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Зачем отвечают что знакомятся когда это не так?
Раньше написал это в виде ответа в одной теме, но решли создать тему чтоб было видно.
Редко кто то мне пишет, либо только подмигивание и вот я пишу первым. В основном я первым пишу и отвечают, что ДА хотят знакомиться, НО будто кто то их заставляет мне отвечать либо мне кажется они только издеваются.
Такое ощущение что с компьютером общаешься, пишу и пишу и ответы - ДА,НЕТ, ЯСНО.
либо короткие ответы одним словом, нет обратной связи если так сказать))) Либо задешь вопрос и как ответ получаешь один смайлик - : D .
Зачем заставлять других терять свое время?
Личше бы сказать, нет не хочу с тобой знакомиться и все.
можно расписаться с иностранцем в России и просто уехать как жена?
Добрый день,дамы.У меня к вам вопрос. Скажите,а можно расписаться с иностранцем в России и просто уехать как жена?Если это возможно,то почему все уезжают по визе-невесты и расписываются за границей?
На сколько Дальний Восток России дальний
Живу а замечательном городе Владивостоке, который называют вторым Сан-Франциско. Под боком Япония и Китай. Собственно, вопрос. Как вы считаете, такая география станет помехой мужчинам из-за рубежа доехать за тридевять земель к потенциальной невесте? на самом деле это существенный препон в развитии отношений. Как только узнают, где я живу, делают большие глаза (и, да, я не про японцев)
John
I have been on diffrent sites to find me a nice girl
And ende up her.
I hope this homepage in more right in it mannars to service paying costemers...So far I think it is very very good a service minded..but was also on http://www.online-dating-ukraine.com --Beaware of it..first letter is for free, next will cost between 5-12 USD to open..and 40 USD to get a mail adress...the service provider takes out any information in contact way...even if you have payed to see the letter, it is called PPL...price per letter...and trust me I got 230 letters from very very beautiful girls...I think it is a scam..
So happy to see this works in a real way .....if you dont belive me try it...hold in your USD
December 2015 - Minsk
I found this site in 2014 by recommendation and out of curiosity (I was not actually looking for a partner at the time) I paid for a 1-month membership. I had had no previous experience with ladies from Eastern Europe except for a Russian girlfriend who lives in Germany and is fluent in language and culture. However, on the site I soon made contact with a lovely woman (36) from Lemberg and so I quickly decided to visit her. To my surprise she was a Ukrainian ultra-nationalist supporting the war and the shooting in the east and so I refrained from following up on her after my return. So I invited another beautiful and warm-hearted lady (3😎 from Odessa twice to Germany who simply was not compatible with me, but we remain friends unto this day and we have a lot of mutual respect and care for each other. We are almost like brother and sister.
After that I did not renew my membership and it was only in September 2015 that I subscribed for another month because in the meantime I had started to like and learn the Russian language and became increasingly interested in the culture and history of our Eastern neighbors.
Yesterday I returned from Minsk where I met up with a 37-year old high class beauty from Belarus who was just too beautiful to believe. After several weeks of Skyping, writing, sending flowers and musical gifts for her birthday and sharing dozens of pictures and live videos we decided to meet in her hometown. I arrived by plane, she picked me up and we were smiling and laughing throughout the way from the airport to the city. I had booked a room for 5 nights at "President Hotel" (highly recommendable) in the center and after my check-in we sat down for a capuccino and had a lovely chat in broken English/Russian and with the use of the telephone translator. I had brought some unexpensive but well selected presents for her and even for her beloved cat and we made photos in the lobby smiling and joking all the time. She even sent the photos to her girlfriend and I was very content when I unpacked my bags upstairs in the room.
At night we both got dressed up and by her initiative she came in a taxi ("so we can drink") and we went to her favorite diner called "Bistro De Luxe" (highly recommendable) out in the city for an elegant and romantic dinner. She was dressed in black lace and I wore my best suit. Everything seemed just right. The food was excellent, the mood as well and the conversation funny and charming. She asked me to raise the glass and say a toast to us and I thought I was in heaven (at my advanced age). I can surely say without exaggeration that I don't look my age, I never smoked or drank, I love and practice sports and I don't work hard. )) So I guess that even though she is only 37 and I am 51, nobody in the restaurant would have noticed the 14-year age difference at first glance.
Having studied Russian culture I am well aware of the wants and needs of a Russian (or in this case Belorussian) lady and it goes without saying that I paid for everything, including the taxis and I gave an appropriate tip to the waiters who provided excellent service. At midnight we took a taxi home and even though my hotel was close I insisted on bringing her home first and drive back after she is inside safely. We sat in in the back of the taxi but not close together but rather with a gentleman's distance. We arrived at her flat and she got out, I galantly opened the door and brought her to the stairs of the entrance. I gave her a swift kiss on the cheek and thanked her for the wonderful evening. Back in the hotel in my room we exchanged some nice messages wishing us a good night sleep and both looking forward to our meeting the next day.
She is running her own small business in Minsk and after an early morning hour at work she picked me up in the hotel and we decided to go to the museum. Inside I noticed for the first time that she was somehow annoyed by our impossibility to communicate directly without the help of our mobile interpreter. I had studied Russian on my own for a few months but I was still a beginner and her English was not much better but I had promised that I would learn her language in record time if we find a way together. I fluently speak and write Spanish, Italian and English and I have a knack for languages but of course Russian is very heavy and different. However, I already read and write all 33 Cyrillic letters.
When we left the museum she asked me if I wanted to go for lunch. I was undecided and said, "if you like we can go, but I am not hungry yet". She looked at me upset and lifted her voice saying, "What now?! You want to eat or not?!" I was surprised and asked, what's going on? She refused to answer, made a condescending hand sign and drove to the nearest restaurant visibly pouting. During lunch she played with her phone and sent messages to other people. All of a sudden her mood was changed and she acted as if she had become less interested in me. I am aware of the swinging moods women sometimes have and remained confident about us and was looking forward to our next date where we planned to go skating and probably meet her friends at a Karaoke bar at night.
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I will now make a long story short and say that except for one fleeting hour I have not seen her again after that flawed lunch together. She completely avoided me for 2 days, left me stranded at the hotel with no information or valid explanation about what's going on, simply saying that she was "busy" because there were "some problems at work" and she was "tired". I immediately knew that I was losing her and wanted to know what happened. She refused to give me any clear information, even reprimanding me by writing that she does not like "men who take offense".
When I read that message a lump went down my stomach. I started to feel like a complete idiot but I knew that I had done nothing wrong so at least my conscience was clear. In my memory I recalled that I had been a gentleman to her at all times and I decided to let this story that was beginning to fail, end like a gentleman. I was able to convince her to pick me up for a late coffee one day before my return and during that unpleasant hour she had a bad mood, hardly looked at me, sighed in annoyance, yelled at me for no reason, changed tables twice and constantly looked at the clock. The conversation dragged and I was trying to show her my sympathy despite her bad behavior but before I was ready to go she brazenly demanded the check and I paid. Disenchanted and disillusioned I went back to my hotel room and spent another long and boring 36 hours until my flight finally brought me back to Frankfurt. I must admit that on the last day I called my longtime pen pal from this site in Baranovichi and we decided to meet spontaneously a few hours before my departure. I took a taxi in the middle of the night after my host in Minsk had even failed to tell me goodbye. She didn't bother to come to the hotel for a quick hug and a smile that would have cost her nothing and so I had to write her to say goodbye shortly before I got on the taxi to Baranovichi. On Saturday evening I arrived at 23:30 and I spent the remaining time with my pen pal who was overly friendly, warm-hearted and sympathetic with me. I didn't want to meet her before because I was emotionally too depressed and felt it would be a betrayal if went to see her. I only did so after everything was lost. We had a long nocturnal conversation in a bar and she also had no explanation for the outrageous behavior of my "host" from Minsk.
I cannot describe everything that went through my mind in those 5 days in Minsk. We had planned to visit the interesting monuments and sites and even though I loved the city and the people I hardly got to see any of it because she had no respect or consideration for me after day two and treated me like the famous "red headed stepchild" or more appropriately "like a dog".
Shame on her for fooling me, shame on me for letting her fool me. During the few Viber messages we wrote while I was alone waiting for her to write or show up, I was able to get a few sprinkled, isolated and possibly unreflected comments from her like, "I felt nothing", "I cannot kiss you if I don't want it" but that's about everything she had to say to me. She would even mock me by saying, "there was a risk" trying to justify her dishonorable behavior without realizing that the risk was for both of us and not only for me. Now I was the only one to bear the consequences. I was the one who had left work for a week in my most lucrative month of the year, I was the one who took a Lufthansa flight to Minsk, I was the one who stayed in the 5-star hotel that she had recommended (without being rich, well-off or heir of thousand fortunes), I was the one who didn't speak enough Russian to find a solution for my "solitary confinement", I was the one who brought presents and sacrificed my reputation after my return where all my friends wanted to know what happened. This list goes on and on.
I am not a child and my self esteem is still intact because I know I had done nothing wrong and I had given my best to make it succeed. There is definitely something wrong with her and it seems as if she is not aware of what she has done to me. But she is missing a point that I clarify by modifying a famous Bible quote: "What you do to the least of your brothers, you do to yourself".
The disrepectful comments from my friends and my son I will not distribute here but you can imagine that some of the things they said are not only rude and emotional but true and justified.
However, I feel sorry. I feel sorry for her because for me she has a wounded heart, she is a lost soul, a person who is deeply immersed in her own selfishness, a narcicist with no remorse or empathy. I am afraid I believe she will not be happy ever, not have children (at least not in a stable relationship) and never find real love. In Minks she yelled at me twice for no reason and when I confronted her she replied, "when did I yell at you?". It seems as if she is not reflecting her own actions as her empathy for me was completely absent. On the last day she sanctimoniously offered "friendship" but she had treated me like an enemy and I cannot be friends with someone who disrespects and despises me so openly.
I wish her peace, happiness, insight and self-reflection but most of all I wish her love. There is no way that I am such an unattractive man who she feels nothing about after that wonderful first evening and all the time before where our hearts and souls were close and we appreciated and cared for each other. I had my chance, I lost it but she lost a chance too. I was not in love with her yet but I was ready for everything. It shouldn't be.
I finish this tragic account by posting the words of one of my favorite jazz ballads "I Wish You Love":
www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Ikb5WMI9GU
Goodbye
No use leading with our chins
This is where our story ends
Never lovers, never friends
Goodbye
Let our hearts call it a day
But before you walk away
I sincerely want to say
I wish you
Bluebirds in the spring
To give your heart a song to sing
And then a kiss but more than this
I wish you love
And in July, a lemonade
To cool you in some leafy glade
I wish you health but more than wealth
I wish you love
My breaking heart and I agree
That you and I could never be
So with my best, my very best
I set you free
I wish you shelter from the storm
A cozy fire to keep you warm
But most of all when snowflakes fall
I wish you love
***
Farewell...
Встречи в Киеве!
Подскажите пожалуйста, на этом сайте познакомилась с мужчиной, вроде хорошо общаемся! Он скоро приезжает в Киев и приглашает меня туда на встречу! Посоветуйте мне как правильно это организовать и как себя вести! Пишет что все оплачивает! Не хочу оказаться в западне или показать себя как то не правильно! Буду рада слышать Ваши мнения!
Tatyana
Мой возраст.
Я не в том возрасте, чтобы неосознанно делать глупости. Люблю свой возраст. И тем вызываю по доброму ревность у тех, кто моложе.Ломаю, взрываю свою повседневность и пусть мой оптимизм разжигает костер. Жизнь слишком коротка, чтобы тратить ее на бессмысленные отношения.
Tatyana
почему бы и нет )
уважаемые менеджеры !
а нельзя ли сделать геолокацию на сайте ??)
очень удобная вещь - фантазеров как рукой снимет!!))))
я тут давеча , провела разведку - есть ли жизнь за забором ?)
есть !!! на соседнем сайте - форум ...
тишина и мертвые .... темы заблокированных вокруг )))
как в 37 году побывала )) вот это цензура !!!
говорят - там много наших " зарубили")
у нас - рай )))))
единственно что понравилось - геолокация !!!
если возможно такое устроить - всем жителям сайта , будет бOOOльшая помощь !
не живота своего ради
за Державу радею ( то бишь сайт))))
Makis
Irina
Как сделать шенген Визу, на месяц? я из Киева
В Августе хотела открыть Шенген,требуют справку с работы,деньги на счёте. можно как то купить эту визу? Хелп!
Two questions
For both male and female members, nothing serious I am just interested in discussion and viewpoints:
1. on here are you hunter or prey? or a bit of each?
2. what is your response when you receive a wink or message from somebody that you are not interested in or somebody who is clearly not suitable for you?
Actually 3 questions:
3. what the hell is the point of a wink? We are all adults on here, if you cannot say something to the person you want to contact, then why do you want to contact them?
Irina
И снова о деньгах...о меркантильности...
Тема избитая, но читая форум не могу промолчать. Девушки, давайте не будем спрашивать у мужчин о доходах, чтобы о нас не думали и не говорили, что ищем заморских женихов ради их денег.Во-первых, это не прилично даже среди наших соотечественников,уймите свое любопытство,во-вторых, если это серьезные отношения вам сами все расскажут и покажут, предложат помощь и купят билеты и все прочее... Ей богу, стыдно читать, когда начинают интересоваться материальной стороной на начальном этапе знакомства, этим вы и отпугиваете мужчин и у них складывается одинаковое впечатление о всех русских женщинах. Жадные и меркантильные...но ведь не все...Желаю удачи.
Почему мне не пишет никто?
Смотрю на свои фото, читаю свою анкету.. Нормальная симпатичная женщина. Что я делаю не так, почему мне никто не пишет? Подскажите!
Give rest to the body and soul
Ekadasi for the happiness of the soul and health to the body.
Regardless of the religious concept.
Today Ekadasi - eleventh day of the waning moon. Probably everyone knows what it is.
And maybe someone does not know about the existence of two wonderful days in the lunar calendar. These days, the very nature of the universe, and help us get the harmony of soul and cleanse the body of toxins, disease, suffering, cleanse mental the dirt.
This day gives us two large flow: energy of degradation and energy of creation.
When we do a post we are building a life and when we do not do a post, we are destroying life. Ignorance of the laws of nature does not relieve us from the responsibility.
You may notice that this is a very provocative day, to quarrel, offense, fight, overeat, oversleep, be lazy, and even more so.
But when we know that the bears in itself this day, we can easily counter the negative emotions and actions, and a better understanding of other people.
This spiritual endeavor which we commit to improve their lives, improve their character and their health.
On this day, it is recommended to observe fasting. Fasting can be different. You may choose the post which will be able to perform: the dry fasting, water fasting, fasting on juices, fasting on fruits, fasting on fruits and vegetables, dairy products are permitted.
Six months later, the body tells us the day before, he was ready to stay in silence, without food and drink. Our body thanks us for such a gift for him, as we do not interfere in it at all.
Devin
What is wrong with the girls on this site?
Back in 2008, I was on this site before, there was a lot of girls that were friendly and interesting on this site. Now seven years later, it seems that girls on here are stuck up and unfriendly. I got blocked for no reason for just saying hello. Being on this site before, I see familiar faces on this site... And now the site is overrun by young stuck up girls that are born in the 1990's that just want to promote their self esteem. Please don't write to my mail, I'm just stating my opinion. It seems like over the years the girls on this site have definitely changed. Russian girls have better personality than this from my past experiences on this site(in different times) Now on this site, I just see a bunch of American wannabes. For the young girls on this site... Why can't you all join a social network and put your baggage there? This is a dating site, not a game site. If you want to block me just because of the color of my skin then do it... But you don't know nothing about me. Also, if you don't want to talk to the guy anymore... Let him know... Don't abandon the correspondence. Stop promoting your self esteem. What happened here!?
Natalya
Как сделать процесс расставания максимально безблезненным?
На сайте во многих темах обсуждается характер первого письма и последующей переписки, построение взаимоотношений в виртуальном мире.
А я недавно на просторах интернета читала статью о том, как расставаться в реальном мире. Расставание само по себе очень тяжело. Как сделать его максимально безболезненным, пощадив чувства еще недавно дорогого Вам человека? А как прекратить виртуальные отношения? Как прекратить переписку? Как корректно дать понять человеку, что он не интересен? Нужно ли давать отрицательные ответы на предложение переписки или лучше вообще не отвечать? Поделитесь собственным опытом! Какие Вы слова находили, если были инициатором прекращения отношений? Напишите, как бы Вы предпочли, чтобы с Вами расстались, если расставание неизбежно! И нужно ли после прекращения близких отношений (виртуальных или реальных) поддерживать контакт? Мнение мужчин по этому поводу тоже интересно. Ведь они, как и мы,бывают по обеим сторонам этого процесса.
вопрос о выплате пенсии в случае переезда на постоянное место жительства
Хочу обратиться к форумчанкам с Украины. Возможно, кто-то имеет информацию, как выплачивается украинская пенсия при переезде на постоянное место жительство в другую страну? Или при получении гражданства другой страны? Насколько мне известно, Украина заключила двусторонние договора с некоторыми странами(их около 20), согласно которым при переезде пенсия сохраняется. Но перечень этих стран мне неизвестен. Буду очень благодарна тем, кто сможет поделиться информацией.
Недвижимость за рубежом
Очень много полезной информации попадается в отдельных топиках по приобретению недвижимости за рубежом. Но много полезнее было бы иметь ее в отдельной теме.
Из того что я усвоила
1) в Греции можно получить вид на жительство при покупке от 250 тыс евро
2) в Венгрии можно тоже получить вид на жительство при покупке недвижимости причем что-то нормальное можно подобрать за 50 тыс евро
3) В Эстонии можно найти неликвидные квартиры от 2 тыс евро и без проблем получать годовой мультишенген
4) очень удобная вещь апарт отель, и квартира, и управлять проще
Оформление страхового полиса
Вопрос к киевлянкам Подскажите, пожалуйста, где в Киеве можно оформить страховой полис для получения шенгенской визы (желательно, чтобы страховая компания была недалеко от визового центра посольства Франции)? И где можно перевести документы?
Maria
Elena
Если в браке с иностранцем принято решение жить вместе в России...
... не станет ли это препятствием для получения визы в страну мужа? Любой визы: туристической, бизнес, гостевой.
Я сталкивалась с информацией, что после регистрации брака в России с гражданином из стран ЕС или США, жена может въехать туда только по визе на воссоединение семьи для постоянного проживания. Мне самой очень нравится мысль жить в Москве и путешествовать вместе, работать с разными странами. Шенген - территория, от которой не могу отказаться, очень она привлекательна для путешествий.
С другой стороны, для семьи важна возможность видеться с близкими с обеих сторон. Когда дети рождаются, они могут получить гражданство мужа в посольстве его страны. А вот как им объяснить, что мама не въездная и не может с ними вместе и с папой навестить других бабушку, дедушку, кузенов и родные места папы? Это все очень важно для семьи.
Если кто-нибудь знает, как решается вопрос по дальнейшему въезду, поделитесь мыслями и информацией, пожалуйста.
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Апостиль
Дорогие,друзья! Подскажите, пожалуйста,при регистрации брака на Кипре от граждан России какие требуются документы и на всех ли документах нужен апостиль.В каком порядке оформляются документы для постановке апостиля,сначала перевод+нотариус+апостиль или копия+апостиль+перевод+нотариус+апостиль или существует другая форма.Буду благодарна за информацию.Будьте любимы !
Tatyana
"Гостевой брак": возможно ли?!
Friends! Could you give me your opinion or experience. I could not find a similar theme in the forum. I have a friend who is lonely and wants to get married. She has an adult son (14 years old). In addition, it has made some career (not business). Disappointed with the men, she drew attention to Western men in search of love. She asked about the prospects of the groom search through the Internet. However, expecting a sharp replace to another country entail a lot of negative effects from the loss of a career and the need to leave her son in the care of parents, she is primarily interested in "guest marriage" when he or she will come to each other's a long time, but without life together all time. Of course, sooner or later, it will be necessary to decide this issue, but not immediately, after a long period of time when it will be clear that this is exactly that man with whom you want to live life. What do you think, is there a prospect? There is a sense or need to leave tries?
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Друзья! Не могли бы Вы поделиться своим мнением или опытом. Не смогла найти подобной темы на форуме.
У меня есть подруга, которая одинока и хочет выйти замуж. У нее есть взрослый сын (14 лет). Кроме того, она сделала некоторую карьеру (не в бизнесе). Разочаровавшись в мужчинах, она обратила внимание на западных мужчин в поиске любви. Спросила о перспективах поиска жениха через интернет. Однако, ожидая, что резкий переезд в другую страну может повлечь за собой много негативных последствий от потери карьеры и до необходимости оставить сына на попечение родителей, ее, прежде всего, интересует "гостевой брак", когда она или он будут приезжать друг к другу на длительное время, не переезжая навсегда. Конечно, рано или поздно надо будет решать этот вопрос, но не сразу, по прошествии некоторого длительного времени, когда будет понятно, что это именно тот человек, с которым хочется прожить всю жизнь.
Как Вы думаете, есть ли перспектива? Имеется смысл или нужно оставить и продолжал ей жить в одиночестве? Имеет ли ее позиция право на существование?
Vita
Поделитесь опытом....
Девочки,кто из Крыма???Подскажите пожалуйста ,как лучше сделать Шенген??Летом собираюсь в Италию.Раньше делала через Украину.Сейчас Крым стал Россией,как быть?Слышала,что кто подавал в России,много отказов.С чего начать,не знаю.
С чего начать разговор
Возможно Вам покажется мой вопрос банальным, но все же поделитесь опытом. Если писать первой, то с чего начать разговор? Банальное: "Привет!" и "Как дела? уж так набило всем оскомину, что даже, если парень ответит, тем же приветом и все ок, разговор зайдет в тупик, поскольку дальше то что? Пожалуйста поделитесь, дайте совет, как не зайти в тупик в самом начале знакомства.
Gulmira
Есть ли шанс встретить свою вторую половинку на сайте знакомств?
У меня такой наболевший вопрос, есть ли шанс встретить свою вторую половинку на сайте знакомств, если Я в жизни не могу встретить парня, то найду ли Я в интернете? И есть ли смысл регистрироваться?
Finding the right one
After being on this site for a couple of months there are a few things that I wish to discuss.
It is only natural that we find attraction with ours eyes first and our hearts second. I have encountered several people that want to find a mate so much, that they want to skip getting to know each other. I believe that everyone joins this site for the same reason. To find their soul mate, lifes partner, and love of their life. I know that after many years of not having a significant other in my life, I have come to realize that I miss that very much. This site may not produce the relationship I yearn for. But I am here to find out.
To me communications are everything. If the people are in such a dire hurry that they do not wish to get to know the people they are attracted to, how will they know for sure they have found the right mate. If communications do not go great and in harmony, I will quickly lose interest. I am already divorced and lonely, so why would I want to go down that path again. I want harmony and hope the next person I hold dearest to my heart is until death do us part.
I can not speak for all, but some issues I have found with profiles are as follows. I want to find my mate based on who I truly am. Not a batch of pictures that were taked by a professional that glamorize me and present me to be something that I am not. I have the utmost respect for the people I have reviewed that show pictures that are true to who they are. I personally wish to get to know someone through the communications we have with letters first. There is a lot to be learned with the responses we have to each other. The old saying that opposites attract, is not what I am seeking. I seek the person that makes me whole, and that I make whole. I also appreciate current pictures. It takes away the wasted time spent wondering what the other person really looks like. If we are not honest with the information we post, them everything about us is based on non truths. Not the kind of relationship I am seeking. Trust is free. But once it is broken it can never be retrieved.
I know I can be narrow minded. It is one of my faults but I can live with that. As I stated before. The eyes lead and the heart follows. I have entered into my profile what I am interested in as a basic description. I get a lot of responses from people that do not fit within those basic descriptions. I do realize that I may be overlooking that right person for me but it is one of the risk I am willing to take. Do I respond? I fell compiled as a gentleman to do so. Do I respond with the truth when most of the time the truth is outlined in my reposes on the profile? No, I do not. I do not wish to offend anyone.
I look forward to responses to this post. It is never to late to learn and grow. I am totally open to that process.
With best wishes and wariest regards,
Gerald
Ludmila
как вы это делаете???
Всем привет!! С Новым Годом !!!
Девчёнки,которые нашли здесь свою вторую половинку,подскажите,как вы это делали.
Я на этом сайте уже давно и никого не встретила
Хотя ,может со мной что не так.
Спасибо!
Ali
about love
about love , Can be, but difficult to find !!
This is my opinion , what about all ?
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