem gefallen anschreiben.
Dann E Mail benutzen um keine weiteren Kosten zu haben.
Dann schnell auf Skype und Webcam wechseln ... möglichst täglich um viel vom Tagesablauf zu erfahren.
Wer WhatsApp hat das zu Shype benutzen, baut vertrauen auf, man erfährt viel mehr.
Man sollte selber immer ehrlich sein, das wollen was man sagt oder schreibt.
Denkt alle drüber nach, verhaltet euch bitte so.
Das macht es für alle viel einfacher!
Mein bester Freund hat mir das genau so erzählt und das klappt.
Der ist seit langem über diese Seite mit einer Ukrainerin glücklich verheiratet.
Euer Thorsten
David
Diferencias lingüísticas
Me gustaría saber como vencen la barrera del idioma los hombres que no hablan en ruso con mujeres que solo hablan ruso.
Me apoyo en el traductor pero no siempre traduce correctamente y esto me desespera.
¿Creen ustedes que se puede tener éxito sin ruso o ingles?
Gracias
Yavuz
русские женщины..
Российские женщины становятся все западнее. 10 лет назад все было по-другому. Это давало уверенность, гармонию и любовь. Сейчас будет задан вопрос о работе, карьере и в других Материальных вещах. Разве я не права ?
Cesar
que tan certero es este sitio?
años atras me registre mas por curiosidad, hoy lo retomo pero no se si comprar la menbresia ya que suele haber muchas estafas con estos temas ... que me dicen de sus experiencias ?
Andy
Agency gives PC to ladies to chat and send letters..not this site but beware MOST!
So I joined another site as a test and right away got the whole "chat with me" invitations at $3 a minute. Then the letters are $3 and the agency of course had a guarantee. I am a smart guy so I looked on VK....found two of the 5 ladies and found they had not written to me at all. In fact they said the agency had done it. It was ANOTHER site...not this one but it highlights the way these agencies work. Only NOW thse lasies suddenly wanted to chat and be honest and have free contact on VK. ..except they both soon got around to $$$. AS IF...because they faked honesty That suddenly I became a fool. Unreal. For every 1 good woman here there are 5 that want cash only. .and I noticed that the women that takes tons of selfies CRAVES MALE ATTENTION. ...NOT THE KIND OF WOMAN TO MARRY. ANYONE ELSE?
Marcos
love and sex
The question of love and sex together is badly formulated in my heart when the woman is a princess. For me love is an entirely separate impulse than sex. If i really love a woman then sexual impulse disappears, it vanishes ! It is strange, but i wouldn’t be able to do sex if the woman is the princess of my dreams. This may last a few days, weeks (maybe months?). Most of times i will not even talk to the women i consider mythological beings. They are fairies, angels, elves, mermaids, goddesses. They can't really exist but if for some reason they do exist, they will not get married with human beings. Except in my dreams. Do somebody have this problem?
Salvador
7 commands for Slavonic Women
Perhaps gentlemen could know about the 7 commands on Slavonic women, or at least it was the title of an interesting article I found in the internet but now it is broken....
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A Russian woman is, above all, a woman. But cultural differences make them different and that is precisely where most of the problems you find yourselves. I want in this post, explain a few ideas that will help you be more clear situation of your communication
I can read only about the next:
1.- Duality
It is a characteristic of the Russian woman where there is a huge difference between normal and his beloved state. What happens in all women, in Russian it becomes even greater, to the point of finding a totally different person when he falls. How difficult is to woo Russia, real and deep woman, but who gets to see what a person will do everything possible for her beloved. You can read you the post of "Decembrists" and you will see how women belonging to the upper class, they followed their men banished to labor camps in Siberia, creating villages around the same locations. They are women prepared for tough and demanding situations that have a concept of loyalty that I have not met other women. However, if the Russian woman is not completely in love, you may maintain a relationship with you but consider the practical side of the cohexistencia. It is easy to fall in love with a Slavic woman, although many of their reactions make us think Westerners, in fact, are in love with us. That's where most of our fall friends, thinking they have already achieved when it is not so. Remember therefore a Russian woman in love, will do anything to be with the person you love, whether you go to a depressed area of India or live in New York. It gives quite the same difficulties and what they have to risk. But, by the same reasoning, be with a woman who is not really in love can cost you serious displeasure at a particular time.
2.- Relations man and woman
Despite the image we all have, the Russian woman, in private, with the man she loves, is more fiery, responsive, passionate, tender and given that even women from other parts of the world. This statement will surprise more than one ... I think the reason is because we have that image for his acting, climate and culture that makes it retracted that our women . It's just that, that coldness that keep the relationship with their environment, which makes for compensation, which are opposite in private
(CLEARLY I DO NOT WANT TO OFFEND WOMEN, I ONLY RETYPE WHAT I HAVE FOUND IN THE INTERNET)
We the men, must have to understand the facts about Slavonic Mindset and cultural difference can not be totally generalized, but we, the men, MUST UNDERSTAND our real reason to be here....
Any Hint????? as to complete this puzzle I like to figure out.... and really understand...... I am very fascinated with it....
New Here
Okay Gentlemen. I am new here anybody have any pointers. Trying to navigate my way around.
Markus
Bevor ich Geld für eine Mitgliedschaft investiere.......Sind die Frauen hier wirklich real???
sind die Frauen hier wirklich real??? Freue mich über euer Feedback
Sergei
Parents.
How often and how soon do you discuss the question of your partner's parents? Any thoughts? Experiences?
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